Advice on role playing needed please!
Q. Hi everyone. I want to do role play with my boyfriend and I've already bought the outfit. I want to be a slutty nurse... could anyone give me any advise on what to do and say. I have done a bit of role play before but never done it properly. Any t...
A. 21 April 2010: are you role playing doctor and nurse or patient nurse? you could use toys or props to help but beyond that it really is up to you and what you're comforable with doing, if you're doing patient and nurse try something along the lines of "I need to ... (read in full...)
Bleeding during pregnancy
Q. Heys. I read that during pregnancy you can have bleeding that is similar to menstruation bleeding. But are there also pains in that case and if there are, are they the same kind of pains or do they feel diferent? Basically is there anything that ...
A. 14 April 2010: Menstuation you normally bleed at a certain time each month and there is normally a set amount of time between each period. If you bleed outside this time then it is possible you could be bleeding in pregnancy, of course you can't confirm this until ... (read in full...)
He's letting our relationship slide because he has to have at least 6 hours of gaming a day
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for over 2 years. he has recently got back into n online game, world of warcraft. he plays non stop all day - i mean wake up at 8am to play and play till 12am, if i am at his house he will play from around...
A. 6 February 2010: My Boyfriend is really into his games too, fortunately not WOW or I would have gone mad when we first started going out. How long has he been back into his gameing? If it's only been a few weeks he's still revelling in the newness of it all. My... (read in full...)
During sex I decided it wasnt right..was that rape?
Q. I met up with this guy and concented to sex...then during sex I decided this wasnt right and asked him repeatedly to stop....he didnt, I even tried moving but I wasnt strong enough, when it was all over I just let it go and stayed the night....I ...
A. 9 October 2009: Well in the UK legally speaking consent can be revoked at any time and he MUST STOP.
I don't know what the American Law is but i'd imagine that it's the same. So yes this was rape. Report him.... (read in full...)
I've dated, inpregnated, in love with, and proposing marriage to a possible half sister!
Q. hi. i'm 23, male, and looking for some advice for a situation that could be really great, or really awkward. i was adopted and raised an only child. i had a vague recollection of my birth mother having another child before me, by a different bio ...
A. 10 August 2009: As far as I'm aware there's no REQUIREMENT for a blood test to be done for you to get married however it would be a good idea to get one done anyway because as rare as the birth defects to a child born of close relatives is they do exist, and you'll ... (read in full...)
I woke up to find my boyfriend having sex with me, could this be considered rape?
Q. I hope you can help! I woke up the other night to find by boyfriend having sex with me. He said that i had touched him and he thought I wanted sex. I feel used and hurt. Was this rape or am I being stupid? ...
A. 9 August 2009: simple answer is no, it's not unless he didn't stop once you told him to.... (read in full...)
She perfers us talking in person
Q. I have a male friend who is in need of some assistance on this girl he likes. He has liked her for a long time. They've been best friends for three years. Right now, he's away at college for the summer, and he's planning to come back for the ...
A. 6 August 2009: Sorry to say but it sounds like she's going to break up with him. At least she's got the decency to do it face to face rather than dropping numerous obvious hints online or via text then refusing to talk to him. I could be wrong and she wants to... (read in full...)
He did it on purpose! I don't want to be pregnant
Q. i really need help guys! pls. pls. pls..... me and my boyfriend had sex 3x. the first one is the night when i got home then the morning and the last one was when we arrived home back from the mall. the 2x we did it, he withdraw it just in time bef...
A. 6 August 2009: If it's been 72 hrs or less since you had sex then take the morning after pill. If it has been more then i'm afraid there's not a lot you can do. Don't worry too much yet, if your period is two weeks late then go see your doctor and have a pregnancy ... (read in full...)
Seeing her for 10 months, making a ring for her, good idea? Any other gift ideas?
Q. hi, im 16 and my gf is 15, we've been goin out for ten months now, and we're goin back to school in a few weeks. we really miss eachother, and i really wanna make it special when we i see her, so i started making her a ring, yes, making one. ...
A. 6 August 2009: A ring is a lovely idea however it still has powerful implications to some people. I would be more inclined to go for a necklace instead that she could wear close to her heart, especially as it's only been 10 months and your only 15 and 16. Knight ... (read in full...)
I've been avoiding sex because I'm afraid of being compared to her other 30 partner!
Q. I have a girlfriend and we have been official for just over a month now. I've known her for 3 years prior to getting involved with her. She is a lovely person, and I'm so glad we are together, but she recently confided in me that she has slept with ...
A. 31 July 2009: Just because she's had 30 different men and you have only have 3 relationships doesn't mean that you are unexperienced compared to her, you can see it as you having had the time to hone your technique for each woman so you know what the signs are ... (read in full...)
I can't feel a thing during sex! What is wrong with me?
Q. I can't feel a thing when i have sex. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year and we have regular sex. I have tried everything, different positions, toys, getting him to touch my clit where it feels good when i do it but it doesn't work. ...
A. 28 July 2009: well the fact you can't feel the toys (which btw if u use a vibrator are larger than the average penis)may raise some concern. First try these and if still nothing i suggest going to see your GP or Gynacologist.
Is he pressing firmly enough w... (read in full...)
Sibling sex
Q. Hi, i read a post about a brother and sister having sex, at first i thought it was wrong but a lot of the replys where people that have had sex with there siblings and enjoyed it, and didn't have any long turm negative effects from it. Now i can't ...
A. 28 July 2009: GinsengMeow has very neatly sumarised how to make the arguements in a none bias way. Have you studied law or critical thinking????
To the topic- Incest in illegal in your country, mainly due to the increased possibility of birth defects in any c... (read in full...)
Should my man be contributing more towards the house?
Q. Hi Can you please help me: I have a boyfriend of 9 years, we have lived together for 7 years. I have three children who are now 17,18 and 19 years old. I have my own business for 6 years now; which has been very good but is getting harder. ...
A. 26 July 2009: If you want him to contribute then your going to have to ask him, as it is clearhe is never going to offer to contribute otherwise, personally I thinkhe sounds a bit like the character Scrooge from a christmas carol, he's hording all his money and ... (read in full...)
I don't think she should be shouting at me when I'm pregnant with all these hormones!
Q. I have always got on really well with my boyfriends mother. Only recently she has really started to piss me off!! I help her out when me and my boyfriend stay at her house for the ocational weekend with the decorating and stuff. We have always g...
A. 22 July 2009: you go girl, no one should take any kind of abuse from their partners, pregnant or not!!! Your boyfriends mum is probably a mixture of been annoyed at herself, self pitying and envious of you for having the balls to do what she never could. Sta... (read in full...)
Morning after first time sex and I'm sick! what could it be?
Q. okay so you dont need details so i wont make this too long!.. but yesterday my parents went away and because im an only child, i didnt want to be alone for the first night, so my boyfriend (of almost a year) stayed over. we got a film, pizza etc.. ...
A. 16 July 2009: I had exactly the same problem 1st time i had sex. Morning after i was throwing up and feeling right aweful, it went away in the afternoon and i have been fine everytime since, was it kind of rough, if so he may have been pounding against your ... (read in full...)
When did you start dating / when were you allowed to start dating?
Q. Heyy! I was just wondering, what age did you start dating/were allowed to date?? Because I have had a crush on the same boy (we are both 15) for a few years now, but my mum said that even sixth formers (16-18yrs)only have a boy/girlfriend for a 'f...
A. 11 June 2009: My parents never set any boundaries as far as when i could start dating, but i had my 1st boyfriend at 14 and it lasted for about a year. It's all about the individual... (read in full...)
What do you think? Is chivalry really dead or do gentlemen still exits?
Q. I am a big fan of classic period dramas and books such as Pride and Prejudice and North and South. I love how women are treated in this era and how men are respectable gentlemen. I know i am not alone in this thought and that many women love ...
A. 30 May 2009: Closest I've come to the typical gentleman is my boyfriendxx. He does everything from holding doors open to kissing me on the hand when paying me a compliment. Though he says a lot of guys don't do that sort of thing because of extreme feminist... (read in full...)
Do you like it when a guy kisses you all over?
Q. Girls and ladies only! Do you like it when a guy kisses you all over? And where? ie. cheeks, lips, neck, ear, part of chest. I do it all over, so is this creepy or just passionate coz i alter the pace from very soft to all over :P please tell me...
A. 30 May 2009: Neck and collarbone are great and down my stomach to the bikini line ;D... (read in full...)
Should I tell my dad I'm dating? He won't let me out...
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. i love him alot and i know he loves me too. the problem is that my dad doesnt know about us. i wasnt allowed to date until i turned 16 and i already did so im allowed to have one by his set of rules. ...
A. 30 May 2009: Why not try calmly sitting down with your dad and ask him to listen to you without interupting. Tell him that you have a boyfriend,that it's serious, that you want his approval but that he needs to understand that whilst you appreciate his protecti... (read in full...)
In my mind I feel I am pregnant but I'm not really sure!
Q. Hello...i have a question about whether or not i could be pregnant....I have had unprotected sex several times in this month of may. I usually tend to have irregular periods. I began my period of May 20 in which was the same day I also had had sex. ...
A. 29 May 2009: The earliest any home test can give a reasonably accurate reading is 6 days before your first missed period.Either wait a few weeks till about 18th June and take another test or go and see your doctor.... (read in full...)
Controlling, disrespectful boyfriend -- or am I overreacting?
Q. I have been living with my boyfriend for 2 years. We actually knew each other 3 yrs prior just as friends talking. Well, I have many things that I consider a red flag. When we moved in together he became very jealous. He would accuse of doing things ...
A. 29 May 2009: Get out get out get out now!!! He is abusive and unloving and it would not surprise me in the slightest if he started hitting you. You're seeing red flags for a reason.... (read in full...)
He's moody and quiet at times, and doesn't show any affection around our friends, what can I do to help him?
Q. I have been going out with a guy for almost three months now and everything was going great we fight a little but every relationship has some bumpy roads in it. But we were together with some friends and it was akward. We didn't hold hands or even ...
A. 26 May 2009: Maybe he's just shy abowing about showing affection in public try talking see if thats the problem... (read in full...)
I really like this guy and just wanna know how to do the whole kissing process.
Q. Okay you guys so, me and my bf have been dating for 3 months now and we haven't kissed or anything. So tommorrow is the last day of school and i really want to do it but idk like how to you know get him close enough to kiss him. And also I've never ...
A. 21 May 2009: Why not try hugging him first, then whilst still in his arms lean back and kiss him gently on the lips for a few seconds then pull back. He'll ,most likely either kiss you back or will move in for his own kiss. Hope that helps x... (read in full...)
So what's the big deal about viginity?
Q. Okay so this really isn't a question. Truth is I don't see why people make such a big deal about sex and virginity. I don't find it such a big deal losing it. I mean I'm 16 I'm still a virgin and I believe that you know you should wait until you ...
A. 20 May 2009: Hey I thought exactly the same as you- what's the big deal it's just sex.
I lost mine in a one night stand after a night out(but i hadn't been drinking)and I regreted it afterwards.
Your virginity is such an emotional and personal thing to giv... (read in full...)
Paranoid that my boyfriend will cheat on me!
Q. Can anyone please help me with this fear i have that my boyfriend will cheat on me when he goes out with his mates. He doesnt handle drink well and doesnt know when to stop and ends up acting a right knob and not remembering what he gets up to. He ...
A. 20 May 2009: STOP! Breathe!
Your boyfriend has never cheated on you before in your 18 month relationship, even when drunk, it's unlikely that he'll start now.
Is he mates with the lads he's going out with? Can they hold their drink better?
If they can... (read in full...)
He was a manwhore..do you think he still is?
Q. hey there!, Well there is this guy i dated back a few months ago and well we broke up cuz he lives 2 hours away but now he is moving down soon, well he was sorta a man whore in 8th grade and now hes in 9th and he told me he isnt like that anymore ...
A. 20 May 2009: My guess is that he is still dating his "ex" and is trying to hide from her that he's trying to get with you too. Does she live where he lives at the moment? If so I'm afraid he's probably using you as he won't have his "ex".... (read in full...)
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