Bennefits of Porn
Q. Hi: I have read a lot of negative things at forums about the dangers and evil of PORN (OMG) and wish to offer my perspective on Porn. When I got caught up in Porn, it was not because something was missing in my current marriage. I just liked ...
A. 25 October 2010: I think the discussion would be further advanced if we arrived first at a clearer idea of what porn really is. From what I've read thus far, it seems that those opposing porn keep reiterating the (potential) bad effects of porn--with or without ... (read in full...)
Bennefits of Porn
Q. Hi: I have read a lot of negative things at forums about the dangers and evil of PORN (OMG) and wish to offer my perspective on Porn. When I got caught up in Porn, it was not because something was missing in my current marriage. I just liked ...
A. 19 October 2010: Porn has been blamed for anything ranging from extramarital affairs to divorce, but notice that in places like France and Japan, where nudity and/or porn is more pervasive, the divorce rates are much lower, especially in Japan. Before lashing... (read in full...)
Trying to make a change!
Q. When the questions are coming into your head, and they're destined to be answered. Maybe a young shy girl who may have had a bit of reality, can try to give you a helpful hypothesis. So why does our planet revolve around the center of Drugs, Crime, ...
A. 18 October 2010: Yes, indeed. You see a lot more than folks much older than you do. I remember when I was at your age, I already started thinking about serious issues such as death. I was kind of a melancholic youth. I read a lot of Charles Dickens (in the ... (read in full...)
Feeling insecure about my relationship with her now.
Q. I fell in love with a 19 years old girl for 2 months now and we seemed to get along very well. She also loves me. We had an argument lately and she said she wanted to break up with me. I didn't take her for serious but then, I found out that a ...
A. 18 October 2010: It is an exception rather than the rule that a relationship between a 50+ old man and a 19 year old girl can ever work out. The closest example I can think of is Woody Allen and his latest love. Allen at 56 was known to have been romantically ... (read in full...)
Doubts about God and his laws regarding my relationships with partners
Q. Hi guys, I need some relationship advise concerned with Christianity. I am a protestant Christian, but i'm having trouble getting a relationship with god. Sometimes i'm afraid that he's not real and i am wasting my time and the whole bible thin...
A. 18 October 2010: It is not possible to discuss the complex theological and philosophical issues surrounding the existence and the experience of God on this forum.
I can only say that from the point of view of relationships, it is difficult for two people to work ... (read in full...)
He hits me saying its the only way I'll shut up
Q. Hi i just would like some advice from someone i have been with my partner for 4years and we have child that is 5months but he is really horrible sometimes and hits me he say it is the only way i will shut up and i feel like i deserved it i want to ...
A. 17 October 2010: Do you know how much we agony aunts here want you to hold you and say to you in no uncertain terms, "Gal, you really need to get the hell out of there!"
You are rationalizing. This man is sucking the life out of you and is using the baby to ... (read in full...)
What constitutes actually losing your virginity?
Q. There are many questions posted about losing virginity on this board? But I want to know exactly what it means by losing virginity. (1)Penetration of the penis into the vagina, with the result that the woman's hymen is broken. For both the mal...
A. 17 October 2010: Dear anonymous (at 14),
I really can't speak on your belief, since I grew up in different times. But if you believe that virginity matters to you, or--putting it in a different way--that maintaining some kind of sexual boundary is importan... (read in full...)
He hits me saying its the only way I'll shut up
Q. Hi i just would like some advice from someone i have been with my partner for 4years and we have child that is 5months but he is really horrible sometimes and hits me he say it is the only way i will shut up and i feel like i deserved it i want to ...
A. 16 October 2010: There is no way you should say you feel like you deserve being hit. As others have already pointed out, you need to get out of there. You are putting your life and your kid's life in danger.
It strikes me that you have an unhealthy co-depen... (read in full...)
What constitutes actually losing your virginity?
Q. There are many questions posted about losing virginity on this board? But I want to know exactly what it means by losing virginity. (1)Penetration of the penis into the vagina, with the result that the woman's hymen is broken. For both the mal...
A. 16 October 2010: Thank you all for your interesting responses. It seems all of you agree that virginity is lost for both parties involved in penile-vaginal sex.
In the case of anal sex, it also seems clear at least to most of you that a female cannot call her... (read in full...)
How can I overcome being shy?
Q. I am a very shy person when I'm around people. I would like to know how I can overcome being shy? I am not go at socialize and starting a conversation. I feel like sometimes I don't fit in the crowd sometimes; I feel like I am boring....
A. 13 October 2010: People who don't know me well might not know that I am actually a private shy person. I just present myself to others as an extravert, because this is what my profession requires--I need to speak to roomful of students every work day. I cannot ... (read in full...)
He's an Atheist, I'm not. I love him but we have a few issues...
Q. I was raised a Catholic but during my early teen years, I started researching everything I could about religion because life made little sense to me. At 18, I don't go to church, don't practice anything but the belief that there is something more ...
A. 13 October 2010: It seems that although you are not religious in the traditional sense, i. e., in the sense of organized religions, you are religious in a different way. But he is definitely not. To use the words of Paul Tillich (a Protestant theologian), you and ... (read in full...)
Raised my stepdaughter as my real child up until I caught her having sex
Q. I am 44 and have been happily married for 10 years. I have no children of my own, but my wife has a daughter from a previous marriage. I love her to death and raised her as my own since she was 6 years old. She is now 16, turning 17 in 2 months ...
A. 13 October 2010: This is one of those horrors that one never sees coming. Once you got this image sticking in your head, you could never see yourself as the kind of father to a daughter you've always loved. Now she is turned into a sexual object. I agree with the ... (read in full...)
I need guy's advice on why this guy just dropped me
Q. Hi all, I really need some male advice because I am in an awful situtation. I feel like I am in living hell, I am trying so hard to get through each day but I need an answer..:( Basically, guy a year, he was my best friend and we were so in love. In...
A. 12 October 2010: I don't have sufficient details regarding your situation. But it looks as if you've got a double blow, first the passing of your dad and then this breakup with him.
You said he was your best friend, but are you sure the two of you were in love? Is... (read in full...)
I'm a near perfect husband! Why has she left me?
Q. My wife of 2 years (together for 7) moved out about 2 months ago because she needed time to find herself and learn to love herself. After that, things spiraled downward drastically. A man she met on a trip earlier this summer visited her the very ...
A. 11 October 2010: You shouldn't blame yourself for being non-spontaneous or compare yourself to that online professor of hers. Actually, my situation is the reverse. I am the spontaneous kind of guy and my wife is the non-spontaneous one. We started out having ... (read in full...)
I'm a near perfect husband! Why has she left me?
Q. My wife of 2 years (together for 7) moved out about 2 months ago because she needed time to find herself and learn to love herself. After that, things spiraled downward drastically. A man she met on a trip earlier this summer visited her the very ...
A. 11 October 2010: Sometimes, people don't treasure what they have; they just don't appreciate how blessed they already are until they lose it. But oftentimes, that's too late.
In your case, I assume you've been together since high school, perhaps? She might th... (read in full...)
Where are the good men hiding?
Q. Right now I'm very discouraged. Where are all the good men hiding? In the past years my dating experiences have been bad. I've tried dating friends, acquaintances, co workers, random people.. nothing seems to work. I think I'm a fairly normal pe...
A. 11 October 2010: As a middle-aged man looking back at my 20s, I can honestly tell you that I was still too restless (I mean psychologically speaking) to know exactly what I wanted. Women tend to be more mature than men emotionally at the same age group. Moreover, ... (read in full...)
I'm a chinese guy who has broken up with my indian girlfriend...because her parents don't approve
Q. im a chinese guy and i met this indian girl at work a year from now. i felt this strong bond with her so last month i asked her out and she felt same way so she became my gf. i know most indian parents want arranged marriage or people from the same ...
A. 11 October 2010: Given that she's 24 and you are 19, and given that she seems to have made up her mind about putting her parents first, I am afraid to say that you don't have a future with her. You are madly in love, I understand perfectly, but a cooler head needs ... (read in full...)
Is it true that guys prefer non-virgins?
Q. Okay, so as me and my friend were walking she told me the reason why I don't get guys is cause I'm a virgin. She said if I lost my virginity then that would be better. Since she said a good percent of guys prefer non-virgins rather than virgins. ...
A. 11 October 2010: Call me a Neanderthal--if you will. If I could be at your age again, I would never fall for a girl who has been with multiple partners--and brags about it. To me one's body is sacred. Your body is a gift to the one you truly love. Sex is a ... (read in full...)
Should I ask this teacher out on a date?
Q. PLEASE HELP! I KNOW ITS A LONG STORY BUT I NEED SOME ANSWERS! Ok so im a senior in highschool and i never thought this would happen to me. but it did. this year i met a woman at the gym i go to that made me fall in love at first sight. From wha...
A. 11 October 2010: I am sorry for being blunt. Just forget it. She could go to jail for this. Don't even try to ask her out. The law is there for a reason. In all the high schools in the U. S., numerous crushes like this happen every day, between young men and ... (read in full...)
My parents think my date is 25, but he's 33 and I don't think they will accept that!
Q. I'm a 19 year old girl and recently started at a full time work place and I've met someone who I like but he's 14 years older than me! When I first met him I thought he was 25 as he looked that age. So when I started to develop feelings for him, I ...
A. 10 October 2010: Your parents aside, the question has to do with what you want in life and in relationships. You are barely starting out, whereas at 33, presumably he should know what he wants with his life and in relationships. The fact that he respects your ... (read in full...)
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