Getting jealous of my peers
Q. I'm in a pretty big state of jealousy right now, and I'm not comfortable with the feeling! In my school, there are a lot of popular and pretty girls. Even though i'm one of them, i still feel jealous towards a few of them. For instance, on Facebook ...
A. 24 July 2010: Thank you sooo much for everything!!!!! I was just in a state of strong jealousy and confusion but I guess i just needed someone to help me wake up. I'm going to work on getting better at being myself, and focusing on MY life; not others'. Thanks ... (read in full...)
I like the wrong guy?!
Q. Okay, there are two potential boyfriends in my life: Guy A and Guy B. Guy A is totally perverted, kind of mean, but pretty good-looking. Guy B is really, really nice, smart, religious, outgoing, fun, and, on paper, my soul mate. The thing is, I like ...
A. 30 April 2010: You should try to cope with the fact that you and Guy B could be a perfect match. All you need to do is talk to him. If you make the choice to like Guy A, who you don't know very well, you could be hurt. Sometimes the best-looking and most athletic ... (read in full...)
Why does he ask me these strange questions in bed?
Q. I have been in a relationship for almost 1 year with my guy. We both have previous marriages and have dealt with a lot of "Drama" from both sides over the past year. Our sex life is great! Every night.. and sometimes more than once in a night. ...
A. 30 April 2010: You need to tell him the truth; which is that you have never had sex with another guy. He might pretend not to believe you, but he will seem visibly happier around you. Based on what you've explained, it sounds like he has sex with you a lot because ... (read in full...)
How can you tell if a girl really does love you?
Q. how can you tell if a girl really does love you, what are some signs that she may show...
A. 28 April 2010: Well, depending on her restraint, she might blush around you, or talk non-stop. Usually when a girl likes someone, she talks alot around him due to nervousness. She might also look at you a lot. Plus, try to find her in a crowd when you're talking ... (read in full...)
Thoughts of sex taking over my life.
Q. im absolutly desperate! i feel like if i don't f*ck a girl im going to explode. ive tried watching porn and masturbating( im doing it right now!)and its starting to stop working. im not a pervert or anything but in school i have sex senarios with ...
A. 27 April 2010: That is extremely common for a guy your age; it's the age of growing up and taking on a liking toward girls. Overtime the constant nagging for sexual contact will fade, and you'll have matured. Don't feel like you're a pervert or a sicko for ... (read in full...)
Why don't guys text you back?
Q. This will possibly amuse most of you but im asking one of the most common questions in history.. WHY dont guys text back?? and even when they do 30% of the time its atriaght away 70% of the time it can be hours later. Thye even do it to girls ...
A. 27 April 2010: Hey,
I've tried the chatting thing with sooo many guys and i always felt like they thought i was being a flirt and annoying them. Alot of times it can be that the guy has a girlfriend, and he thought that she might feel uncomfortable if he was talk... (read in full...)
He stares alot does that mean he likes me? Or just being a friend?
Q. Ihave this guy friend and we are good friends intially but lately I have caught him staring at me alot more then usual.Then when I do catch him, he turns his head away quickly. Im not sure whether he likes me that way because we have known each ...
A. 27 April 2010: The boy you are talking about is probably into you. Since you have been friends for so long, he has probably come to realize that both you and him get along better than most people. Also, if you had dated his friend, and his friend came out happy, ... (read in full...)
I'm really worried about my friend but she doesn't seem to be bothered
Q. I have been really worried about my best friend lately, her granny died about 6 months ago and she didnt cope with it very well, since then she started hanging out with some really bad girls and started drinking smoking and taking drugs i have also ...
A. 27 April 2010: your best friend sounds like the type who has never handled problems with ease. She may just be in a state of recovery or shock, depending on how close she was with her granny. Your friend may just feel that hanging with "bad girls" and doing drugs ... (read in full...)
Does my girlfriend have the hots for our room mate?
Q. over the past months my girlfriend has changed, she doesnt desire sex with me, and i feel like our room mate is the reason why. She claims to hate him but, find them glaring at each other, getting each others attention. I have noticed her ...
A. 27 April 2010: The vital question to ask yourself is: Do I give her enough attention?
Your girlfriend probably doesn't have the hots for your roomate, but that depends on how you have gotten along with her. Do you give her attention, or do you spend most of the ... (read in full...)
Is it okay to break up by text message? What do you think?
Q. So how do you feel about being broken up with by text message? To me there are two types of breakup: 1. You care about the person and you either would consider still talking or even getting back together. 2. You just want to burn your bridges, th...
A. 27 April 2010: Breaking up with your partner in a text shows him/her that you were scared to express how you felt. It might also make them think that you just weren't ready for the relationship thing, and breaking up in person would make you stutter and turn red ... (read in full...)
Am I pushing him into a corner to get him to let me move in?
Q. Hi, I am in a long distance relationship of 70 miles which doesn't sound like much but I'm finding really difficult. I am 26 and he is 31. We've been together 10 rather tumutuous months. I see him very often really considering he has a very busy ...
A. 27 April 2010: It seems as if you are in need of your bf's attention. It is not wrong to miss him and plead him to let you stay; it shows him that you care and hate to be away from him. Though, on occasion this can be a little pestering, especially if he thinks ... (read in full...)
Is this really love that I feel?
Q. Is it love that i feel? Im unsure. Im sure it is, i mean ive alwyas said i truely love him but i just wondered if this truely love that i feel. Im good mates with this guy. We havent had the great past. I thought he liked me(i got told later on th...
A. 26 April 2010: I would have to say that you might be only a little attracted to him. You find that his attempts to be funny are annoying, but you also think that he is trying to impress you; it makes people feel good to know that someone may be into them. If you ... (read in full...)
He seems so lazy I'm thinking of leaving
Q. Hi guys, i have a bit of a problem, but doesn't everyone who writes on here! Anyway, i am with this guy, i love him very much, we have been together for almost 11 months, he's lovely, i love pretty much everything about him. There are just a few t...
A. 26 April 2010: If i could say anything right now, it would be to find someone else. You would risk too much by staying with a man with whom you could marry; he would most likely leave the hard work to you. It seems that he isn't quite the right match, given that ... (read in full...)
How do I erase the lie I told him
Q. I've done something I'm not very proud of, I have been seeing this guy for a while and I really really like him but when it comes to us getting close I always sort of keep my distance and it's only because I don't have much experience and he can ...
A. 26 April 2010: It is entirely understandable to feel that way. When you experience something like that, you could possibly bring another human life into the world; yes it's very scary and very serious. If you feel like you are afraid or just not ready yet, tell ... (read in full...)
I think my ex still loves me!
Q. my ex and i have been divorced for 2 years, he is in another relationship and very unsettled, we have an intimate relationship that he "hides" from this woman, we still love each other, am i wasting my time waiting for him to take me back and ...
A. 25 April 2010: The man that you say is your ex seems to have strong feelings based on what you have explained. It may be a possibility that he is sensitive or uneasy around this "new woman" and is afraid to talk to her about you. He must truly love you if he ... (read in full...)
Why does my ex act angry and hostile?
Q. Ok so i havent talked to my ex boyfriend in months. He contacted me and said he saw a car like mine in his neighborhood he swears it was the same license plate everything. I explained to him it wasnt me i even have proof and i was in a whole diffe...
A. 25 April 2010: If he is acting this way, he may still have feelings for you. If you were the one who broke up with him, he may still be angry about the fact that he wasn't good enough. My advice would be to leave him alone, and politely tell him to leave you ... (read in full...)
How do I play hard to get?
Q. i've known this guy tom for a few months now and he told me he loves girls with a sense of humour, brunette (which i am) and have blue eyes (i have blue eyes) and when we met up with a few friends he did flirt with me for a bit. And he told my b...
A. 25 April 2010: When you are playing "hard to get," you may want to be careful. If you are too into the idea, he may think you are ignoring him. One basic idea of the game is to talk to his friends flirtatiously, but glance at him and try to catch his eye. Also, if ... (read in full...)
What is the secret to a lasting relationship?
Q. Hi there, My sister and her bf have been together for 4 years, my aunt and uncle have been together for 15 years, and my grandparents for 38 years. I want to know what is the secret to maintaining a good relationship. What do u do in order for the ...
A. 25 April 2010: You have to maintain a few different things in order to have a long love. First, you have to be respectful of each other. If you don't respect his thoughts and feelings, he may feel like you don't want who he is. Second, you must trust each other. ... (read in full...)
He doesn't treat me with respect,, but I don't want to lose him
Q. My boyfriend does not treat me the way I want to be treated he belittles me al the time. I believe is my fault because he has been doing for a while now and I have never been able to defend my self. Now I'm beyond tired of it. I don't even feel like ...
A. 25 April 2010: The first question to ask yourself is: Does he really respect my feelings? If he doesn't like the way you work, he can find someone else. Sure, you may still love him, but relationships that are uncomfortable usually end in heartbreak. If i could ... (read in full...)
I've never had a boyfriend but get asked for sex all the time. Why?
Q. hey guys :) basically i am 16 years old and i have never had a boyfried!! i mean i have got into someone and done other things but i have never had a boyfriend. My friends say its because they are to scared to ask for a relationship because i a...
A. 25 April 2010: The way a guy looks at you is based on your appearance. If you dress in a way that shows people you like to be "naughty" then they will think that you only want sex. It also comes from your attitude and personality. Some guys may not care how you ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and a virgin and I want to have sex. If I don't wait for the right person, will I regret it?
Q. I'm 15 and still a virgin. All of my friends have had sex, i think im ready to but i really don't know what to do. i m not sure whether to wait for the right person or just go ahead and do it. if i don't wait for the right person will i regret it ...
A. 25 April 2010: YES!! by all means wait for the right person. You need to know eachother for a long time before you can start anything. If you dont get to know him, then he may leave you after you become pregnant. Besides, you have a life ahead of you, and you will ... (read in full...)
How do I overcome my fear of losing my best friend?
Q. hey guys, i am scared of losing my best friend, i need to trust him and i am trying. I am scared he is going to find a new best friend, how do i over come this? He has told me many times that i am being silly. HELP. We have been arguing a lot ...
A. 25 April 2010: When dealing with this kind of problem, it is VITAL to keep your cool. Take some time to talk to him about your wishing to stop snapping on him. If he's known you for long enough, he will understand. But, sometimes friends part, and it may be ... (read in full...)
I really want to start something with her but scared to make a move just in case she thinks I'm insane or causes trouble with her boyfriend!
Q. hello, i have a major problem; having left main school 2 years ago obviously there are some people that i have not seen for a while. randomly the other day my old friend asked me if i was up for going round to her house to keep her company, so obvio...
A. 25 April 2010: You always want to be careful in this situation. If you cannot get her out of your thoughts, see about hanging with her and her boyfriend. If you and her bf become close as friends (with no hard feelings) then you can easily get to see her, and know ... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend have such a one track mind?
Q. okay so i have been with my boyfriend for 5 years, and everytime were alone he always trys to have sex with me its so annoying! Some days i just want to hang out watch a movie and cuddle but he just wants to have sex.... and when i tell him no he ...
A. 25 April 2010: If you really don''t want to have sex with him yet, then consider telling him that if he really loves you, he'll wait. Having sex with somebody is a special time, and should not be done so much for pleasure. Doing this brings another human being to ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to go out with a 12 year old when I'm 16?
Q. Is it ok to go out with a 12 year old girl when im 16. No its not about sex thats completely retarded at this age. She admitted she liked after her mom told me....
A. 24 April 2010: Unfortunately, no. You may expect things from her that she is too young for, and your relationship can go awry. She may feel uncomfortable if she is ever teased, and you may feel that way too. Your girlfriend may just feel like she wants a boyfriend ... (read in full...)
I am uncomfortable with my boyfriend watching porn. How can I get past it?
Q. i am uncomfortable with my boyfriend watching porn. i have self image problems and am not comfortable with him looking at women who seem perfect. i would like to get past my discomfort what can I do?...
A. 24 April 2010: If you really trust and love him, tell him how you feel. If he was really a good boyfriend, he would stop for your sake, and apologize. He should love you for who you are, and not how "good" or "bad" your body is. It may also just be a boy thing. ... (read in full...)
I broke it off with my ex, what's the best way to rebound from this and find a faithful partner?
Q. I broke it off with my ex so Im trying to move on whats the best way to rebound from this tradegy and get a faithful partner?...
A. 24 April 2010: First, you should look at what happened to you and your partner that swallowed the relationship. Did she hurt you? Did you say something that you regretted? Also look at her personality traits. You didn't quite match with her, so look for someone ... (read in full...)
My crush has a crush on my friend...any advice?
Q. I have a crush on this guy, but he has a crush on my friend. And he admits it. But he's flirty with me too. I'm not sure... I did get out of a relationship about a month ago... BUT! I really like this guy. His personality meshes with mine so ...
A. 24 April 2010: You should give him some time...but, you can hang out with your friend while he's around, and maybe work something out with her. Tell her how you feel about him, and maybe she can help you. If he likes her, maybe it was because they had something ... (read in full...)
Can you REALLY forgive someone after they cheat?
Q. Is it ever possible to have someone cheat in a relationship, and then really forgive someone? If you really forgive that person in your heart, can you still live happily ever after?...
A. 24 April 2010: Cheating simply means that he wanted to end the relationship, but he may have felt scared about talking to you. That just proves that he dated you while feeling uncomfortable. You should forgive him. If he doesn't want to be more than friends, that ... (read in full...)
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