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writes:i've known this guy tom for a few months now and he told me he loves girls with a sense of humour, brunette (which i am) and have blue eyes (i have blue eyes) and when we met up with a few friends he did flirt with me for a bit. And he told my best friend he does kinda like me. i do sorta like him too. He also told my friend he likes it when girls play hard to get. I want to play hard to get because it sounds fun and i think it'll work.Does anyone have any tips on how to play hard to get??please help xx
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reader, Keira9312  +, writes (25 April 2010):
 When you are playing "hard to get," you may want to be careful. If you are too into the idea, he may think you are ignoring him. One basic idea of the game is to talk to his friends flirtatiously, but glance at him and try to catch his eye. Also, if he asks you if you need help, reply no. You may only want to do that occasionally. One more thing, flirt with him one day, then be soaked up with your friends for the next, then talk to him again while particularly talking about an ex. (if you have one.) dont get too in depth about it though becuse he may think you are still into that guy. Keep in mind this was just a suggestion.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2010): I think "playing" hard to get sets a stage for games. The best way to appear hard to get is to be hard to get. You do that with occupying your time and attention with productive activities and things that make you happy.
Be busy with work, school, the gym, being involved with community and family events, and anything really that interests you and fulfills you.
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reader, It's all be okay +, writes (25 April 2010):
Do nothing at all! Or stuff the "playing hard to get" and ask him to go to the cinema with you - don't grow up learning to be a wimpy female - be strong and straight forward.
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reader, Polaroid93 +, writes (25 April 2010):
Are you sure you want to play hard to get before you know he definately wants to persue you?? You might as well just tell him to leave or something, unless of course, your deffinate that he won't be put off.If you want to play hard to get just make sure you talk to other guys all the time and stuff, alhough, if it doesn't cone natrually, I wouldn't bother.
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