What do I do about my inability to let go of my fairy-tale fantasy?
Q. Hi, so I am an almost-sixteen-year-old girl and I have known for some months now that I like girls. I have never had an issue with gay people or anything like that and I am comfortable with the realization that I myself am gay but at the same time ...
A. 13 October 2010: Okay, so first: if you are truly homosexual and if it's not just an extensive phase, then you will have to let the fantasy go. over time you may find yourself straight again, but it's 50/50. Also, you may not know if your friend is lesbian or not. ... (read in full...)
The age difference is huge and I'm pretty sure I'm just using him.
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl. The guy I like is 18. I know it sounds bad, but I also know he only jokes around when he's flirting with me. I understand the age difference is rather big and quite frankly it's illegal, but it still bothers me. I've always ...
A. 6 September 2010: based on what you've explained, i would say that you like him because you like the attention from him. when guys hit on girls, they tend to leave the girl wanting more, because usually what they say is flattering and makes her feel good. also, ... (read in full...)
Do you think my body type will attract guys?
Q. im a little fat.... but im shapely and i have a close to flat tummy and 40 C boobs. i am worried everyone will just think im a fat lard lol. my middle skewl friends say thee are alot of REALLY fat people. im starting middle school tommorow and im ...
A. 6 September 2010: okay, well i've been in your shoes....right now im 155 pounds and im a 36D bra size..im also 5 foot 8..and in highschool. dont worry about it!! there are SO many people in middle school, and they're not all judgemental. Dont care about what others ... (read in full...)
He's so great that I'm coming across as over-enthusiastic
Q. i was introduced to a this really nice guy who's a lot like me. he's like me as well in the way that he doesn't quite like overly peppy people or people who smile the whole time. unfortunately when we meet i can't help but smile because he seems far ...
A. 1 May 2010: Well, remember that guys don't like girls who are constantly misers, or always pessimistic. When you want to come as happy, but not too thrilled, just don't focus completely on him. Don't set you're mind on every word that will come out of your ... (read in full...)
Help! My husband is a workaholic!
Q. Is there any solution to this tricky situation? My husband is a workaholic. I know, it is so much better than a guy who does not pay the bills. But if you have one if these husbands, you know what I'm talking about. Because of his work, he totally ...
A. 30 April 2010: My only advice is for you to take control. By letting him influence your life and your kids' lives like this, you are proving to him that he can roll the way he wants. Pull him aside when he shows, and tell him firmly about what is bothering you. ... (read in full...)
I know the guy is supposed to make the 1st move but I have no confidence!
Q. im 15-19 years old ive always had a confidence problem when it comes to girls and i dont really know why.. i have loads of good friends that are girls and its fine in terms of that but when i start to like a girl it all completely cahnges..and i d...
A. 30 April 2010: Don't feel pathetic for letting nothing happen between you both! Girls feel awkward around guys, and we usually like him to start the fire. It makes the girl feel special. You should feel confident, because inside, the girl you like probably feels ... (read in full...)
All he says is what he doesn't like.
Q. My lover only tells me what he doesn't like, not what he does like in our love life. What does that mean? ...
A. 30 April 2010: I may be wrong, but it sounds like your lover is trying to say something. Maybe he doesn't like how things have turned out between you, and wants a stronger relationship with you. He may also be telling you that he doesn't like those things just to ... (read in full...)
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