Boyfriend looks at friend's facebook profiles when I am sleeping!
Q. my bf of almost 14 months gets on my facebook while im sleeping to look at other girls profiles. he also watches porn while im sleeping and even mutes the laptop so i cant hear. what is going on??...
A. 28 May 2011: We've been together for over a year now. We live together and he's helped me raise my son. It does hurt me. Because I know what im doing in bed, not to brag of course,and I've never had a guy wanna look at anyone else but me. It makes me question my ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend looks at friend's facebook profiles when I am sleeping!
Q. my bf of almost 14 months gets on my facebook while im sleeping to look at other girls profiles. he also watches porn while im sleeping and even mutes the laptop so i cant hear. what is going on??...
A. 27 May 2011: You're absolutely right. I have lost my self esteem. As far as us both being into porn. I am too and I've tried watching it with him but he doesn't seem to wanna mesh both...
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How can I get the courage to buy condoms?
Q. Hi everybody i'm 19 now and i had sex 5 times till now with 3 different girls although i never tried to force any girl but being very much attractive i have few girlfrnds but do not date with them but every boy knows we can't deny if a girl proposes ...
A. 9 October 2009: its perfectly normal to get a little shy when you need to buy condoms. i went through that at some point. it's a good thing that you understand the risks of not using protection. next time you decide to get intimate with another girl, why not ask ... (read in full...)
Stuck in a verbal abusive relationship, I fear he will take my child if I leave!
Q. After years of verbal abuse i have decided its best for me and my child to leave, but i cant seem to just leave im scared he will take my 15 month away from me and of his reaction, i know what i need to do but i dont know how. i dont know how to t...
A. 8 October 2009: hmmmm first i would record him and his verbal abuse for ur own personal evidence. if he decides to take u to court u have proof that he isnt fit to take care of your child. its sneaky and risky but you need to protect yourself.... (read in full...)
Are watery eyes while giving a blowjob a turn off?
Q. Is it a turn off if a girl's eyes are super watery after/during a blowjob? I'm excited because I finally got the hang of deep throating and I can fit my boyfriend's entire dick now. And don't worry, I wasn't forced to learn or anything; my ...
A. 8 October 2009: lol it is not a turn off. guys actually dig it. just keep working on that reflex and the tears will go away. i dont tear anymore ;) haha... (read in full...)
How could she hurt me like that
Q. My best friend and i were at the movies one night and the guy i really really really, times 1 billion, really like was there. During our movie him and his friend came in and they were talking and she leaned up next to me and told me he asked her ...
A. 5 September 2009: you're young. you have plenty of time to find somebody. if he was interested in you he wouldnt be telling you that he really likes your friend. nothing's going to happen. sorry to say, but its the truth. dont hold it against your friend. let her ... (read in full...)
I'm a horrible person to my b/f and need help!
Q. HI, here is my dilemna. i think i have trust issues and i cant get over them. the father was a bit of an ass years ago and i suppose even now isnt being the best to me. now i have this great boyfriend who is super is standing by me, wants to be ...
A. 1 September 2009: i was in the exact same situation about a month ago. the result-i moved out because my bf dumped me for picking meaningless fights and now i live with my mom again. it took me a while to figure out why i did all that stuff to him. then i real... (read in full...)
Should we move in together?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a week. But we have known each other for 15 years. Well we want to move in together. But im not sure if its the right time. Its not gonna just be me and him it will also be his bestfriend which is also my ...
A. 29 August 2009: you've know him for 15 years as a friend. get to know him as a bf and see how your relationship goes first.... (read in full...)
How do I forgive myself and let go of the past?
Q. i am 4 months pregnant and my babys daddy and i decided to take a break. not because of the baby, but because of the last 4 months we were together. 5 months ago i had family problems and all those bottled up emotions i took out on him. after i ...
A. 29 August 2009: but what if he hasnt forgiven me yet and is in the process of forgiving me?... (read in full...)
Only 14-25 year olds answer, please: I'm unsure about what to expect when it comes to handjobs and giving head.
Q. hello, i am a 14 year old girl going into eight grade. this is the grade where girls start to give hand jobs. I am just unsure of what i should do if this comes upon me, and how it will come upon me. will he most likely ask me to do it, or will...
A. 29 August 2009: ok lol i know u dont wanna hear it, but you are too young. thats all im gonna say about that, but if you really want the advice ok.
you dont engage in these things unless you're ready. when you say "this is the grade where girls start to give han... (read in full...)
How can I make him change without hurting him?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for about half a year but we've been best friends for about 4 years. At first, everything started out great but soon i began to notice things that really bugged me. One, he doesn't drive so I'm always driving us ...
A. 28 August 2009: Us women think we can make a man change. In reality we cant. he'll change if he wants to. All you can do is tell him what bothers you and hope that he'll grow up and try and fix it.... (read in full...)
Too clingy! How do I control it?
Q. i am almost 4 months pregnant, and the baby's father and i are currently broken up. we are trying really hard to work things out because we've both come from broken homes, and we feel a child deserves both parents. plus, we are still so in love. ...
A. 27 August 2009: thanks so much for the advice. im trying hard not to stress myself and it's working very well :) thanks again!... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin but I told him I'm not
Q. ok im turmoil here :( Im seeing my bf, we both in love, making future plans together ect... thing is im lying to him. Im still a virgin! even tho i've told him im not. Infact im lying to everyone about this, im like the 40 yr old virgin. i hate it, ...
A. 27 August 2009: first of all, there is no problem with being a virgin! even at your age. it's perfectly normal. you should wait until you're ready. personally i lost my viginity when i was 16 and i really wish i waited. as for your situation, you should sit h... (read in full...)
Does he want me back, or was he just horny?
Q. I broke up with my ex month ago We still living together in our place , I tried to get back to him twice, but he rejected me, and I felt my self so cheap, and I forgot about him totally and started focusing on my life and try to enjoy it ...
A. 27 August 2009: it was just sex. his manly urges got to him, and you were available and convinient. it could've been any girl. sorry it was you. next time something like this happens, STAY AWAY! you're worth more than a booty call :)... (read in full...)
Being stalked by my ex's new girlfriend: what's the right way to deal with this?
Q. She wants to know everything about me. Where I stay, what kind of car I drive, where I work. She passes by every chance she gets to see if she can see me. She's my ex boyfriend's girlfriend. Why is she going through all this trouble. If she has him ...
A. 27 August 2009: she's insecure about her relationship with him. either he said something to her about your past relationship with him that made her feel insecure about herself. you shouldnt be dealing with it. talk to him about it, and tell him that she's really ... (read in full...)
If I get turned on by both men and women, does it make me bisexual?
Q. If i get turned on by both men and women does that make me bi-sexual? becuase welll when i see a man naked or topless i get really turned on, but also whenever im flirting with a girl or just see one i get really turned on..so like yeah i dunno if ...
A. 27 August 2009: you could be, but honestly you're too young to know what's what right now. you're just trying to find out who you are, and who you're going to be in the future. don't freak out about this, just have fun, but be safe!... (read in full...)
How do I tell my friend I think his girlfriend is a lesbian without him thinking I have been fooling around with her?
Q. basically yeah my friend is really inlove with his girlfriend and i was fine with that untill i started speaking to her one night things turned alittle hot. Now like i know your probably thinking "He's Fooled Around With His Mates Girl" But i have...
A. 27 August 2009: i think that you should talk to her first and ask her if she's a lesbian. or ask her if she's bi. you dont want to go to him first about the situation because that could turn out worst than him thinking you messed around with his girl. just a... (read in full...)
Family hates my boyfriend!
Q. 3 years ago my parents forbid me from seeing my bf. Weve been on and off since then. Hes 20 and Im about to be 18 in less than 6 months so theres really not much they can do about it.Im sick of sneaking around with him because I love him and I love ...
A. 25 August 2009: first of all, the fact that you're turning 18 doesnt change the rules in her house if you will still be living there. i am 18 and i just recently moved back in with my mom and i still have to follow her rules because its still her house. until you ... (read in full...)
I'm 15, he's 20, is this ok?
Q. ok i am 15 going to be 16 in 2 weeks and i have been dating a guy who is 20 we have been together 4 2 months now is that ok ??? cause sometimes it doesn't feel right when we first met we didn't talk much but we liked each other a lot from the moment ...
A. 25 August 2009: do your parents know about the relationship?
according to the law what you're doing is illegal, well if there is physical contact.
if you're parents arent ok with the relationship then you should respect their wished. they are the only ones th... (read in full...)
Is this an STD? Cancer? I'm scared!
Q. I am 16 and about 3 months ago me and my boyfriend started having sex. The first time we didn't use a condom (I know it was stupid, please don't lecture me on it :/ And he withdrew before he was about to finish) We were both virgins and had ...
A. 25 August 2009: well it could be an infection. you could be allergic to latex or you need to clean yourself better before and after sex. this also applies to your boyfriend even if there is a condom invilved. my suggestion to you is that you go to a clinic and get ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant & he isn't taking it seriously & is even messing about in txt with my mate! Help!
Q. hey i need some advice. iv been with my fiance for a year, im pregnant with his baby and we moved into our own house 3weeks ago my bf has lied to me in the past and iv always been worried hes cheatin on me as he hides his phn and deletes msgs, on...
A. 25 August 2009: what i've learned from my experiences is that the technology today allows us all to be unfaithful. if he texting other girls saying that, regardless if he acted upon them or not, is very disrespectful to your feelings and you being the mother of his ... (read in full...)
Does this count as rape?
Q. I am a 20 year old male who has been screwing around with my 35 year old married neighbor for 5 years. She is a beautiful woman who has introduced me to many things sexually. She is very kinky and very persuasive. Over the years she has given me ...
A. 25 August 2009: turn em in. thats rape. if you didnt consent to that or want to do it then it's rape no matter what. ... (read in full...)
My heart cannot survive this hurt!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend off and on for 16yrs... in this time i found out i cannot carry a child. he left me 8 yrs ago...got a girl pregnant and i took him back i felt i could not give this to him so i accepted his child as my own. well low a...
A. 25 August 2009: first of all i want to tell you that you seem like a strong person for taking him back. so good for you. in that same sense, with this situation, you are thinking too much with your heart. you should start thinking with your mind and your smarts ... (read in full...)
I really love her, but she still talks to her ex!
Q. hi im 15 and my girlfriend and i broke up like 3 weeks ago and thats the longest weve ever broken up. i was kinda doing okay compared to the other times but dont get me wrong i missed her and still had feelings for her and i loved her more each day...
A. 9 March 2009: hell no! if she has feelings for another guy and claims she loves you then she's just playing games with you because she knows you'll stay with her no matter what. the whole ex thing is a big red flag if she says that she still has feelings for him. ... (read in full...)
What do I do with his "boys" while giving a blowjob?
Q. how do i suck my bfs testicles during a blowjob? ive never done it before so im a little nervous as far as what to do with them. do i lick them? suck them? and my bf says he enjoys the blowjobs i give a lot but i want to make them more enjoyable. ...
A. 9 March 2009: well it really depends on what he's into, but licking and sucking are both very affective. (just dont suck tooo hard lol) while you're doing this give him a hand job. it works very well! and while you're doing your "job" use your hand to stimulate ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to make out!
Q. Ok i have a problem... its not a very big problem but it concerns me. my girlfriend knows how to make out she learned from making out with girls but that is not the problem, the problem is that i dont know how to make out and she does and we both ...
A. 13 December 2008: just explain the situation to her. i'm sure she'll understand and be glad to teach you.... (read in full...)
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