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writes:My best friend and i were at the movies one night and the guy i really really really, times 1 billion, really like was there. During our movie him and his friend came in and they were talking and she leaned up next to me and told me he asked her out. She knows i love him, and i reminded her that, but she said yes to him. Now she is going to break up with him because we are best friends and she doesnt want me to be mad at her. At school i dont think i will make it through the day with them hugging and talking and all that. I dont want her to break up with him, but i dont want her to go out with him. Right now im crying because he said he likes her. I need help. What should i do. Please help me. Any advice will help. Reasonable advice not just, wait it out or ignore her. Thanks and please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2009): I do sympathise with you but iv been in both yours and your friend's positionl. I was really hurt my my best friend who went out with this boy i liked but i had to move on and the sooner you do it the better. The best way to do this is to totally forgive you friend first. You need to understand why she went out with him and know that she felt she had to try and choose between you even though she didn't want to.This is a link to a person who's in your friend's position and is asking if she should go out with him. I really suggest u read it!!! http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-say-yes-to-date-this-boy.html
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reader, karasu10 +, writes (5 September 2009):
 you're young. you have plenty of time to find somebody. if he was interested in you he wouldnt be telling you that he really likes your friend. nothing's going to happen. sorry to say, but its the truth. dont hold it against your friend. let her continue to date him. its hard, but i experienced that once and it was for the best. try finding someone else. as for the you "love" him part, you dont love him. when you love somebody you know, but you're dealing with what every young teenager deals with-you love the IDEA of being with him. just move on. you'll find somebody else thats better :)
good luck!
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