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Humans are said to ask questions on a need to know basis, and if this is true, then i need to know alot!
I live in this world, so I want to understand it. And what is the most interesting part ? the people!
Eg.
What makes two people see a situation differently or act differently ?
What can we learn from someone else, considering they have had different life situations?
Questions like these really interest me!
I think people know their own situations best, and should trust their instincts.. BUT... only after they have developed a clear understanding of what they are dealing with, and to do this, chatting about it is a great idea.
A bonus is in using this site people get outsider help.
I wanted to be able to grasp a huge understanding of people and their behaviour, and in wanting this, I read hundreds of articles, books, and more about people, body language, etc.
So what makes me tick is gaining an understanding and passing on what i have learned ,
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He said he'd come over, I gave up, he then left a message. I ignored it. Did I do the right thing?
Q. Hi I just started dating some one! He called me last night said he wanted to seeme before leaving town. His daughter called him and wanted him to come and see her before he left town. He ask me if he could come over when he got back from his ...
A. 28 October 2011: I agree with Denise32. Good answer.... (read in full...)
Stealing someone out of a relationship
Q. okay now I need to know if it's ok to steal someone out of a relationship. I wanted this guy first and he got with his ex and still showed signs of interest in me. Seeing as at one point I was there first but may have messed up, pretty sure I did ...
A. 28 October 2011: You can never get over someone like this who you havent had a chance with? Then go for it. Ask him is he interested in you. See how it goes. You have to go for it, or you will always wonder!! If he is interested, then great, take it from ther... (read in full...)
Am I about to get played AGAIN? Help!
Q. Please bear with me... I know this is long, but I DESPERATELY need your help! Well, I am having a little bit of boy trouble. Y'see I've been crushing on this boy since last year. But then I got over him because I thought that he was a stuck up s...
A. 29 September 2011: Hiya, I saw you wrote that you 'DESPERATELY' needed advice and was compelled to write to you! I've been there! We've all been there! lol In honesty, Im getting mixed signals about this guy. He seems like he could really be both - nice genuine g... (read in full...)
He says he is straight. But is he?
Q. I am a bi male. I have a friend who I believe is "straight" but have doubts. Now ordinarily I wouldn't care about another persons sexual preference. But I have feelings for him. He knows that I am bisexual and has known since the beginning of our ...
A. 29 September 2011: Hi, Okay... thats interesting. I can understand why you would be confused. He may have just been particularly horny when he made that comment and then rushed out. I have a straight friend who fooled around with my lesbian friend purely because ... (read in full...)
I would like to know at what point I should tell dates that I have M.E/CFS?
Q. I would like to know at what point I should tell dates that I have M.E/CFS? I am on a few on-line dating sites and I'm not sure whether I should put it on my profile. The problem is that although I can just about hold down a full time job, my ...
A. 29 September 2011: Hi, What if somewhere out there is a lovely guy who also has M.E/CFS and is looking for someone like you my dear? :) Someone who understands, who gets what its like to have M.E and CFS and who would cherish you? Someone you could cuddle up too ... (read in full...)
I found a dildo in my boyfriend's dresser and I don't know if he's cheating or using it on himself?
Q. hello everyone:) I'm alone in the dark and don't really know who to ask about this, I'm sort of embarrassed not going to lie.. and very confused! My bf and I have been together for 9 years, we don't live together. Recently well just about a mon...
A. 12 August 2011: Talk to him about it. Wait until you are calm and collected and then talk to him. Write out, first, all the possible answers he could give you, and from there strongly think about how you feel and what response you would give. Then write them ... (read in full...)
I feel that I'm taken for granted and undervalued. My boyfriend has all the benefits whilst I don't get the one promise that I want!
Q. Hi everyone, please help! When i first met my bf he seemed so overwhelmed with love - as is typical i expect. Anyway over three years on, been living together for two +, he has waivered between talking like he wants to marry and have kids and acti...
A. 29 July 2011: Hi,
Thanks for writing back to me. Yes i do agree that i have to take action. I feel quite under appreciated. I am tired of never being sure what his real intentions are. I am not expecting a rush wedding and all the trimmings but i would like him ... (read in full...)
What should I make of this? Is this going to lead to trouble?
Q. My boyfriend of three plus years and I have been broken up for 2 and a half months now because of a lot of stresses in our lives. I left him alone for a while and he started texting and calling me. We then started hanging out with each other and ...
A. 23 July 2011: tricky tricky tricky.... whats wrong with the label if you are matching the criteria for the label? ... not seeing others, not looking, acting like a couple when your together.. to be honest I cant understand why he wouldn't of just asked for more ... (read in full...)
I am the Real 40 Year-Old Virgin
Q. I am a 41 year-old virgin, suffering from social anxiety and isolation disorders and I feel like less of a man and human being because of my total lack of intimacy. How can one regain their sense of self dignity and live a more fulfilling life?...
A. 17 July 2011: Hi you. I wish I knew your actually name so that you wouldnt be just '41 year old virgin, suffering from social anxiety and isolation disorders'... because thats not the complete picture of who you actually are is it? No, its not. There is more to ... (read in full...)
We can't move forward because I can't trust him
Q. How long does it take for a person to trust her significant other? Relationships are base on trust, but if the trust never existed; how do you build on it? How long does it take? I am asking b/c I am in a relationship where trust has always been ...
A. 17 July 2011: Hi,
Sorry to hear this is playing on your mind.
So I can try to helo you, can I ask:
How long are you together?
How big or more specifically, what, was the lie he told you about a year ago?
How did you find out he was lying that time? Did he te... (read in full...)
My ex is contacting me again and has a new man.
Q. Hi guys, ill try keep it short. my exgirl who lived with me for 6 years left 7 months ago. her idea. her feelings changed bit and had doubts. i had give her doubts as i was always out with mates etc. i was deveastated to say least and wake up call....
A. 7 July 2011: Hi again, Thanks for writing back. Sorry I couldn’t write back sooner, my laptop broke and I’d to wait to get it fixed! It’s terrific to hear that you know you are worth more than to be a potential Plan B option. It’s also great to hear that you... (read in full...)
My boyfriend never says he loves me, what should I do?
Q. My boyfriend and have been living together for year and he has never told me that he loves me. He never shares that much stories and sometimes tells me as a joke to go out with a guy who is ur age coz he is 26 years older then me. For me I don't ...
A. 27 June 2011: Hi,
Love happens between people regardless of age, but I think you can learn something from what he said.
'Go find someone your own age' even as a joke may be his way of trying to tell you that he cannot and perhaps will not conform to what you ... (read in full...)
I think she prefers girls to me... her boyfriend! Help!!!
Q. So i'm dating a girl who has told me she likes girls more then guys. and that i'm the only guy she has ever been attracted too. and I fear she wants a girl and not me. She has always told me that she thinks i'm the most attracted person she has ever ...
A. 27 June 2011: Hi,
Sounds like as long as you are with her from now on you are going to be wondering if she will run off with some hot girl in the future. You'll be 'that' guy.. wondering whether she is chatting to a girl or flirting with her. You'll be ponderin... (read in full...)
Men and porn!!! Why do they need it?
Q. I need help! I don't understand why my boyfriend has 2 look at porn!! I'm beautiful why can't I be enough? He says I wouldn't understand. We have been together 6yrs an he's hid it the whole time until I cought him! I told him 2 make me understand an ...
A. 27 June 2011: Hi,
Wow! I can so relate to your question right now!
I was wondering the same question just yesterday and it was driving me mad!
I have been with my boyfriend for years iswell (over three) and am good looking enough I feel to wonder why I can... (read in full...)
Getting mixed signals from a guy I like, what should I do?
Q. I have recently become good friends with a guy that I met through my brother's girlfriend. He told my brother's girlfriend he didn't like me but changed his mind a week later saying he was too scared to ask me out. We hangout out at my flat almost ...
A. 27 June 2011: Hi,
Poor you with all this confusion! Things can be so difficult at times eh?
Well, in truth I've learned one main thing -
Talking about things with other people can really only go so far.
Ultimately if you want to REALLY know whats going o... (read in full...)
Help with a name for a business?
Q. hey guys, i know this has not alot to do with dear cupid, but wondered if you might wanna help, i am in the middle of setting up a travel the world service, where you have the best expierence of your life. however im stuck at the name.. im thinking ...
A. 27 June 2011: Hi,
What about...
Mileu - it basically means a social environment/ social context.
Or..
Prance - as in 'To spring or bound forward in a manner reminiscent of a spirited person or animal'
Please let me know how it goes with the name!
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My ex is contacting me again and has a new man.
Q. Hi guys, ill try keep it short. my exgirl who lived with me for 6 years left 7 months ago. her idea. her feelings changed bit and had doubts. i had give her doubts as i was always out with mates etc. i was deveastated to say least and wake up call....
A. 27 June 2011: Hi again,
Glad to hear you have posted back and that you seem to have made some progress with it.
Let me say now that you are NOT a fool for thinking that perhaps this can be worked out. You have hope. That doesn't make you a fool at all.
Yo... (read in full...)
My ex is contacting me again and has a new man.
Q. Hi guys, ill try keep it short. my exgirl who lived with me for 6 years left 7 months ago. her idea. her feelings changed bit and had doubts. i had give her doubts as i was always out with mates etc. i was deveastated to say least and wake up call....
A. 26 June 2011: Hi, Really sorry to hear you are going through this. If im honest, I particularly am sorry to hear you're going through this because .... I feel I am very close to being her - in that I've done the exact same thing to a guy recently - almos... (read in full...)
I told him the friendship was over, but I regret it. What's the best thing to do?
Q. i have ended a friendship with a guy ive known for 3 years. at the start he was amazing and was a caring attentive friend. as time went on i knew i had feelings for him but never showed, then i started noticing other stuff like he would tell half ...
A. 26 June 2011: Hi, Really sorry to hear that this is happening to you. In honesty, it sounds like a hard decision you had to make and thats perhaps why you are rethinking it now. In the beginning, it seems he was a great friend to you and for you, and I'm sur... (read in full...)
Women only, I need your advice.
Q. Hello ALL!! I need some help, this is aimed at women only!! A little advice would not go a miss. It's about the dreaded pubic hair...im a teenage girl and i choose to shave my pubic hair. However, i have never once been able to shave without ...
A. 26 June 2011: Hi, Sorry to hear what you're going through - I remember when I was younger I went through the exact same thing. It does sound like you are doing the best that you can in terms of what products you use and how you hold the skin etc, but unfortu... (read in full...)
I never know if he likes me or not!
Q. Hey , Big confusion.. Me and this guy have had an of on thing for a while but it recently just fazed out. His behavior towards me is very strange at the moment though, when he speaks to me he will say sexual comments to me, then he will ask about m...
A. 25 June 2011: Hi,
Really sorry to hear you are going through this at the moment.
I think that the most strategic thing you could do is ask his/your friend whether he has said anything about you - this way you are not informing the person that you overhear... (read in full...)
I asked her to the cinema but she hasn't called or txt? Why not???
Q. I asked a girl to the pictures. She's a good mate of mine. She said she'll tell me next week. She said she'll ring otherwise i should ring. It's thursday and she hasn't! Why not? She seems happy and up for it, but i'm unsure whether i should call ...
A. 30 August 2007: Frank B Kermit makes a great point, she wants you to go the extra mile! like you, she probably doesnt want to come across too strong. If you cant forget it, which i think you shouldnt, as she likes you as a mate, and said yes to going, you h... (read in full...)
Is it normal to smell a little "down there"?
Q. Hey i know this maybe too much but... I am 15 and am a virgin. I am worried about "down there" as i smell a little. Is this usual in anyway???? Pleasse help, i am worried and feel so dirty!! x...
A. 29 August 2007: Everyones the same!
We all at some point wondered if we smelled "down there" too much, if we looked different "there", had too much hair "there" or etc.
So honestly, IT IS NORMAL to smell a little down there!
As long as you shower regularly... (read in full...)
How do I be cool and calm with guys?
Q. What are the best ways to be cool and calm with guys you like? I need all the advice anyone could POSSIBLY get. Different methods and different ways to deal with butterflies. Thanks. Please post answers!!! xxx...
A. 29 August 2007: 1. Try this. When you are having fun,(relaxed) and feeling confident somewhere, squeeze your thumb and finger together on each hand. Also think back to good times and repeat the finger test. Do it whenever you feel like this.
Practice this, it take... (read in full...)
How can i deal with friends that dont return my calls or visits, without it sounding like a big deal?
Q. do you feel slighted if you visit and phone others, but they dont reciprocate. what is the best reponse to this situation? should you reduce the frequency of your contact...accept that they dont value friendship as much as they do yours, or should...
A. 29 August 2007: busy yourself!
Get out there and volunteer, get a job, etc.
YOU become the less available party, distract yourself!
Make brief contact, but only to invite people somewhere,etc
dont make calls/ drop in when you've nothing really new to say / ... (read in full...)
Do guys hate their girlfriends having male friends, especially close male friends
Q. Just a quick question, out of curiosity... Do guys hate their girlfriends having male friends, especially close male friends? I've lost count of the amount of times I've had to reiterate to past boyfriends that I would never cheat and that oth...
A. 29 August 2007: I have this problem.. irritating as hell isnt it!
The answer is of course they hate it.
They imagine us sitting with the/some fella, having a laugh, and then suddenly someone kisses someone, and all this passion hidden for sooo long is suddenly ... (read in full...)
What's the best way to dress to attract men that genuinely like you
Q. What's the best way to dress to attract men that genuinely like you - and aren't just after you for 'one thing'? I had 'advice' from a girl a while ago about clothes to wear to attract a guy but I thought they were a bit trashy/slutty an...
A. 29 August 2007: To genuinely like you- they have to know you.
When i started college three years ago, i decided to dress in the causal clothes i liked, including big jumpers, baggy pants etc. Then after i had become mates with the men, i went out one night dres... (read in full...)
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