I think my best friend is mad that I'm dating her ex! What should I do?
Q. My friend and I have known each other since we were like 7 or 8. I started to really like one of her ex-boyfriends. I asked her how mad she would be, on a scale from 1 to 10, if I liked him. She said about a 2, and told me she wouldn’t care if I ...
A. 22 May 2011: Well sorry but you should have known better... of course your friend said at first that she would not be mad because of course she does not own him. So she can't really say no and she was probably very shocked and hurt that you even asked her that. ... (read in full...)
I'm widowed and slept with a married man. For once in my life I want to be selfish and just do what I want!
Q. I have been widowed for a year and have 2 children. This doesn't leave me a lot of time to date or even meet someone. I do miss having sex but I am not ready for a relationship and may never be, given the circumstances of my previous marriage and ...
A. 11 February 2011: I'm not saying that it is ok to go after someone else's husband - but then again... It's his choice - his decision! And if he is capable of cheating.. if someone even thinks about cheating on their partner.. then there are something wrong in their ... (read in full...)
Is it really wrong to be in love with my best friend's ex?
Q. I am 27 year old female and I am in love with my best friends ex boyfriend. They had only been with each other for a year or less. My friend is very mean to him all the time and says if she stayed with him she would continue to cheat consistently on ...
A. 19 December 2010: Sorry I still think it is wrong.. and I would never trust someone who think it is right... because I would never do that to my friend. Treat people how you would like to be treated. When I was little, Yes it is a bit different when children ar... (read in full...)
Is it really wrong to be in love with my best friend's ex?
Q. I am 27 year old female and I am in love with my best friends ex boyfriend. They had only been with each other for a year or less. My friend is very mean to him all the time and says if she stayed with him she would continue to cheat consistently on ...
A. 18 December 2010: Sorry.. I would never ever even though I loved that guy EVER touch him sins he is my best friends ex. Thats forbidden and a true friend would never go down that road. There are so many fish in the sea and your friends leftovers are not what you ... (read in full...)
Everyone says it's not right we're dating because she's under 18?
Q. Hey everyone, So my girlfriend is 17 years old and i'm 19. Everyone keeps saying that it's not right for us to be dating because she is under 18. I don't think it's a big deal but I was wondering what you all think. So do you think it's okay or is ...
A. 13 December 2010: I must say something so please read.
In Sweden the age limit of having sex is 15. And that is not because the state think they know when everybody are ready to have sex. That limit is to protect under-aged youths from older people. Do you unde... (read in full...)
I'm worried that when I start to age, my 18 year old boyfriend will dump for a young hottie!
Q. I am a 32 year old woman. my boyfriend is 18. I love him like i've never loved another man. I'm just worried about the age difference. Men take longer to mature usually than women. I'm just so indecisive about this relationship and it's all ...
A. 13 December 2010: I'm sorry, I think it's weird that you are dating an 18-year old. I would never even look at the guys in my age. Not only because they are immature - but because boys don't become men (appearance) until they are like 23 at least.
Anyways, to answ... (read in full...)
He doesn't love me enough to leave his children
Q. If your married lover says that he doesn't love you enough to walk out on his children,does that mean he never will?...
A. 6 September 2010: I would never want to date a man who wants to leave his children.. that says a lot about him. But I think that you meant," will he leave his family for you?" That's something you must know more than anyone. What you relationship is all about, sex? ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to date my former teacher?
Q. I am 19 years old, I graduated high school last year. There has always been a very strong attraction between a teacher at my school (30 years old) and me. My friends would always bug me about how he liked me, but I never told them that I was in ...
A. 6 September 2010: I understand you completely... and just like me, who has been in the same situation must say that you should follow your heart and give it a try. Just as long as it feels like it's both of your decision and not only his, like you are being used. A ... (read in full...)
Everyone says he's too old for me!
Q. I'am 22.MY man is 35.they tell me that he is too old for mei have been dateing him for two yr.how do i tell him how i feel?...
A. 28 July 2010: You are 22 years old, and he is 35. If you both feel like it could work, and you are in similar places in life (meaning you both want the same thing right now) Then it's not wrong at all. You are old enough to know what you want, and so is he. It's ... (read in full...)
I'm 17 and in love with a 31 year old man. How can I tell if he feels the same way?
Q. okay this will simple question! I feel like I am n lovee but there is a 14 year age diff I am 17 and he iS 31.. I am loud and very out spoken i know everyone iN school and he is almost the complete oppositee.. He iS smart, extremely shy, very ...
A. 11 April 2010: If this man is a teacher, your should wait until you aren't a student anymore. But if he isn't and you mean "off limits" as too big age gap I can just say that love is love. And if you love this man and think that you know him well enough to see ... (read in full...)
Only attracted to older men
Q. Dear cupid I dont know why but i can only fall for older men. I have tried liking people my age but i just can't. i am in love with like 6 different guys (and obsessed with 1 guy) and i have no clue what to do and all of my friends are so sick of ...
A. 11 April 2010: I must say that first of all, I've been there... I still like older guys... men in their 30thies most of the time. And it has a lot to do with maturity but also that I just like the physical appearance of older men. I was 12 or 13 when I realized ... (read in full...)
I am 17 and attracted to older men
Q. Ok, I'm a 17 year old girl, soon to be 18, and I tend to find myself attracted to men in their late 20s and early 30s. My whole life I've been told if I date a man so much older, then when I get into a relationship with a man my own age, it will ...
A. 21 March 2010: Hey!
I am in the same situation as you are. Sins I was a little girl I have always liked older men. Always, as long as I can remember. And I am very "old" in mind, that's why my friends are all 20+. I am a very mature and responsible person, and ... (read in full...)
Its been a year of unrequited love, now my teacher seems to be deliberately avoiding me?
Q. OKay, I have written on this before, but decided to stay anonymous, some people may recognize the story. I am in year 12 studying A Levels. I am 16 year old girl. I have had feelings for a teacher at my school for a year now. He was my former He...
A. 3 January 2010: Hey girl!
I know what you are going through, I can relate to myself.
I do think that the others who has posted something has right, that he must be avoiding you because of the fact that he has noticed that you like him more than you should. ... (read in full...)
What can I do to help this girl who has illegal sex?
Q. I accidentally overheard about a twenty year old man who slept with a sixteen year old high school student. It sounded like she was getting help from friends, but what should I do? I don't really know her, but I know that it is illegal. Still, if I ...
A. 21 September 2009: It's not illegal,just leave them alone.. it's only 4 years between them. ... (read in full...)
My daughter is dating a much older man
Q. I need advice from people I don't know. My daughter is 19, and will be 20 in March. She dated a guy more her age, but he didn't treat her like a man should. She met another guy that is 31, will be 32 in September. This guy has teated her so good. ...
A. 5 September 2009: Hey! I think that you should just accept it, and let your daughter make her own choices, she is an adult and she will take responsibilities for her actions and she will learn from them. You said that the other guy close to her age treated her bad, ... (read in full...)
He's nearly 14, I'm nearly 16, should I to wait until he's 16 too before we have sex?
Q. My boyfriend is two years younger than me at 13 years old. In a few months I will be 16 and he will be 14 and a bit. He knows that I think it's important to be the legal age before you have sex and him being so much younger means that we've ne...
A. 5 September 2009: It seems like you are hesitating, and that probably means that you aren't ready, because if you were you would not ask anyone else what to do, you would already know. And I'm a person who can't even date someone in my own age, at least a few years ... (read in full...)
My best friend claims my boyfriend tried it on with her but my boyfriend says she's lying. Who do I believe?
Q. Okay, heres the thing, My old best friend claimed that my boyfriend tried it on with her, she had been a really pants friend and been getting around a hell of a lot! i didnt know what to do, he denied it but said he might have said things to her o...
A. 19 July 2009: Hey!
Do you trust your friend?
Do you know your friend?
If you do, you should know the answer. I mean you should know her good enough to know if she is a person who does things out of jealousy or other reasons.
I only want the best for my frie... (read in full...)
We have to see each other behind my parent's back. How can we make them accept us?
Q. I'm am 16 years old and have a confusing relationship with a 21 year old. When our strange relationship started we talked about what we would do because of the age difference. We both wanted to let our parents know about us however we were scared ...
A. 19 July 2009: Hey ! I totally agree with the others that have replied. You must tell your parents that it is actually your life, and if they think that you are too young tell them that you must grow up sometime! And to make your own decisions, what you think i... (read in full...)
Is my teacher sending signs or is it just my imagination??
Q. 1) He was sitting down with his legs wide open and I couldn't pass. He looked up and smiled. Then, after a few seconds, he moved his legs and let me pass. 2) Very often, he keeps eye contact; once he was gazing at me so much that he lost concentr...
A. 19 July 2009: Hey girl! I think that you are wrong here with the signs... Young girls often try to look for signs that aren't there.. you think that it is a sign but it really isn't. It sounds like coincidences but I'm not in your classroom seeing the signs so... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and pregnant!
Q. Hi um this is very embarassing. Well i'm 15 and i think i'm pregneant!Me and my boyfriend had sex but w/ protection. could the condom of broke? Please help. My sister was pregneant at 16 and gave her baby up for adoption but i hate adoption and ...
A. 26 June 2009: Hey!
Yes it is possible that the condom got broken,It is quite normal... it has happen to many of my friends.But they were lucky because they are also on Birth Control for extra protection. Go and take a test, as soon as possible.. that can help... (read in full...)
My dad's friend had sex with me and now my Dad and him got into a big fight! What should I do?
Q. Ok I had sex with guy that is 35 and he is my dads best freind and we were supposed to keep it between us well I started going out with this guy and he found out about it and because i am only 18 he thinks he took advantage of me so he call him and ...
A. 26 June 2009: Well first of all, tell the guy that you are dating to stay the hell away from your business, that's your past experiences that only involves you and not your current "boyfriend". He had no right to call the 35 year old to start fighting with him. ... (read in full...)
I am wanting opinions from people! Should our relationship be kept secret?
Q. I am 16 and my girlfriend is 13. We've been together for around 4 months but we've known each other for years. She's really mature for her age and I must say she's f*****g Beautiful! I've known that she's liked me quite a lot for a long time but ...
A. 26 June 2009: I do not think that your situation is weird at all.. ok perhaps a little.. because 13 is very young, and girls are very often more mature than guys in that age, if it was a 16 year old girl wanting to be together with a 13 year old boy I would be ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with him even though we are both going to collage?
Q. I'm pretty much best friends with my boyfriend. We've been "best friends" for more than a year, but we've only been going out for 3 monthes. I really trust him and love him, but i'm not sure if we'll have a future since I'm going off to college in ...
A. 26 June 2009: If I were you I would totally do it, think like this; You wan't to lose your virginity to someone you like, not just a one night stand, and you are both going to college.. witch means that you should be ready to have sex.. so what is stopping you, ... (read in full...)
I'm on the pill but he didn't use a condom. Could I be pregnant?
Q. Could I be pregnant? Here is what happened: My period is supposed to start either today or tomorrow. I have been taking Femcon birth control pills for a year. Well, boyfriend and I had sex last week. He forgot to bring a condom, but since I am t...
A. 26 June 2009: Hey!
Yes most on the pills are 99 % effective.. but there is still a procent or procent's in the case of the pills here where I live that you can get pregnant.. I know people who have gotten pregnant even when they where on pills(Birth control)... (read in full...)
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