How can I force my girlfriend into dropping some weight?
Q. Ive been dating my girlfriend off and on for two years. We are both in our 40's and she is a couple of years older than me and has two grown up kids. We get on really great and spend a lot of time together, although we don't live together. She is a...
A. 21 May 2009: oh my god your poor girlfriend you should accept her watever she weighs your a horrible man and if i was ur gf i would have left a while ago, btw you thinkin datin other women will help nah way it wont help at all she'l just go reaching for ice ... (read in full...)
She said she wants to take a break but to continue hanging out together!! This is all so confusing!
Q. hey everybody well today i was talking to my girlfriend and out of nowhere she tells me that she would rather take some time off from being with me because she wants to make sure that im the one she wants to spend the rest of her life with. I told ...
A. 21 May 2009: i think she may mean she wants the chance to meet other guys too and go to partys or clubs and be young for a bit, but she doesn't want to lose you at the same time, i think your gf's being a bit unfair on you. if your unhappy taking this break tell ... (read in full...)
She told me I am better than her boyfriend and she loves me, what should I do?
Q. alright, last night, i did something, i should be ashamed of but im not, i slept with a girl thats taken, ( dont worry we used protection ) she was screaming really loud, she told me that i was better than her bf, and that she loves me, what sho...
A. 21 May 2009: well, perhaps she just said it because she was caught up in the moment i suggest you send her a text or an email asking if she really meant what she said last night, if she does there's really nothing you can do. if she wants to be with you she'll ... (read in full...)
Single and ageing
Q. is being female of 30 years old + bad thing and being single because i dont i'll ever get a boyfriend i live in a rural town where is absoulty nothing going on but the weather.i feel past sell by date.i feel there is no body there for me.i find when ...
A. 21 May 2009: you should try getting to know people online, avoid sleazy sites, and get to know the people really well and then maybe invite them for a coffee might be a good option for you with you living in such a rural area. But you shouldn't feel so down ... (read in full...)
Do I end it with my cheating boyfriend when I have raised his baby by another woman as my own?
Q. Ok, where too begin I have been with my boyfriend/ father of my 8 month old child for a 2 years now we have been realy good friends since we were really little we are still young both only 22 but anyways when we first hooked up i kinda became ...
A. 21 May 2009: first of all your boyfriend is no good, hes a horrible lazy man. get rid of him be a strong independent mother and give him the choice i know you still feel attatched to his child but sit down and have a talk about it, work out days in which you or ... (read in full...)
How do I go about this situation with my boyfriend of 2 months?
Q. i saw my boyfriend yesterday at uni, he seemed very down and he told me he was tired and stressed about uni work. i dont really know what is going on, usually we hold hands walking around campus, we did, but it was loosely held. we sat on the benc...
A. 21 May 2009: maybe, he's not feeling appreciated, maybe this time you should send the miss you texts and the bed comment my boyfriend says that all the time cos i keep stealing the quilt or i can't keep still lol i'm sure he meant something like that, i very ... (read in full...)
Sperm donation from a friend or go to the Doctors?
Q. ive been wit my gurlfriend for 3-years.we live together an we want to have a baby.what should i do.i love her so much.so i go to the dr and try it that way.or should i find a frind that will give the sperm?...
A. 21 May 2009: i say go to the doctors first find out what can be done, and then if non of the options appeal to you, go to your friend.... (read in full...)
How do you find out what causes impotence?
Q. How can you find out what causes impotence? How do you know ,if its psychological? Is there a good way to do that? thank you...
A. 21 May 2009: well why not try the stamp test, get a ring of stamps and put it around your partners penis then in the night if the stamps haven't broken it's a physical problem. ... (read in full...)
Want to be a dad but too young, what should I do?
Q. ok im only 15 but i love this girl with all my heart. we dated once dint work cuz im 2 hours away now im moving with my causins so i can live only 3 miles away from her. i'll be ther in a week an were going to try to date again an i know this time ...
A. 21 May 2009: ooo well as i've just learnt thanks to all agony aunts on this site get a great job first babies need alot of money and support. if you don't have that you and your partner might break from all the pressure then your child will grow up in a broken ... (read in full...)
Career or baby... what do I do?
Q. okay i know im gonna get some abuse from all angry pregnant teens or parents on this site, but i have a baby shaped hole that really needs filling, but im so torn i really want a baby more than anything but i really wanna get my career sorted first, ...
A. 21 May 2009: thankyou so much for all advice i think i should wait, i mean the baby thing won't go away but it's not like i'm on my last egg or anything lol, i think i'll need to earn a good wage in order to give a baby a comfy life
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My sister's husband raped me but she chose to stay with him and now I don't talk to my sister
Q. hi i am 16 yrs old. i got raped by my sisters husband about 7 months ago when i was 15. i culdnt tell anyone because he use to say to me if i tell anyone he will ruin by sisters (his wife's) life. and i loved my sister alot. so for 2 months i dint ...
A. 20 May 2009: shame on your sister, what happened to you, and she stood by that evil man, hunni you dont deserve any of this your sister isn't a good woman, and you are so much better off without her if she can pick an evil person over her own flesh and blood as ... (read in full...)
I was pissed off because he went off with friends..am I being too sensitive?
Q. Hi everyone, this is my 3rd time asking a question on this website...thanks for all the great advice out there! Hope I can get sound advice this time round as well... :) Well I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 36 (the question I am asking does not relate ...
A. 20 May 2009: yeah your right he could have seen you instead, i think you need to tell him how you feel. Your not being too sensitive at all i would be the same if my boyfriend picked a game of tennis over seeing me but maybe he was just being a dosy man, tell ... (read in full...)
I don't feel anything since my ex boyfriend broke up with me in a text!
Q. my ex boyfriend of a year broke with me in a text and and weeks later decided he wanted me back but i dont want to because he doesnt deserve any other chance with me. Its been months now and i dont think ive got any feelings for him but everytime a ...
A. 20 May 2009: what your ex did to you was really cruel, i don't blame you for not wanting to take him back but if you still love him deep down you could sit down and talk to him about it ask him why he did it, might make you feel a bit better. but if ur really ... (read in full...)
Miscarried my baby after I was raped....now all I want is to have a baby!
Q. a year ago i was raped and i got pregnant. then i had a miscarriage and i never told anyone but now all i want more than anything is to have a baby. do you think thats nuts im 17.....
A. 20 May 2009: you poor girl, i can't imagine what that feels like. it's normal to wana fill the hole that u have now, but take into consideration what kind of life you can offer this baby. if you have the support and the money and what you want out of life is to ... (read in full...)
My mate's girl is always trying to get my attention
Q. My mates girl, well he aint much of a mates, fancy's me, she's always flirting and touching her breasts in front of me, keeps hugging my everytime she see's me, and i dont know what to do, i mean she is attractive and such, but i aint some dick that ...
A. 20 May 2009: i know its quite a bitchy thing to do but what you should do is say to your mate look i duno if your gf is like this all the time but sometimes i get the impression she wants something to happen and im worried that am guna break one day and give it ... (read in full...)
My flatmate's nasty when she drinks
Q. Hi, Iam currenlty living with one female flatmate. I moved in almost a year ago and we are now like family. she is old enough to be my mother and we relate to each other more like mother and daughter than flatmates. The problem is that when she has ...
A. 20 May 2009: if she has a mobile you could text her how u feel then she's atleast forced to read the whole text, just be quite onest and open about it or write her a letter or email anything really, you may think its the cowards way out but if shes refusing to ... (read in full...)
B/f 11 years older than me is abusive and I don't know how to get out of this relationship!
Q. First off, I'm 15 going on 16 in a couple of days; my boyfriend is ELEVEN years older than me. We've been together for 7 months and I do really like him, but every single month I've tried to end it because he's made me feel like sh*t, I have rea...
A. 20 May 2009: oh and if he tries to tell your parents anything don't worry cause he'll be the one that goes to prison for a long time. so i doubt he'd be doin that... (read in full...)
B/f 11 years older than me is abusive and I don't know how to get out of this relationship!
Q. First off, I'm 15 going on 16 in a couple of days; my boyfriend is ELEVEN years older than me. We've been together for 7 months and I do really like him, but every single month I've tried to end it because he's made me feel like sh*t, I have rea...
A. 20 May 2009: right okay hunni your 15, eleven years older nah shame on your parents. when i was 16 i got with a guy 20 years older but thats legal like, and im not in the slightest judging u but i need u to understand hes not guna change for anyone, your the ... (read in full...)
Mastubation or Sex that is the question?
Q. Is it sensible to masturbate or to have sex ?...
A. 19 May 2009: thats a tough question, maturbation prevents pregnancy and std's and gives you a release, sex is more emotion based in which two people can connect, and it also has more passion. it's sensible to masturbate, but i think most people would agree that ... (read in full...)
He kept joking to her about running away with her. Am I wrong for feeling disrespected?
Q. my boyfriend is older than me so his crowd is usually men and women (husbands and wives about his age) last weekend he had a gathering and just went on and on joking with one of his friend's wife, about how they should run away together and she ...
A. 18 May 2009: simply tell your boyfriend that you dont really feel comfortable with him saying that to another woman right infront of you, i personally think that your not overreacting at all why shud u suffer, i think in a way he disrespected you but not ... (read in full...)
Am I weird because I'm at virgin?
Q. Iv'e just turned sixteen and im still a virgin most of my friends arent. Does this make me weird? help!...
A. 18 May 2009: please dont rush it ul regret it so much i regret losing mine the way i did, i lost mine at 15 to a horrible boyfriend and all my maytes were planning their first times and how it was guna be so special and i just thought god if only id waited ... (read in full...)
Do I continue with my new boyfriend or see if I can work things out with my other friend?
Q. So i had this guy friend, and we decided to start a courtship... and it did go well, but later on he made up these stupid excuses like" you remind me of myself when i was like that" and "your voice sounds like a 13 year old, your so imature" "your a ...
A. 18 May 2009: i wouldn't go back to ur other friend guys like that will never change, he obviously wants to make u feel bad alot, all hel do is put u down to the point where your not even happy being urself, stay with ur boyfriend or be single u deserve to be ... (read in full...)
I would love to carry out this fantasy for my wife!
Q. My wife fantasizes about watching me sleep with another man and I am bi curious, so I'm willing to do it for her. I'm just wondering how I would go about finding a man without "outing" myself, because I'm not actually gay... just curious....
A. 18 May 2009: personally for threesomes u dont want someone u know cos things can get really awkward id go down the route of a chat line or something like maybe meet a couple times before u actually sleep with them and use protection and stuff but im sure u ... (read in full...)
Telling my parents about my guy
Q. A couple of weeks ago, I met this amazing guy. He's funny, talented, cute, sexy... you get the message. There's only one problem though. I'm almost 19 and he's 30. My parent's would kill me (not literally) if they found out. Another problem that my ...
A. 6 May 2009: hey my age gap with my guy is 20 years my father reacted very badly but my mum came around to the idea and wanted my happyness i suggest u come clean to them personally even if ur scared try writing them a letter i wish i had done much sooner i ... (read in full...)
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