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i am going to sign off Dear Cupid for good.
I'm not sure what is going on, but it is reaking havoc on my computer.
I hope you remember that Jehovah God is there for you. you just have to seek him out. Dont be so quick to dismiss a Jehovah's Witness when they knock on your door. Ask your self, if there wasn't something very important they wanted to say to you, do you think we would waste a perfectlly good Saturday morning to knock on your door?
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I found a ladys deodarant in his draw!
Q. so.... this weekend i went to sleepover at ma bfs place. anyway i foynd a ladies deodarant in his drawer and i really dont know wat to make of it.he said he didnt know who it belonged. anyway i thru it out but now am reall wondering is he having ...
A. 17 June 2009: you can casualy ask him, but it may be nothing. I have a friend who uses womens deodorant too because he hates that musky like smell that men's have.
I hope it's nothing.... (read in full...)
How do I ask my cousin out without ruining our relationship?
Q. i have an eye for my cousin who i have been attracted to for 2 years. she is beautiful and i am 1 year older than her. I dont see her often because she lives 4 hours from me. how do i ask her out without making a fool of myself and ruining our ...
A. 16 June 2009: Dude, she is your cousin. There is NO WAY you could ask her out and not make a fool out of yourself or not destroy your relationship.
Beleive me, she will tell your entire family and everyone will start to look at you like you some kind of perv ... (read in full...)
He's a completely different person during the day
Q. i have been married nearly 5 years and have 2 lovely kids. for a long while myself and my husband don't seem to get on at all during the day, i don't know if it is to do with the way we are with the children. i am sometimes soft with the children ...
A. 12 June 2009: i'm so sorry that you are living like this.
you are too conflicted, you are saying he is a good father but later say that it is not fair to the kids. It's got to be one or the other.
if you want to stay in this relationship, fo... (read in full...)
I want to be perfect!
Q. heres my issue: im skinny no hips no butt poofy hair when not scrunched with gel or straightened. over this summer(2 months) i want to get atleast a bit of hips a little bit of butt gain 15 lbs and find something to make my hair less frizzy and ...
A. 10 June 2009: If you are 14, you may still get some hips and your butt may fill out.
As for your hair, use a heavier conditioner. ... (read in full...)
I love my girlfriend but her over-protective brother is driving us crazy!
Q. I've been with my g/f for 4 years now and shes perfect, I love her. Its her annoying overly protective brother. He never lets me be alone with her at her house.I've spoken to my g/f about it and she had a talk with her brother about it and after ...
A. 10 June 2009: Well I hope he is true to his word and gives you both some space. but should he start up again let him know that as her brother you expect him to protect her. And you have been her boyfriend for 4 years and consider yourself her protector too. ... (read in full...)
Where is the best place to buy a good quality wig?
Q. Hello, I was wondering if someone knows where is the best place to try to buy a wig, on line. I have a serious hairloss, and I feel very shy, to go out and meet with people. Also, if you are wearing a wig, is it very akward? Do people notice yo...
A. 9 June 2009: If there are no wig shops around, if you have a picture of yourself, go to ivillage.com, it has a hair style option where you an upload a pic of your self and try on diffrent hair styles, it may help. when you find a style, go to google and lo... (read in full...)
I love my girlfriend but her over-protective brother is driving us crazy!
Q. I've been with my g/f for 4 years now and shes perfect, I love her. Its her annoying overly protective brother. He never lets me be alone with her at her house.I've spoken to my g/f about it and she had a talk with her brother about it and after ...
A. 9 June 2009: When you kiss her, are her parents around? some find it disrespectful if you show affection in front of their parents or in front of them for that matter. you need to have a talk with her bro. flat out ask him why is he so againist you. ... (read in full...)
I feel muddled and emotionally empty?!
Q. Hello I'm in a long distance relationship and have been for the last year and 3 months. It has always been long distance. At the beginning it was the most wonderful thing I've ever experienced. I cannot fault my boyfriend at all and he is a wond...
A. 9 June 2009: Is their a uni you can go to in the country he is in? If there is, why didn't you go their to begin with? If not, are you willing to give up your furture career for this man? Are you willing to move back?
You need to ask these question... (read in full...)
Which medicine works best for cramps?
Q. Hey, I need some suggestions Whenever I get my period, I tend to get cramps quite often. When it comes, i try so desperately to get rid of them. I've tried Midol, Advil, and Alieve, but the only results i got were that the Advil and Alieve each ...
A. 6 June 2009: Before Aleve was available over the counter, my doc prescribed it to me for cramps. The trick is to start taking it 2 days before your period.
I eventually needed surgery, but I would take 4 pills every eight hours. That let's you know how tota... (read in full...)
I just want out! I've hung on for the sake of the kids
Q. I've been married for 20 years, but Im near the end of my tether with keeping our marriage going. Here are the main problems I have. Trust. She does not trust me, so much so that I cannot engage in normal activities without her thinking I'm seei...
A. 6 June 2009: You need to have a sit down, very long talk with her. Share all of your feelings, every last one!
When she starts yelling, don't engage. Let her finish and start up again. Say that you are tired of being shut out from the world, that the two ... (read in full...)
Should I risk being too forward, or risk losing her to someone else?
Q. I've known this girl at my school for a couple months now. We sit next to each other in history class. She is pretty flirty with me. We make jokes, poke fun at each other, etc. We talk a lot on Facebook; we've spent the last couple of days talking ...
A. 6 June 2009: That's a great idea!
I hope it works out for you!!... (read in full...)
Should I lose my virginity tomorrow? Please answer ASAP!
Q. I am soooo confused please can you help me asap!! before tomorrow if you can i am 15 and i am a virgin and i like this boy alot and he want to take my virginity really baaaad but i think thats all he wants to do but im not sure. hes 16 and has ha...
A. 6 June 2009: YEAH!!! I'm soooo proud of you!!!
Wait until you can be with someone who won't start pouting when you don't give him what he wants!!!
I'm so happy for you! ... (read in full...)
I feel muddled and emotionally empty?!
Q. Hello I'm in a long distance relationship and have been for the last year and 3 months. It has always been long distance. At the beginning it was the most wonderful thing I've ever experienced. I cannot fault my boyfriend at all and he is a wond...
A. 5 June 2009: Why did you leave in the first place? Has the reason changed for the move? He said that he is ready for the two of you to move in together, but if you are in another country you need more of a commitment than splitting half the rent. You feel ... (read in full...)
Should I risk being too forward, or risk losing her to someone else?
Q. I've known this girl at my school for a couple months now. We sit next to each other in history class. She is pretty flirty with me. We make jokes, poke fun at each other, etc. We talk a lot on Facebook; we've spent the last couple of days talking ...
A. 5 June 2009: It seems that you two have a lot in common. You should test the waters and ask her to go some where as friends, but don't say "we will go as friends". Say something like, hey I really want to see that new movie, you want to go with me? ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid that boys will only see me as a friend. Any advice?
Q. Hey =) I'm 13 years old, and alot of people call me weird,stupid, dumb even my friends haha. I am always laughing and happy, although I can be serious when I need to be. I laugh at alot of things that people don't and I am always friendly towards...
A. 5 June 2009: We all can be a big ole bucket of crazy at times. You just have to know when to tone it down. I have learned that when I was feeling rather funny, that was when I was at my goofyiest. When you start to feel that way, just take a step back and ... (read in full...)
Racist family don't want us to be together!
Q. i have recently got together with a guy i really like but there has been problems, he is a football player so he spends most of his time at training, or out with mates i just dont seem to see him as much as i would like to,and people make it harder ...
A. 5 June 2009: Interracial relationships can be difficult. But if a couple realy feels as if they are compadable, they should stick it out.
My concern is that he is more intrested in playing football and hanging with his friends than with you.
When a ... (read in full...)
Desperate to lose weight and fit in!
Q. i am just desperate to lose weight. I'm not pretty and I don't know why my boyfriend wants to sleep with me (I do too). I have been making myself throw up for a week trying fit in with my friends who are so prettier then me. How can I be to be ...
A. 4 June 2009: I know what it feels like to be over weight as i too am working towads a more skinnier me.
Don't throw up. The acid in your stomach will rot out your teeth on the way back up. Beleive me, he would rather have sex with an overweight person t... (read in full...)
What is bothering him?
Q. I got married 3 years ago and my husband is a very lovable person. We have an almost 2 year old daughter and she loves her daddy very much just like i do, he is the love of my life. hard working man. The only thing is that he gets hurt right away h ...
A. 4 June 2009: you are still relying too much on your parents. the furniture in your room, is it yours? Take it with you. and if it is not, get a blow up mattress to sleep on until things get better. There are tons of second hand stores or garage sales w... (read in full...)
Should I lose my virginity tomorrow? Please answer ASAP!
Q. I am soooo confused please can you help me asap!! before tomorrow if you can i am 15 and i am a virgin and i like this boy alot and he want to take my virginity really baaaad but i think thats all he wants to do but im not sure. hes 16 and has ha...
A. 4 June 2009: My dear, PLEASE DON'T. If you have this much doubt, it is a red flag that you should not. Beleive me, there are a lot of guys who use a score card as to how many virgins they can have. You didn't say he wants YOU really bad, he wants your vi... (read in full...)
What is bothering him?
Q. I got married 3 years ago and my husband is a very lovable person. We have an almost 2 year old daughter and she loves her daddy very much just like i do, he is the love of my life. hard working man. The only thing is that he gets hurt right away h ...
A. 1 June 2009: It can be a real blow to a man's ego when he is relying on his in-laws for shelter. Where did he stay when he left? Was it someplace you could have stayed too? You may be relying too much on your parents instead of your husband. You two... (read in full...)
I'm caring for my younger sister, and she can't sleep
Q. Ok well my other little sister she won't go to sleep I tryed evey thing she is. 3 I asked what's wrong she said stomach ache now I don't like giving meds what else can I do to help her stomach and for her to sleep becuse I'm very tiers and want ...
A. 1 June 2009: Put a hot water bottle on her tummy and turn on the classical station. it works for me. ... (read in full...)
I just don't feel like I can compare with the girls he sees in porn
Q. I feel totally hideous and this is keeping me from enjoying and wanting sex. I feel too self conscious. My boyfriend watches porn, but it's not like he's addicted far from it actually. But these women look a thousand times better and this puts me ...
A. 1 June 2009: My dear, NO ONE looks like a porn star except women who are tying to become porn stars! They all have fake boobs, capped teeth, hair extensions, Gel Nails and make up that needs to be scraped off. If he likes you, he likes you. Don’t compare yo... (read in full...)
Should I just completely give up on him?
Q. My ex broke up with me. I apologized to him and was truthful to him. He made it clear that he didin't want me. there were times when he gave me mixed signals and I responed and then the next time I talk to him he would be negative again. I loved him ...
A. 1 June 2009: You poor thing. I know it’s hard, but you really have to let him go. He has led you around for a year.
You mentioned that he was married. I know you have heard this before but it is the truth, if he wanted to be with you, he would. The fact tha... (read in full...)
Please give me some advice I do not won't any rude replies.
Q. Hello: I was dating a guy who's religion was Jehovah's Witnesses, we only dated a short while he told me a little after we started dating, we dated when my daughter was younger and he had joined them. Ok here yesterday I call he tells me the rel...
A. 18 May 2009: First of all, let him go. i too am a JW and 2 Corinthians 6:14 says don't become unevenly yoked with unbelievers. and 1Cor 3:18 says Flee from fornication. Every time he thinks of moving in with you, these scriptures are running through his head. ... (read in full...)
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