How to deal with my period (and the unbearable cramps) when I'm at school?? It's even hard to walk and talk to people...
Q. PLEASE HELP ME!! I don't know what to do when i get my period on a school day. This morning i was having a pretty light period, then when I got to school, like all my nerves went off and my period suddenly turned heavy. During my 1st hour class i...
A. 22 September 2008: Hello, most girls don't have to worry about their periods, all they need to do is pad up. But I know how you feel I used to have the same problems as you. Nothing can prepare you, you need to be prepared. I used to go the school and end up in the ... (read in full...)
My bf gives another a lot of attention and I'm jealous! Is this normal?
Q. is it normal to be jealous if your bf gives another girl some attention?...
A. 4 April 2008: Hello, I have been with my man for 7 years and married for 2. Still I get a little jealous when I see him talking to a female. This feeling means you really care. Just be careful not to get over protected, otherwise you could push him away. Try to ... (read in full...)
My uncle is sex-pesting me, I don't want to say anything to my family, but what can I do?
Q. Hi, While I was camping a couple of years ago I slept in another camper tent. There are three double beds. My Cousin in one my other cousin in another and next to one of the beds is another one that my aunty and uncle sleep. I slept next to my...
A. 4 April 2008: Hello, There are many people that are in your position believe it or not, I certainly have been. The best advice I can give you is, if he says or does anything else tell him you know what he is doing is wrong. And warn him if it happens then you are ... (read in full...)
The guy I like is into swinger's clubs and porn. I've thrown in the towel with him but how do I deal with my broken heart?
Q. I met some one over 7 years ago. We have had a loving relationship during that time, we live apart. He prefers staying single. I now find that he is going out and is part of a local swingers club with another woman, he is dating other women, and ...
A. 23 January 2008: To be honest there is no easy answer, but of what i can see you do deserve better. You feel like you cant move on because of your age, but hun there is better out there. If he isn't interested inn what makes you happy, then really this isn't a ... (read in full...)
Sex with underaged - why is this case exceptional regarding punishment?
Q. i have an 18 yr old mate who has just been to court for sex with a girl 13. now take in mind that he is 18. he says hes not on the sex offenders register has no sex offenders programme to go on and is allowed to carry on seeing this child. i al...
A. 11 January 2008: Hello i hope i can give you a bit of insight. The sentence ect. is pruely down to the judge, he will listen to the situation and will rule on what he thinks is the best he has in mind. When i was 13 i was going out with a 23 year man, my mum was ... (read in full...)
My partner insisted on an open relationship... now I've fallen in love with a man I was sleeping with (and he, with me)!
Q. I'll try to make this brief. My partner and I flirted with having an "open" relationship. It was more his idea than mine; he has a very strong fantasy about me sleeping with other men. The inevitable has happened and I have fallen in love with the ...
A. 11 June 2007: Hi honey, to me it sounds like you have a couple of options. You can forget about this other man and get on with your life, loveless. Or you can explain to your partner and be happy. I know you don't want to hurt him, but really it is his fault. ... (read in full...)
Have lots of wet discharge from my vagina.. ?
Q. Ever so often I have this huge amount of discharge come out of my vagina. It'll soak my panties entirely and sometimes soak through to my pants as well. I don't know why it is doing this. I am not thinking about sex, I am not turned on. I'll be ...
A. 11 June 2007: hi honey, Every woman has discharge. Some women only have a bit, but for some of us (like me) do get alot. Normal discharge is white and quite creamy looking. I have been down to my doctor years ago, he said 'longs it doesn't smell wierd (lik... (read in full...)
Could these be genital warts (or something else)?
Q. Hi there, I need someones help! Last night i had sex with my boyfriend and we had to stop becuase it was hurting me. I had blood in my knickers the next time i checked too. Anyway, i checked it out myself infont of a mirror and around the en...
A. 11 June 2007: Hi honey,
I think the best thing for you to do is go to your doctor. I know its imbarassing but you need to get it checked out. Just remember your doctor has seen all sorts of things and will not be surprised, its his job. If you are too imbaress... (read in full...)
He said he wanted kids by the time he was 30, now that time has come he keeps doing a big "U" turn.
Q. Hi My husband and I have been together for five years and have both said we would like kids. My husband said originally he would like kids by 30 (6 months ago). Since then we have discussed it reguarly and he says yes, then when the day comes fo...
A. 8 June 2007: I believe you should sit down with your husband and ask him what he really wants. If he doesn't want to have children at all thats your call, at least you know, and you are not waiting around waiting for something that is not going to happen. If he ... (read in full...)
I am soooo unhappy and am not in love with my husband any more. What should I do for the best?
Q. HI, need some sensible advice on a serious matter. I'm 29 years old married with a son, problem is over the last year or so i have found myself not having the loving feeling that i should have for my husband, i feel like i've really drifted a...
A. 8 June 2007: There sounds like a number of choices here you have got. #You can just be truthful with him and call it a day. This doesn't mean your son isn't going to see him anymore, a lot of parents are apart. AND HAPPY.
#You can get in touch with a marr... (read in full...)
Our 3 year old daughter walked in on us having sex.
Q. Our 3 year old daughter walked in on us having sex. She didn't know what we were doing but just stood there saying mummy, we realised almost straight away but she did ask her me what we were doing when i took her back to bed and i said nothing for ...
A. 8 June 2007: When my daughter was little she done the same thing. I told her (if she heard you maaking noises) That we were playing about. I think i even told her that daddy was tickerling me. Just make it look inocent then she won't get confused.
Good luck hone... (read in full...)
I don't know whether to take my ex back again in case I get hurt but I love him more than anything.
Q. I love my ex so much its at times unbearable, he is my soul mate. We have been split up a month, because he told me he wanted to go work away, but then decided he cudnt cos he couldnt live with not seein his daughter (from a previous relatio...
A. 8 June 2007: It sounds like you blame yourself for a lot, even though both sides have done the same. I think you need to sit down with this guy, if you really want him back and talk about you two together and come to a truse. As for any family members, tell them ... (read in full...)
I feel like unwanted and unrespected and just that life's a bitch.
Q. hey just wanted some advice! I feel like i dont get respected from people and i do give respect 2 other people and i always do my best to treat people well and keep them happy! At the same time when i talk to people i find it difficult to keep a ...
A. 7 June 2007: It sounds like you blame yourself for quite abit. I had the same problem it felt like i just could not be bothered to hold a conversation, just felt like sitting there and stare into space. Anyway, i went down to my doctor (thinking he was going to ... (read in full...)
I really like this girl, but my feelings confuse me. What should I do about this?
Q. well, were to start. im basically a normal secondary school lass, but i seem to have special feelings for another girl in my class. I dont know why but i feel nervous around her but still want to be near her. I dont understand it and its confusing ...
A. 7 June 2007: I went through the same thing in school, i found myself looking at a girl (not easy to admit). I didn't want to say anything to anyone just incase they singled me out. But a friend (girl) that i hung around with said the same thing, i thought thank ... (read in full...)
What the devil does this mean!?
Q. if there is a picture of some breasts and a guy says i'd love to motor-boat them!! what does that mean??...
A. 7 June 2007: This in my opinion means that they would like to masterbate and eject their seamen all over her breasts. Hope this answers your question honey x.... (read in full...)
Things with my fiance are going downhill, FAST. The wedding is paid for an guests invited, but should we still go through with it??
Q. Ok, here goes. I have been with my gf for the last 6 nearly 7 years and we are due to get married in August. I'm 25 and so is she. I always thought I would be older but that irrelevant. Recently she found pictures of girls I had chatted to o...
A. 7 June 2007: I think the first thing to do before you call off the wedding, is to sit her down and talk. Ask her how she feels about marrying you and bring in gently your points of views. Most of the time after a couple have talked and seen eye to eye that is ... (read in full...)
Was he flirting with me or just being nice since I was the only one not talking to anyone??
Q. was he flirting or just being friendly i'm a rodeo girl, and me and a few of my friends travel together. While we were out of town at an event we ran into some guys we knew... well, my friend knew them =P they were across the street, and on t...
A. 7 June 2007: Sounds to me as though he was flirting with you, it sounds so dreamy. I think men do that, you know, give you that sort of glance to see if you are interested in him back.
I say go for it girl, you have nothing to lose!!!
Good luck honey!x... (read in full...)
He watches porn! Do I not satisfy him anymore?
Q. I have been with my partner for 5 years, married for just over a year. Our sex life is great, but he watches porn when i'm not there. We had sex last night, but when i went to work this morning he masterbated. I've asked him about it, he says every ...
A. 7 June 2007: thank you for your responces, you have answered direct but truthful. xxx. Thank you honeys!... (read in full...)
I still love him but he cheats on me so much! Should I take him back?
Q. Lastt nite my bf finished me bcuz he sed he wud end up gettin drunk on holidayy and cheatin on me he said he still loved me but he didnt wana hurt me by cheatin. i told him if he really loved me he would stop himself from cheatin whatever it takes n ...
A. 6 June 2007: He sounds like he isn't good enough for you. I know what it feels like to fall for someone and they just treat you like dirt. My advice of what i can give is just leave him up to his tricks. Do you really wanna stand around being used? Because if ... (read in full...)
I love my mistress but I love my wife and kids, too! What should I do?
Q. Hi im 36 yrs old male and i have been married for 17 years.I have also been cheating on my wife for 6 years with a wonderful women aged 26 we have a great relationship and i love her like mad. Trouble is i love my wife as well.I dont know which way ...
A. 6 June 2007: You really do need to make up your mind, not just for your sake, if you love these two people you will not want to hurt them anymore than they need to be. If you don't choose then you might end up with nothing.
Good luck honey!... (read in full...)
He's 4 years older and wants sex with me..should I agree or not?
Q. ive known this guy for ages and were really close. weve been messin round for ages and now he wants sex the thing is hes 4yrs older than me. should i sleep with him or say no?? plz help xx ...
A. 6 June 2007: If your not ready you don't have to do it. Let him know how you feel, if he really cares about you then he will understand. If he doesn't then he truthfully is really after just one thing.
Good luck honey!... (read in full...)
We're engaged and he is the best thing that has happened to me! I was so happy until I saw the look on his Mother's face at our announcement..What can I do?
Q. Hi there, my name is Marya and I'm 33 years old and my fiancé’s name is Kevin, he's 38. We've been together for 5 years now. On June 03, 2007 he announced our engagement… but it was not good. I was so hurt and disappointed when I saw his mom’...
A. 6 June 2007: I have been in the same situation. If you really want to be with this guy then you just remember...it's you and him in this relationship, not her or anyone else. In my experience it seemed like my partners mother didn't want to let him go. And/or i ... (read in full...)
We're trying to make this marriage work but he's talking to the other woman. Is he back with me for the wrong reasons?
Q. My husband and I are going through some rough times. We have been married for a little over three years, together for almost six. He cheated on me six times in four years. I forgave him and moved on. One day I took our kids and belongings and ...
A. 6 June 2007: He seems very disrepctful to you. Get him out of your life, you deserve better honey. ... (read in full...)
She's boring in bed and I don't feel desired by her! What can I do?
Q. My girlfriend is very boring in bed? I do not know what to do as I love her very much but I am worried that I may get bored. I have tried talking to her but she sees it as criticism and then says that she feels worse. I do not feel desired by ...
A. 6 June 2007: I had the same problem with my boyfriend. The way i went about is in a conversation i asked what his fantasies were and asked if there was any i could help with. Also ask what sort of things she likes in bed, what she likes and what she doesn't ... (read in full...)
Had unprotected sex and he 'came' inside me! Will I get pregnant?
Q. Ok I am 14 years old and i had unprotected sex with a guy that i been with for 9 months, he told me he came in me, i dont know if i might be pregnent but this happened like a week ago, will i be pregnent???...
A. 6 June 2007: It usually takes about three weeks for a pregnancy test to work. Don't stress yourself out over it honey, if you are then it's up to you what you do. If your not, then thank god. Don't let people try and keep pushing you saying it's wrong. Of course ... (read in full...)
Never in my life have I kept anything from her, if we get back together, in my eyes, she has a right to know everything, but I know it will destroy her, what do I do?
Q. I started seeing a girl 7 months ago, we have known each other for a bit, and completly fell in love. She came from a troubled childhood, and about a month ago, everything caught up with her, she told me she wanted a break. I'm no idiot, I realise ...
A. 6 June 2007: I think you should meet upwith her it sounds like she wants and needs your support. I am not saying not tell her, but i think if you do want to tell her, wait for the right time.
good luck honey!... (read in full...)
He wants sex but I'm having 2nd thoughts. What should I do?
Q. I am 15. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months. We have done pretty much everything, except sex. He wants me to, and I think I do too but Im still not positive and Im having second thoughts. I keep thinking of things that can happen, like ...
A. 6 June 2007: If you don't feel you are ready, don't do it girl!
If he really likes you he will understand and wait.
Just have a conversation with him and explain, he should understand. If he doesn't, then really truthfully he is just after one thing. After al... (read in full...)
He's with me but I found out he made up with an old gf! What do I do now?
Q. After i answered, my bf he told me he had a gf working in Manila for 2yrs. and have an off and on relationship so i asked him if we should break.up..but he didnt agree..till he told me that he will get rid of the girl and asks me to living in ...
A. 6 June 2007: I think you should ask him what he wants to do from here. You don't want to be hanging around if it's not you he wants. But on the other hand if he says he wants you then he should be prepared to have you and only you. You can't really be friends ... (read in full...)
We got in an argument, so he slept over his ex's house! He says nothing happened, but I don't kow what to believe!
Q. hi all, question to all males out ter. can u please help me !!! why would my bf of 3yrs tell me he went out for dinner with an ex of his from years back, then went back to her place for more drinks but slept on sofa while she slept in her bed. Sin...
A. 6 June 2007: Sometimes people can be just good friends. But when you have been in a relationship with someone it's a bit different. I hope for your sake she is just a friend, but is he the type to go to someone else for comfort? It really does depend on the ... (read in full...)
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