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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Ok, here goes. I have been with my gf for the last 6 nearly 7 years and we are due to get married in August. I'm 25 and so is she. I always thought I would be older but that irrelevant.Recently she found pictures of girls I had chatted to on the internet many years ago and she is hinting that she doesnt trust me although she won't say it out right.When she gets drunk (like last night) she gets in a real state, like a different person, who I despise. She is irritating, won't listen to me, could start an argument in an empty house and is very agresive towards me. The sex has become irregular also and I look for the bad points in her body rather than the good ones.There is less than 3 months to the wedding, all the guests are invited and everything is paid for. Should I marry her or give up and throw away the last 6 years of my life and a chance to be happy.
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reader, goodlistener +, writes (7 June 2007):
I think the first thing to do before you call off the wedding, is to sit her down and talk. Ask her how she feels about marrying you and bring in gently your points of views.Most of the time after a couple have talked and seen eye to eye that is all it takes. Let her get everything of her cheast, she most probably needs that the most. Wish you all the best,Good luck honeyx.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (7 June 2007):
 You should definitely NOT get married if you are feeling this way. Call off the wedding or at least postpone it until all this gets sorted out. If her personality changes when she drinks that is a classic sign of alcoholism or potential alcoholism. It's a major red flag. Her not trusting you after finding pictures from years ago is flaky too. Sit down with her and have a long chat about your relationship. I hope you reach the right decision. Divorces always end up costing much more than weddings.
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