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writes:Lastt nite my bf finished me bcuz he sed he wud end up gettin drunk on holidayy and cheatin on me he said he still loved me but he didnt wana hurt me by cheatin. i told him if he really loved me he would stop himself from cheatin whatever it takes n he jus sed yea but u dont no wat im like wen im drunk :SToday he has asked me back out..and i dont no what to do, we wud of been together 4 months on the 19th of junei still love im but i dont wana get hurt again i woz soo upset wen he finished me.help!xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008): love is sacrifice and that means that if he truly love you then he wouldnt do anything that would harm not just you but what you two suppossedly have together. Anyone who can not commit to being faithful to you is outright saying that it will in fact happen again if your love for him is that great than by all means prepare yourself because it certainly will get worse!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008): Hey honey first of all you've only been with him for a short time so dont think You're in love yet.... if he really loved you the way he says then he wouldnt get drunk and go mess with another girl.... give him time and see wat happens.... dnt call him or talk to him.... trust me You'll find out if he loves you or not.... it will hurt not talking to him but its worth finding out if he care's.... give yourself time to think if It's worth getting cheated on AND being his toy.... let him think if its worth losing the girl he loves for a girl he knew for two seconds.... i know You'll make the right choice because at the end of the day its your happiness.... dont listen to anyone but yourself and your heart.... noone can really tell you wat to do.... but really give it time....
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2008): hey look i just went through a long relationship and i loved him like crazy i still do he is my world and he said the same thing this guy told you but i took him back when he said he could control it well he wasn't to good at it every time he drunk there was another girl my name is Sarah but he has two Brittaney's and a Tara pulse me Sarah and it doesn't get better and if you say no there will be tears hurt heart ache there will be days you cant even move but let it end now instead of 10 more months from now cause trust me it will hurt way more
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2007): I have been in the same situation as you and I understand how you feel. My ex would drink every weekend!
I went out with my boyfriend for 2months then he told me that he had cheated on me a month before we actually finished. It was the most horrible feeling especialy because I didn't even know about it at the time.
He said he didn't even like the girl he cheated on me and it was because he was drunk.
A few months later and I still wasn't over him. He was always fooling about with other girls and the same girl he cheated on me with when he was drunk and it didn't mean anything becuase him and all his friends would do it, (even with the same girls).
We got back together a few times and just two months ago I decided to give him another chance. After one day he went to a party got drunk and cheated on me again. I was actual devistated. I ignored all my friends and got back with him a week later. We are still together now, who knows if he has done it again or not? I admit that I do find it very hard to trust him but I can't help how I feel about him because I love him so much.
My advice is to listen to your own heart and not really anyone else because they can't really understand how you feel about the person. Most boys are the same but if you give him another chance you never know what will happen. x
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reader, goodlistener +, writes (6 June 2007):
He sounds like he isn't good enough for you. I know what it feels like to fall for someone and they just treat you like dirt. My advice of what i can give is just leave him up to his tricks. Do you really wanna stand around being used? Because if you just keep putting it off you are gonna get hurt worse.
Good luck honey, you are worth it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2007): First of all you are way too young to be having these kind of problems. You should be enjoying yourself with your friends. Second and most important, stop and think about how he made you feel last nite? Well you will have those ugly hurt feelings all the time if you take him back. And if you take him back you will remember my words when he's done to you over and over. Being cheated on his a horrible feeling, don't do it to yourself.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (6 June 2007):
 Babe if he can't guarantee to be faithful to you then i would move on and find someone that will be it's only been a short relationship you will get over him very quickly when you meet someone that treats you with the respect you deserve.
Take care.xx.
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (6 June 2007):
 Just an excuse to cheat in my opinion. If he loved you, he wouldn't be going to this place if he somehow knew he was going to be unfaithful.
Tell him to quit the b*llsh*t coz he just picks u up and drops you when he feels like it. Is that the kind of relationship you want??
Don't go back to him, he'll just do the same thing again and a again if you let him carry on like this while he's in a relationship.
Find someone who'll respect you, this guy's a player.
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