Is there any way I can repair my friendship with her?
Q. Well,I just have a colleague which is a girl and she likes me. I used to talk to her after getting out from work on the way home.After some weeks I had some thoughts flying through my mind (not about her).I started to stop talking to her. Now we us...
A. 29 December 2016: I don't follow. Here's what I gathered: there's a girl you used to talk to briefly on your way home. Then you heard her friends say that she likes you but you don't look at her anymore. Then she started looking at you, which you took as a sign... (read in full...)
Should I marry a man I don't love? Is it time to settle?
Q. Should I marry a man I don't love? I have a friend who really likes me I told him that I really like his company, I think he's a nice person but there is no spark. He told me that despite the fact I don't love him he would wait for me and marry...
A. 29 December 2016: This flies in the face of the other responses, but oh well: I don't see a problem with marrying him. It isn't irrevocable. ... (read in full...)
Shy. It's making it difficult for me to develop a relationship with any women I meet. Any tips to help me get over my shyness?
Q. I'm a guy who's grown up very shy and has recently become single. My shyness is only when it comes to taking things further with a girl- I get on with women, I flirt and am even brave enough to ask for the first date, but when it comes to making the ...
A. 29 December 2016: I used to be a total introvert too but then I learned to Fake it. It's easy. When she plays games play them back better. Reciprocate. She ignores your text so you ignore hers longer. She touches your hand, you put your hand on her leg. She gets ... (read in full...)
My ex fiance treats me like a best friend
Q. My ex fiancé broke up with me 4 months ago. We were together for almost four years. At first she needed space and was confused because she couldn't get over issues in our past. She wanted time and for me to back off and give her space. We have ...
A. 28 December 2016: She wants to have her cake and eat it too. ... (read in full...)
Why is it hard for me to initiate sex with my girlfriend?
Q. I have been dating my girlfriend for almost a year. We usually would have sex once or twice a week for the first 6 months then it gradually decreased to where we haven't had sex in at least a couple of months. Now I am finding it hard to initiate ...
A. 3 May 2012: she is making it hard for you, either intentionally or subconsciously. ask her why. be prepared to hear things you may not want to hear. if you don't hear them, she's holding them back and you're not communicating effectively. if/when she does ... (read in full...)
I told this girl that I was having an online romance with, that I want to see her naked, and now she wont respond to me even though I've apologized
Q. I was engaged in an online romance with a very shy girl. We spoke online all day most days and hung out a few times. I said something risque suggesting that i don't care about love but just want to see her naked. It was just a joke and i was trying ...
A. 3 May 2012: funny thing. i put her on ignore for a few days. she chats me up today. i say "bring me a 6 pack." she does. and she creeps out just as fast. lol. weird.... (read in full...)
I told this girl that I was having an online romance with, that I want to see her naked, and now she wont respond to me even though I've apologized
Q. I was engaged in an online romance with a very shy girl. We spoke online all day most days and hung out a few times. I said something risque suggesting that i don't care about love but just want to see her naked. It was just a joke and i was trying ...
A. 2 May 2012: Cerberus, that is some solid advice. Something about this girl turned me into a wuss, but I'm over it. I wish I would have maintained composure because she seems so sweet and is so gorgeous and it was sad to watch her flip off of the hook. But ... (read in full...)
I told this girl that I was having an online romance with, that I want to see her naked, and now she wont respond to me even though I've apologized
Q. I was engaged in an online romance with a very shy girl. We spoke online all day most days and hung out a few times. I said something risque suggesting that i don't care about love but just want to see her naked. It was just a joke and i was trying ...
A. 30 April 2012: there has been a brief chat. i will wait it out and let her initiate?... (read in full...)
I told this girl that I was having an online romance with, that I want to see her naked, and now she wont respond to me even though I've apologized
Q. I was engaged in an online romance with a very shy girl. We spoke online all day most days and hung out a few times. I said something risque suggesting that i don't care about love but just want to see her naked. It was just a joke and i was trying ...
A. 29 April 2012: alright. within the context of our conversation, in which we were teasing one another, my comment doesn't seem that bad. it was a facetious response to what i felt was an absurd question.
alright. i so i sent her a pic to cheer her up yesterda... (read in full...)
Should I keep trying to interest this girl? She seems to have been through a lot recently.
Q. i'm a 1st year law student and there's this 3rd year student i really like quite a bit. she's graduating in about 2 weeks, but she got a job in this city, so she'll be sticking around. now, she's a pretty strange case: an introvert and i cannot...
A. 9 April 2012: should i disengage and stop initiating contact?... (read in full...)
Should I keep trying to interest this girl? She seems to have been through a lot recently.
Q. i'm a 1st year law student and there's this 3rd year student i really like quite a bit. she's graduating in about 2 weeks, but she got a job in this city, so she'll be sticking around. now, she's a pretty strange case: an introvert and i cannot...
A. 7 April 2012: it's strange to message someone and no receive a response. ... (read in full...)
Should I keep trying to interest this girl? She seems to have been through a lot recently.
Q. i'm a 1st year law student and there's this 3rd year student i really like quite a bit. she's graduating in about 2 weeks, but she got a job in this city, so she'll be sticking around. now, she's a pretty strange case: an introvert and i cannot...
A. 7 April 2012: i can do that. i just wanted affirmation that i wasn't being a weirdo. i am just having a hard time understanding her life and what effects that must have on her. should i wait for her to msg me next time?... (read in full...)
Does interest shift this fast or is she flaky?
Q. i was hanging out with this girl for about a month, then following this unexplicable (literally, non-verbal) falling-out she started ignoring me, won't talk, and has immediately replaced me with another dude. she's 21 and i'm 27. is she that ...
A. 16 December 2011: thanks. i kinda came to this conclusion myself over the course of the day. i'm so old, this stuff reminds me of jr. high, and almost got caught up in it til i realized i was a full grown man and had control over my emotions; she's still just a ... (read in full...)
Does interest shift this fast or is she flaky?
Q. i was hanging out with this girl for about a month, then following this unexplicable (literally, non-verbal) falling-out she started ignoring me, won't talk, and has immediately replaced me with another dude. she's 21 and i'm 27. is she that ...
A. 16 December 2011: she intentionally parades around in front of me, speaking to my friends for no reason (who drew this to my attention); she parades around w/ this other dude, but i don't see her looking nearly as cute when she's w/ him; she seems to always be ... (read in full...)
Does interest shift this fast or is she flaky?
Q. i was hanging out with this girl for about a month, then following this unexplicable (literally, non-verbal) falling-out she started ignoring me, won't talk, and has immediately replaced me with another dude. she's 21 and i'm 27. is she that ...
A. 16 December 2011: chigirl--she is literally ignoring me; she hasn't replied to my email, i haven't tried to call b/c i'll see her next semester anyway, but she literally goes out of her way to talk to my friends at school and make her presence known to me JUST so she ... (read in full...)
Does interest shift this fast or is she flaky?
Q. i was hanging out with this girl for about a month, then following this unexplicable (literally, non-verbal) falling-out she started ignoring me, won't talk, and has immediately replaced me with another dude. she's 21 and i'm 27. is she that ...
A. 16 December 2011: i have attempted to reconcile in some way. the last communication was a simple 2 line email: "hope you did well on finals, see you next semester," sort of thing, just to try to keep an open line, but i feel she is probably a master of ignoring. i'm ... (read in full...)
How do I get this girl to hang out with me?
Q. There’s this girl I work with who I have a crush on (we’re both grad.-student/teachers). I never see her at school, but we talk on Facebook chat frequently--I usually initiate the conversation. At any rate, she seems receptive, and always has a ...
A. 23 April 2010: (No, I have not asked any questions even remotely similar to this one. And she didn't call me "weird," I did.)... (read in full...)
His masturbating is affecting our sex life, ...and my confidence!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. We have had a pretty decent sex life (2-4 times per week) until about 3 or 4 months ago and then everything changed. He says he's just not really in the mood for sex ever but I know that he ...
A. 12 April 2010: Are you judgmental about his sexual desires? Obviously he's not getting what he needs from you--is that his fault?... (read in full...)
How do I deal with this ex who won't let go?
Q. My ex girlfriend has called once or twice a week for the past 2 months (I caught her cheating, again, with the same guy), but I never returned her calls. She Emailed me a few times, even invited me on a week-long trip to LA (2 weeks ago), and I ...
A. 4 April 2010: The relationship was great for 4 years. Then she got a new job, moved, got a cell phone, and started lying to me like I was her mom or something. F That.
We'd still be together otherwise.... (read in full...)
My ex is a liar but I feel bad for ignoring her. What should I do?
Q. I broke up with my 4-year GF for good. We'd had complicated problems for a year (she is a liar). I cut her off completely after the talk, she chased after, and i got in my car and left. She called a few times. Left a message. A few weeks passed and ...
A. 22 March 2010: I've already been through the MANY stages of hoping/believing that our relationship can improve. It won't; she's incapable.
But why do I hope she'll call? How do I stop this silliness?... (read in full...)
I've stopped talking to my ex girlfriend after she cheated on me
Q. I cut off my 4-year GF, cold turkey, after I caught her cheating. She called (and e-mailed) a few times on the first day. It's been 4 days (no contact)... ...when should I expect the pscyho-ex-girlfriend problems to start? What should I expect?...
A. 2 March 2010: No, it's not that I want her to call (though, I have to admit I do check the phone whenever I come home). It's rather that I've tried to end it with this girl a few times, and it never seems to stick (she tempts me with sex, etc.). I hope it really ... (read in full...)
How to end a long-term relationship with a manipuator?
Q. I caught my girlfriend sleeping at this other guy's house who she previously promised not to ever see again. Her car was parked in front. This has happened a few times over the past couple years (we've been together almost 5) and I always forgive. I ...
A. 26 February 2010: I stopped by her place and brought her some chocolates I bought for her last night (before I caught her at the dude's place again). I basically surprised her, stirred her from her nap. We laughed and joked a while, I told her what I did with my ... (read in full...)
How to end a long-term relationship with a manipuator?
Q. I caught my girlfriend sleeping at this other guy's house who she previously promised not to ever see again. Her car was parked in front. This has happened a few times over the past couple years (we've been together almost 5) and I always forgive. I ...
A. 26 February 2010: I stopped by her place and brought her some chocolates I bought for her last night (before I caught her at the dude's place again). I basically surprised her, stirred her from her nap. We laughed and joked a while, I told her what I did with my ... (read in full...)
Should I keep trying to call after the fight?
Q. My GF and I (4 years, getting shaky) had a fight via Instant Messenger (don't ask) a few days ago. I called her immediately after with no response. I waited a couple of days and called her again, today--no response all night. What's the dea...
A. 24 February 2010: Who was in the wrong? That's a silly question: depends on whose side you want to take.
The premise of the fight was this: she recently made promises about how our relationship would be (after I caught her at the dude she cheated with's apartmen... (read in full...)
What should I do? He is happy doing nothing.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together just over a year and we are great together. But lately things have been a little dull. He spends a lot of time on the couch he only watches television and zones right out or he plays video games. This happens ...
A. 21 December 2009: Maybe shake things up. He seems a bit too comfortable with your situation. Start making less time to do things he wants to do, be busy, but invite him along with you--otherwise, let him sit around and be lonely. He'll figure it out.... (read in full...)
What should I do? He is happy doing nothing.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together just over a year and we are great together. But lately things have been a little dull. He spends a lot of time on the couch he only watches television and zones right out or he plays video games. This happens ...
A. 20 December 2009: He's depressed. Talk to him about his problems.... (read in full...)
How does sex feel?
Q. How does sex feel for a guy, when i decide to have it with my girlfriend, it will be my first time. Like what does it feel like in the inside and in your mind...
A. 20 December 2009: Well, first it feels wet and squishy (tight too, if you're lucky). Then, after a while, in your mind it feels like you're about to have a seizure. Then it feels like goop is squirting out of your weiner. If it's your first time all of these ... (read in full...)
Any clue on how to trust him?
Q. Someone please help me. I love my significant other so much, and yet, I do not trust him. He has NEVER done anything to make me not trust him, but every time he mentions a girl, or says he is with a girl, I get these raging feelings of jealousy that ...
A. 20 December 2009: Well, you're right: you will lose him if you keep this up.
Men are simple creatures, and are easily manipulated by women. Take all of that energy you are investing in being paranoid, and re-invest it into something that will surely keep him in c... (read in full...)
She did me wrong and I broke it off, but why isnt she begging for me to come back?
Q. So, my ex has done me wrong--undeniably. I broke it off. She cried and still wanted to be friends. I said no. She got angry. It's been 4 days. Why hasn't she called me back begging? I don't really (only kind of) want to talk to her, but it sure...
A. 20 December 2009: Well, she got me. I woke up to a ringing phone and answered it without checking the caller ID (nobody but my mom ever calls in the morning). She was frantic because I have been avoiding her calls and she knows it. She wants to be "my friend," bec... (read in full...)
Semen found on backside of boyfriend's underwear?
Q. I saw dried semen on the back (outside) of my boyfriend's underwear. There was more on back side than inside the front of underwear. We live together and after sex he always go right to sleep, (I generally don't), so he doesn't clean up or wipe with ...
A. 19 December 2009: There's only ONE possible solution: He is homosexual, cheating on you, and after being anally dominating by his secret partner, he farted.... (read in full...)
I don't understand the need for some people to hurt others during sex
Q. More so a question for the guys, ... but comments from females welcome too. After some comments heard today, I am rather curious as to the overall psychology going on behind this seemingly wide spread phenomena that causes SOME guys to actually...
A. 19 December 2009: I will admit that a bit of pain can be fun, but only if it is wanted by my partner--otherwise it would turn me off. It's not misgynistic, and it's not a result of porn (despite previous posters opinions. It's something more, something carnal... (read in full...)
She did me wrong and I broke it off, but why isnt she begging for me to come back?
Q. So, my ex has done me wrong--undeniably. I broke it off. She cried and still wanted to be friends. I said no. She got angry. It's been 4 days. Why hasn't she called me back begging? I don't really (only kind of) want to talk to her, but it sure...
A. 18 December 2009: (I haven't bought the farm yet, but I'm sure negotiating prices with my real-estate agent!)
So, she called twice this morning and left a message with a friendly, bubbly, girlfriend tone, as if nothing ever happenned. She asked me to call her back... (read in full...)
She did me wrong and I broke it off, but why isnt she begging for me to come back?
Q. So, my ex has done me wrong--undeniably. I broke it off. She cried and still wanted to be friends. I said no. She got angry. It's been 4 days. Why hasn't she called me back begging? I don't really (only kind of) want to talk to her, but it sure...
A. 18 December 2009: Yes.... (read in full...)
I don't understand the need for some people to hurt others during sex
Q. More so a question for the guys, ... but comments from females welcome too. After some comments heard today, I am rather curious as to the overall psychology going on behind this seemingly wide spread phenomena that causes SOME guys to actually...
A. 18 December 2009:
Some people just like it rough, male and female. I don't know about the bleeding thing, specifically, but I can tell you that that's tame compared to some sexual desires.
It has nothing to do with "ego tripping" per se, but it often does have to... (read in full...)
She did me wrong and I broke it off, but why isnt she begging for me to come back?
Q. So, my ex has done me wrong--undeniably. I broke it off. She cried and still wanted to be friends. I said no. She got angry. It's been 4 days. Why hasn't she called me back begging? I don't really (only kind of) want to talk to her, but it sure...
A. 18 December 2009: yes, I realize how pathetic it sounds. That's why I say it only behind the anonymity of a message board.
I want her to chase to prove she really cares.... (read in full...)
She did me wrong and I broke it off, but why isnt she begging for me to come back?
Q. So, my ex has done me wrong--undeniably. I broke it off. She cried and still wanted to be friends. I said no. She got angry. It's been 4 days. Why hasn't she called me back begging? I don't really (only kind of) want to talk to her, but it sure...
A. 18 December 2009: I was calm when i broke it off. So calm, in fact, that she was offput by it (she said so).
I want to make her chase after me, how do I do that?... (read in full...)
I have a question for the guys???
Q. Ok im trying to keep my virginity so is there anything that i could do sexually that guys like to do without having intercoarse?...
A. 18 December 2009: Handjobs. No danger of any kind. And no guy will rationally turn one down (though it's not always the preferred method).
... (read in full...)
Should I give this other girl a chance even though I love my ex?
Q. I love my ex. She says she loves me but everytime I think we are gonna have a chance she goes "on a date" with someone else. Of course that ends it for us but then she comes crawling back to me saying she wants only me, saying everything I want to ...
A. 18 December 2009: Stay away from both until your head clears up. The ex is playing you. The other girl is a rebound. Neither are healthy relationships and both will ultimately result in massive stress and heartbreak for someone.... (read in full...)
Does my husband just want his cake and eat it too?
Q. my husband thinks its alright to keep in contact with his ex's. this has been an issue for me because i found messages from 1 of them telling him how much she loves him and misses him. so when i confront him he gets angry with me and says that "am ...
A. 18 December 2009: he knows he is ultimately in control of the situation; you will tolerate it. This is what he has learned from your past behaviors.
Set boundaries. Tell him if he crosses them that you are leaving him. Be sure he knows it is not about what he does ... (read in full...)
Can anyone explain my erection difficulties?
Q. Hi, I am 20years old male, I have a serious issue which has started recently like 5months ago, The problem is that my penis stands up in the start such as in the foreplay but right after some time it goes down and then does not stand up. And I ...
A. 18 December 2009: Stop watching porn and don't masturbate for a few weeks. Then see...... (read in full...)
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