Because we live 50 miles apart I only see him weekends but he never seems to want sex!
Q. HELP!! I'm a 31 year old woman driving myself MAD!! I've been with my fella for 8 months now and we live 50 miles apart so see each other most weekends... my sex drive is way high and all I want to do is *well-you know* when we get time together, ...
A. 22 April 2009: Sex doesn't always mean something. In fact, it might mean nothing. Talk to him and ask him in a non-pressuring kind of way. If you love him then I would think that you can look past this hiccup. If you love sex more, go find someone else who ... (read in full...)
I get visions of my girlfriend cheating on me!
Q. I get visions of my girlfriend cheating on me. I don't know if it's the paranoia that I have created in my mind or she is truly cheating on me. In the past, she hasn't shown any traits of doing so, in fact she has always been very loyal and t...
A. 22 April 2009: I used to do that too. And sometimes I was right and sometimes I was wrong. I finally decided that if I felt like she was cheating on me, it was best to just end it rather than go through the whole time consuming process of fighting about things ... (read in full...)
Is he trying to make me feel guilty for not having sex with him?
Q. I have been seeing this guy for over a month. Im 19 and he is 23 and we were friends for about 2 months before we got together. We havent done anything sexual yet but he always wants to and says that he cant help it because Im so sexy. Last nigh...
A. 22 April 2009: He's a douche-bag and you need to decide if you want to put up with douche-bags the rest of your life or spend time with people who aren't douche-bags.... (read in full...)
Unfaithful woman woes
Q. For seven months, I've been dating a woman who is 10 years older than me. This is the longest relationship I've been in, and I lost my virginity to this woman. She is my everything. She has problems with being unfaithful. She said that is on...
A. 22 April 2009: Do you like all the back and forth she puts you through? If so, stay with her. If not, leave her and don't look back.... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend too young for me, do you think?
Q. I have been dating a much younger girl for 6 months now (im coming on 27,she is 17) She is a great girl,she is understanding and caring. My problem is,she has met most of my family and friends on a number of occasions and each time she will ju...
A. 22 April 2009: Uh, look...nothing wrong with being with a chick who's that much younger than you, but she is a girl who needs to learn herself and who she is, being in a "relationship" does not allow her to explore herself. If you can do this and remain friends, ... (read in full...)
19 and 45, what to do... need some help!
Q. I met this guy when I was 10 and I fell deeply in love with this guy sexually emotional and physically. I'm now 19 and he is 45 and I feel it would be wrong but on the other hand I really love him and we are starting a relationship, and I was ...
A. 22 April 2009: Do you want to be in a relationship with the guy? If so, then do it. If not, then don't.... (read in full...)
Dating a younger guy!
Q. I am a single mother with 2 kids. I haven’t dated in 3 years just because I don’t make time for myself. Now there is this sweet and caring guy who likes me and is very nice to me, but he is 10 years younger then me. Should I date him? ...
A. 22 April 2009: Sometimes guys that chicks think are "sweet" are assholes. You have children and it would be good to find out what the guy is like before you put all your eggs in any basket. Catch my drift, mama?... (read in full...)
How do you know when you are experiencing an orgasm?
Q. Is it possible that I can't orgasm? I know its really hard to describe what it feels like to climax, but I don't know that I've ever reached that point. At first I thought it was the guy's fault because he was thinking about his needs over mine,...
A. 22 April 2009: Oh child, an orgasm can be a beautiful thing with the right person. Be patient and the right person will make the right orgasm for you.... (read in full...)
How can I make her stop hating me?
Q. I'm 15 and I like this girl a lot, but the problem is she hates me, plain and simple. What can I do to make her not hate me. I'm not that bad of a person, I'm kind and considerate, I even write poetry about her, I haven't shown her my work and I ...
A. 22 April 2009: Oh yeah and be careful by the word love, it is so out of your control. don't listen to people who say silly things like that, you can totally decide whom you love, or what type of person you'd find the best for you. People who say otherwise are ... (read in full...)
Do men marry and stay with women who are not their ideal?
Q. Do men marry or stay with women that are not their ideal "type"? ...
A. 22 April 2009: Never. Are you serious? Have you always dated your ideal type?... (read in full...)
Catholic girlfriend denying me sex!
Q. I've got quite a dilema. I don't even know where to begin. I'm atheist (24 years old) and I have a uber conservative Cathlolic girlfriend (20 years old). We've been going out for 8 months. I love her and she loves me but there's a major problem ...
A. 22 April 2009: Are you nuts? Break it off and find a more willing girl who doesn't make your balls blue. That's it. Simple. If you marry this chick just because you want sex, you will hate yourself and her in a couple of years, and that would suck wouldn't it.... (read in full...)
My bf of a year and a half seems to be to busy for me!
Q. my boyfriend of a year and ahalf seems to be busy all the time now. he does not want me to sleep over anymore and he does not invite me. he doesnt call me much anymore too. and i always have to ASK him if he could hang out, which he sometimes ...
A. 22 April 2009: It's as simple as this: Do you like this kind of behavior that he's demonstrating? If so, then continue with everything the way it is and stop asking advice. If you don't like the behavior, then stop seeing him and start looking in different places ... (read in full...)
My best friend is about to start dating the love of my life!
Q. hey everyone, i need some help! i really, really like this girl, i have for about a year and never been able to tell her but ive dropped hints for ages, we are really close, and she just broke up with her boyfriend. I was at a party which she rea...
A. 22 April 2009: You've got a few choices. First, and what I would have done is jump in with them and snuggle with them. Why not? Talking to him about it is just going to become a "I saw her first" mess. Who needs that? Second choice, is to just be dumb and ... (read in full...)
Am I over thinking the age difference? I'm 41 she is 27
Q. I recently met a beautiful and wonderful woman who is 27. I am 41 and we met online have gone out the past few weeks. To give you an idea what this is about, I’ll give you the details: As I stated, I am 41. However, if you saw me your jaw would d...
A. 21 April 2009: Dude, you're a rockstar, go with it!... (read in full...)
What kind of sign is this?
Q. hey i would like some advice! i saw this girl on myspace and she had the same hobbies i had so i decided to send her a friend request! so we emailed back and forth for a couple of days and it seemed good. after a few emails i sent her one asking if ...
A. 21 April 2009: You're upwards of 26 years old??? Seriously? Dude. Relax. Like my daddy used ta say, "when you feel like gettin laid, just toss a quarter in the trunk of the car and wack the winky" I was a rich man within a year and never had to work again. ... (read in full...)
If I tell my dad then I lose my mum and my sister... What do I do???
Q. Very tricky problem! My boyfriend of 2 years recently went to pick my younger sister up from school (she is in year 11) it was after hockey practice and she wasn't at the front of the gates like usual so he went inside towards the all weather pitch ...
A. 21 April 2009: Maybe tell your sister to stop offering sex to the guy.... (read in full...)
Husband wants me to use very abusive language on him during our romantic weekend!
Q. I'm a 34-year-old businesswoman, my husband's 36, and our son's 11 years old and in High school. Last night me and my husband were talking about ideas for making our sex life hotter and having a romantic week together as we haven't had one ...
A. 21 April 2009: There are books on abusive language that you can get at your local bookshop.... (read in full...)
Saving ourselves for marriage but want to spice up things
Q. so ive been with this amazing guy for almost three years now and i love him to death. the thing is, we're always together but dont have much alone time so when we do, we want to make it count. we're both saving ourselves for marriage but we need ...
A. 21 April 2009: Try massaging his bunghole with a Tarzan action figure...be careful not to go too far with it, because they can hurt unless they have the soft Tarzan head on them.... (read in full...)
I think my little brother is gay!
Q. I think my little brother is gay. For some time, I think I was subconsciously worried about this ever since I saw him listen to Britney Spears songs on my ipod. I'm not saying that's an automatic signal for homosexuality, but my reaction to that ...
A. 21 April 2009: Teach him how to fight.... (read in full...)
Will masturbation affect my health in the future?
Q. Will masturbation affect the future or health of a boy who is 18...
A. 21 April 2009: Masturbation has been known to destroy a good pitching arm...though otherwise he should be fine. As with any activity of a highly repetitive nature, you should first check with your physician.... (read in full...)
A date turns into a FWB, but I'm confused as to WHY?
Q. I dated this guy for 2 months, we had sex on the first date and continued to date for several weeks. i was unsure about him the whole time, and he kept hinting that i could see him and date others. about two months in, he became a bit distant and ...
A. 21 April 2009: Umm...at the risk of maligning decent women out there, if a woman thinks she can get some nook no strings, she often will.... (read in full...)
He just won't take the hint that I'm not interested, what do I do?
Q. Hi there, I recently went away on vacation for a week to another city about 2 hours way from where I live. I stayed with my best friend, and the frst night I was there, I went out clubbing and met her cousin. I was completely drunk and ended up ...
A. 21 April 2009: Maybe try sending him some videos that can say it better than you have.... (read in full...)
Please let me know how to handle my crazy jealous wife!
Q. I need advice this issue is tearing us apart. I met a friend online from another country. I find chatting with her interesting. There is nothing being said that is inappopriate. She is just interesting adn from a country I have always been ...
A. 21 April 2009: You should probably divorce your wife, because she obviously doesn't know what friendship is. What good is having a relationship with someone who can't let you be you and have friends? Nada. So dump your wife, before she makes you forget what a ... (read in full...)
I like him but he's married. Am I reading his signals wrong?
Q. Hi all I'm 28yrs old, a full time mum to me gal aged 5yrs old. I kinda like a guy who works in the shop downstairs but he's married with a lil gal. Before I knew he was married, I sent him a note asking if he wanted to meet up for a drink. The...
A. 21 April 2009: Definitely make a go for it. Don't hesitate. If you snooze you lose. Go get 'im, dollface!... (read in full...)
I've cheated on her 3 times, now she said she needs space! How can I rectify this problem?
Q. My girlfriend says she needs space from me, because I cheated numerous times and she took me back every time (cheated about 3x). The last time I got caught she saw me in pictures with the other lady, she forgave me and gave me another chance and ...
A. 21 April 2009: keep proposing...one of these days she'll see that you're the pot o' gold at the'nd of the rainbow and she'll say yes.... (read in full...)
Is he cheating on me with my sister? Should I leave?
Q. Is he cheating on me? Lately my fiance has been selfish. I was sick for example; this entire week and couldn't even get off the couch. I asked if he could please take our daughter with him to the gym. He said "it was too much of a hassle" when I ...
A. 21 April 2009: It's all circumstantial. You expect him to bring an 8 month old to the gym, when he's going to boff your sister? That's a little sick isn't it?... (read in full...)
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