Was he just in it for the sex?
Q. Dear friends I need your advice. I met a guy when I went to visit my sister cause she had a baby. He was my brother in law s friends. We didn't really talk that much at that time because we didn't really know eachother. Once he left the hospital I ...
A. 2 November 2014: Wow I can't believe I'm reading this. Not sure if you are really serious. I'm beginning to think many women confuse chemistry to lust. That word chemistry shouldn't even be used in the context of a ready to be married man. You seriously have no ... (read in full...)
When we have a fight no matter whose fault it is, b/f switches off his cell phone till I beg for forgiveness on facebook. I can't take this!
Q. Dear Cupid My bf of 2 years always switches off his mobile when we fight and make me suffer until I send him sorry msg to his Facebook account even when he started the fight and even when he's wrong He did it now too. I can't go thru this suffer...
A. 9 January 2013: LOL this is so unbecoming. You cannot win with this loser. He always wants to feel special and taking advantage of your weakness. Yes weakness. I understand being the bigger person and ending a fight. But if one is messing up multiple times and is ... (read in full...)
Should I try to get back with him or is it over for good?
Q. Hi. I have been in a relationship with this guy since the past 1.5 years. Our relationship hasn't really been very easy. He cheated on me twice and I forgave him because I love the guy. We have our fights mainly over trust issues but we have managed ...
A. 16 September 2012: Hi since I am in the same boat as you, I am curious to know if you are still in contact with this man and if he is trying to have you back.... (read in full...)
How can I show her that she means more to me than a simple, meaningless fling?
Q. I'm a scorpio male, late twenties. and for the past year i've been infatuated with a taurus woman i work with. Everything she does is simply fascinating to me. I find myself watching her and trying to read her and understand her, but there is ...
A. 16 September 2012: Just go for it and tell her how you feel. Tell her you are willing to be friends first so you can show her your true intentions by not putting too much pressure on a status. Then if its meant to be you really want to be with her. Agreeing to a date ... (read in full...)
Should I try to get back with him or is it over for good?
Q. Hi. I have been in a relationship with this guy since the past 1.5 years. Our relationship hasn't really been very easy. He cheated on me twice and I forgave him because I love the guy. We have our fights mainly over trust issues but we have managed ...
A. 6 July 2012: Wow while reading this I was thinking I was the one typing this story. I was in the same kind of relationship for the same amount of time. I found out of his cheating through email. ALthough never found out if there was any sexual contacts. But at ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to date without playing any games?
Q. Is it possible to date without playing games? I read all this dating advice and it seems like nothing but a game with sexist rules. A game that doesn't seem fun at all. It's described in many ways: as a "push-pull dynamic", a "dance" or a "chase" ...
A. 28 January 2012: Yes I am the girl that don't play game subconciously but all that is about to change. Thanks to the information from the worthy authors like Rori Raye.
Over the years, subconciously I played hard to get and didn't even realize it. All I notice is t... (read in full...)
Guys! What are the motivations, excuses, reasons, justification for men who are cheating?
Q. I'm trying to better understand motivations for men cheating. So all the men out there... IF your woman is very attractive, always sexually available and ready for you, gives you massages, regularly cooks meals, works and pays her own sh...
A. 17 December 2011: If he cheats regularly then he is not in love...period... but if its a rarity let him have some fun .... Whatever you do... do not NAG! ... that will drive him away.
Hmm in what world do we allow a man who has promised commitment to just let him ... (read in full...)
I don't like my husband's female friend!
Q. Hi, My husband has a female friend I really don't like. The fact that we were dating and then living together, got married and just had a baby and I am just meeting her after almost 4 years really annoys me and frankly quit ticks me off. The fir...
A. 17 December 2011: Does your husband respect this marriage at all? If she was a problem in the previous, he should be trying to avoid any mistake. I will be jealous to if my man don't cook for me but cooks for her best friend. You need to have a conversation. You ... (read in full...)
I love him but hate his friends! What should I do?
Q. I love my boyfriend and I know he is the one for me but I don't like his group of friends and it could potentially ruin us if I don't know how to communicate my feelings with him. I am in a blossoming loving LDR with a man I love and met through ...
A. 24 October 2011: Wow seems to me like everyone is on my boyfriend's side and it looks like all I got is trust. I trust him but you know the saying "Birds of the same feather flock together" If that is not my man's type of setting, then I think by now he should have ... (read in full...)
Is he playing a game?
Q. I met this guy a month or so ago, and I really like him. We've gone on a few dates to the cinema and just spent days together, and we told each other one night that we both liked each other. But recently, his texts have become less and less each ...
A. 12 August 2011: Read this article: You know the drill: you meet cute somewhere. You go out. You have a wonderful time: laughing, sharing common interests and making ironic statements about popular culture. You might have even shared a kiss (or more) as a night... (read in full...)
He won't marry me. Should I issue an ultimatum?
Q. Okay, I made a mistake by moving in with my boyfriend, but the damage is done and if anyone can help me, I would appreciate it. Basically, I want to get married and he does not. I have been with him for four years, and have lived with him for thr...
A. 11 August 2011: So when he breaks up with you where does he stay? In your house or leaves to another girls house? All I can say is work with him to find any entry level job and if a proposal does not come within months after he secures a job, I'll say kiss the ... (read in full...)
If he is in love with me why is he keeping other girls around? And why won't he put a pic of us together, or change his status on Facebook?
Q. I met my man 7 months ago. A mutual friend gave him my Facebook address, he added me as a friend, and three months later he contacted me. We chatted for 8 hours the first time we spoke, which had never happened to me before, so I took it as this is ...
A. 28 April 2011: A male reader, are you telling them you miss them because you consider them as possible options of girls to keep around if your relationship dont work or if you are out of town and need to have a quickie or two or this is strictly games that ... (read in full...)
I want to test my relationship by holding out on sex. Am I taking it too far?
Q. I love my boyfriend and I know he loves me...However I cant trust him and normally I am able to walk away at the slightest feeling of dishonesty but this one I cant seem to shake off because Im in too deep and its mad chemistry. May I add the long ...
A. 16 April 2011: I have decided to to hold out on the sex but can I aatleast ask to start protecting ourselves until we get married. I will feel much better with this.. From now on I want to move on without thinking of the other girls...SO is life. That is the way ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is angry and moody all the time...I am no longer attracted to him sexually and considering leaving...
Q. I just need some helpful advice. I am in a relationship which is about 2 and a half years old. In the beginning things were fantastic, i had met the love of my life, the man i had always dreamt of. We moved in together, which went very well f...
A. 6 April 2011: Hmm My boyfriend gets angry too and those type of guys knows this about themselves. That is why they are awefully nice in the first few months to get you in the trap. I know I am in the trap like you and I am slowly resenting him a little bit but ... (read in full...)
Should I stay or go. Don't want to be 'second' in his life. I think I am about to break up with my boyfriend.
Q. I am about to break up with my boyfriend.. The reason is because I found out sweet messages between some chick who he met years ago.. I checked the messages and sent time, was the time where we went through the darkest time together as a co...
A. 27 March 2011: I am in the same boat and you all are right. Staying has made me nothing but angry and resentful. Now Im praying God dive me the strength to leave this guy.... (read in full...)
How do I get my long distance boyfriend back? He has not texted in several days.
Q. I need advice on how to get my ex boyfriend back. This is a long distance relationship. We haven't exactly broken up but he has not returned my texts in a few days. I have heard that not texting him is the way to go but I just need some advice. ...
A. 27 March 2011: What was your last conversation like? Was there any querrel? Did he express anything to you that sounded like he's getting tired of the long distance relationship and how it is going?... (read in full...)
If he is in love with me why is he keeping other girls around? And why won't he put a pic of us together, or change his status on Facebook?
Q. I met my man 7 months ago. A mutual friend gave him my Facebook address, he added me as a friend, and three months later he contacted me. We chatted for 8 hours the first time we spoke, which had never happened to me before, so I took it as this is ...
A. 9 March 2011: Male reader: Yes he does write back to some that "he misses them too or luvs them". He admits it's silly and he will stop, so he realized his mistake. Don't know if he has stopped and that is where I'm hung up on. He is forgiven but I can't forg... (read in full...)
He asked me to move in with him, now he wants his space!
Q. My boyfriend asked me to move in with him in December to help out with some family issues I was going through. We both agree that the move happened too soon, but neither of us wants me to move out. He wants more space. Either I spend the night two ...
A. 9 March 2011: All the benefits of shacking up together just got thrown out the window if you ask me. Is this a house or an apartment? One should be able to create space right in the premises of the household. Well Ill say you talk about it because it obviously is ... (read in full...)
If he is in love with me why is he keeping other girls around? And why won't he put a pic of us together, or change his status on Facebook?
Q. I met my man 7 months ago. A mutual friend gave him my Facebook address, he added me as a friend, and three months later he contacted me. We chatted for 8 hours the first time we spoke, which had never happened to me before, so I took it as this is ...
A. 9 March 2011: Male Reader anonymous & AngelDelite youu guys have really cracked me up and made my day.
Male Reader Anonymous why do you tell these women what they want to hear. It's childish and even my bf confirmed its a silly mistake of his and he has been doin... (read in full...)
One week we are so in love, the next week everything has changed?
Q. Hey everyone My question or advice requirement is as follows Over 6 months ago I met a beautiful stunning girl who was from USA - she was working in Manchester and I live in London We had an amazing time and it got serious quick, we chatte...
A. 8 March 2011: Good for you...Just dont push it this time. Let the call be short and concise and wish her well and be the first to hang up telling her hope to speak to you soon. She needed the space and continue to give it and give her time to come back to you if ... (read in full...)
If he is in love with me why is he keeping other girls around? And why won't he put a pic of us together, or change his status on Facebook?
Q. I met my man 7 months ago. A mutual friend gave him my Facebook address, he added me as a friend, and three months later he contacted me. We chatted for 8 hours the first time we spoke, which had never happened to me before, so I took it as this is ...
A. 8 March 2011: Thanks all. I blocked all inbound calls to my phone today, deaactivated my fb for a while because I dont want to be tempted to see his pics or browse through his page which have become a normal routine and I also kept eveyone on my yahoo messeng... (read in full...)
Why does he date me but yet still go to online dating all the time?
Q. Dear All, I need your advice here, as I really can't work this guy out. I met a lovely guy online 6months ago, (he's 45, I'm 41yrs, we are both single, he never been married, me divorced, was married a long time ago)we chatted for about a mont...
A. 8 March 2011: This is my first time joining sites like this and I must say today is my off day from work and I have read so many things that is really making me scared of commitment and wonder when I'm gonna find true love. After reading so many of the post, I ... (read in full...)
If he is in love with me why is he keeping other girls around? And why won't he put a pic of us together, or change his status on Facebook?
Q. I met my man 7 months ago. A mutual friend gave him my Facebook address, he added me as a friend, and three months later he contacted me. We chatted for 8 hours the first time we spoke, which had never happened to me before, so I took it as this is ...
A. 7 March 2011: What should I do to prove my point to me. I don't want to leave him. I believe in him and belive this will work but it needs time. I just dont know how to deal with it anymore. SHould I ask for a break? I've attempted leaving and dont want to use ... (read in full...)
If he is in love with me why is he keeping other girls around? And why won't he put a pic of us together, or change his status on Facebook?
Q. I met my man 7 months ago. A mutual friend gave him my Facebook address, he added me as a friend, and three months later he contacted me. We chatted for 8 hours the first time we spoke, which had never happened to me before, so I took it as this is ...
A. 7 March 2011: My thought exactly. I have given him suggestions like he need to block these girls on fb, post our picture together on fb or update his status to read "I love my woman". "His response why are you dictating to me or controlling me. I blocked ... (read in full...)
If he is in love with me why is he keeping other girls around? And why won't he put a pic of us together, or change his status on Facebook?
Q. I met my man 7 months ago. A mutual friend gave him my Facebook address, he added me as a friend, and three months later he contacted me. We chatted for 8 hours the first time we spoke, which had never happened to me before, so I took it as this is ...
A. 7 March 2011: It's my first time here and Im glad my question got posted real quick unlike other sites I tried. I wanted to add that on top of my issues with my man and other women in question, he is currently going through financial difficulties. He does not ... (read in full...)
Should I be patient with my wife as we try to work things out?
Q. My and my wife have been together 11 years, married 5 have 3 awesomw kids, About a year ago my wife told me she didn't think she was in love with me anymore, she ended up moving out,then I found out she was seeing someone who said he was my best ...
A. 7 March 2011: Are you spiritual? Just have faith and trust the Lord. Maybe the space is what she needs to find herself after being consumed with someone else's life for 11 yrs. Don't be afraid to get hurt if you still love her. Try to find out what went wrong the ... (read in full...)
Do I assume that he is cheating on me or what?
Q. I am so insecure when it comes to my boyfriend. I want to trust him, but I have been hurt in my past. Anyway, I figured out his password to his cell phone, and I check it often. Once I heard a girl leave her name and told him to call her back. I ...
A. 6 March 2011: Please do show me how you broke into his personal account of phone. I want to know. Will you send me a message so we can chat?... (read in full...)
One week we are so in love, the next week everything has changed?
Q. Hey everyone My question or advice requirement is as follows Over 6 months ago I met a beautiful stunning girl who was from USA - she was working in Manchester and I live in London We had an amazing time and it got serious quick, we chatte...
A. 6 March 2011: Love feels good and it hurts. I have been advised to play the love game very lightly and protect your heart. I always thought if it feels right and you know you are in love one should be free. But I learnt the hard way. You have to play the game of ... (read in full...)
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