Can he go to prison for being with me?
Q. Im 15 years old and my boyfriends 20, we are in love no doubt about it, but can he go too prison for being with me?...
A. 2 May 2011: Yes he could go to jail. It's technically illegal until you're 18 or 16 with parents consent. What's a 20 year old doing with a 15 year old? But I get it, age doesnt matter to you, especially at your age. So I'm not giving you any sermons, I'm just... (read in full...)
Am I still a considered a virgin if I got fingered...?
Q. Okay. Im 15 and I was just fingered for the first time. My question is, am I still considered a virgin even though he did finger me?...
A. 2 May 2011: By medical definition, yes you are. Times have changed and like it just really depends on what you think sex is. I would say you are. ... (read in full...)
Marriage has gone from husband/wife to mother/father
Q. I've been married for 7 years, and have two beautiful children who mean the absolute world to me. Since our first child was born, our relationship seemed to go from husband and wife to father and mother, with the entire emphasis of our relation...
A. 16 March 2011: I'm no expert. I've seen this happen to my parents. From what I've seen, it has happened to most marriages. It's really hard to balance the children with a romantic relationship.
I really think its all about communication. Have you tried talk... (read in full...)
How do I work into the conversation that I think my friend is incredible?
Q. my friend is beautiful and she knows I think this or at least im pretty sure she does. anyway I saw on her formspring that she liked her old bf because he wasn't just interested in her because of her looks and honestly I am the same way. to me its ...
A. 16 March 2011: i think it should just come out naturally. if you really feel it, say it. i don't think it should be worked into the conversation. But while you're talking and hanging out, you could just look at her and think about what you feel for her, and the ... (read in full...)
How do I build a wall around my heart?
Q. I am in love with a complete shit who takes and takes and never thinks of anyone but himself even his family are scared of him how do I build a wall around my heart that he cannot get through?...
A. 16 March 2011: it's difficult to do, even when you know he's bad for you. I've been there. i wasted two years of my life on a guy who treated me badly and used up all that I had until i had nothing left for myself.
I even let a so-called "nice guy" take what he w... (read in full...)
I found texts from another girl on my boyfriends phone...
Q. I stayed over my boyfriends the other night and he mentioned a girl's name in his sleep call her Barb. I didn't say anything to him in the morning and it's not the first time Barb's name come up. I was curious so when he was in the shower I went ...
A. 14 March 2011: I think you should ask him about it, especially since he's saying her name in his sleep. I would just mention that he was talking about her in his sleep and ask about her. I don't know how you could ask about the texts without admitting you went ... (read in full...)
What did he mean by his comment?
Q. ok, maybe some of you can decipher this. what does it mean while having sex, your boyfriend grabs your thigh, squeezes it and says, this is what I want not some stick. I'm not fat, but I'm not a stick either. it totally took me out of the mood and i ...
A. 10 March 2011: Guys get really into the mood. Be happy you turn him on. I'm sure he was just referring to the fact that your thighs are muscular or healthy. He doesn't want bones but some meat on it too. Hes not saying nor is he subliminally telling you to lose ... (read in full...)
Bye... talk to you later!
Q. My boyfriend's job has picked up a lot which is good but now when i text him and I am done talking i usually say bye or talk to you later to end the conversation but it drives me nuts if he doesn't say bye back or something. Should I just tell him ...
A. 10 March 2011: Totally valid.
But I mean, its kind of a waste to say BYE in a text. Like if he doesnt have unlimited texting, it's just using up his limit. Besides he probably doesn't feel like its all that important, and you shouldn't either. I understand we a... (read in full...)
How do you stop crying over a man who treats you like crap?
Q. How do u stop crying over a guy you honestly sincerely know isn't good enough, treats you like crap, then says "i love you"? This guy messed with me for two years. I honestly did love him but our relationship was completely dysfunctional, but there ...
A. 10 February 2011: anonymous: i really like your idea. its so hard for me to not pick up that phone right now and talk to him. i definitely understand the sweet caring laid back normal guy vs. the short fused short tempered jealous guy. its confusing but its not so ... (read in full...)
He hits me saying its the only way I'll shut up
Q. Hi i just would like some advice from someone i have been with my partner for 4years and we have child that is 5months but he is really horrible sometimes and hits me he say it is the only way i will shut up and i feel like i deserved it i want to ...
A. 16 October 2010: I wish that I couldve been strong enough to leave when people told me this. I have been in the same situation. My bf never actually hit me, but his words hurt way worse. I finally decided that I am better than him, because where would he be without ... (read in full...)
Is there a relationship between self-worth and the way you are treated in relationships?
Q. Is there a relationship between self-worth and the way you are treated in relationships? Is it really too much to ask for someone to just be good to you, to not play games, just be honest with you and love you for you? ...
A. 6 October 2010: I always thought that I have a lot of confidence, even more so now that I've come to a point in my life where I'm more independent etc. But it seems like all I have are losers in my life, guys that treat me bad, and i let them. I don't know whats ... (read in full...)
He's a one minute man! how can I make it last longer?
Q. So I've been talking to this guy for some months now. We met in March and we've made out a couple of times, etc. So this past weekend, one thing led to another and we had sex. It was embarrassing. For the guy. So he's pretty well-endowed, bu...
A. 21 September 2010: Ok, so the thing is, he had on a condom when we did it. And he's older than me, I'm sure he's had sex. He's cute, he's got a good personality, and he's pretty aggressive, so he's not repulsive, if you know what i mean.
He's not circumcised, so that... (read in full...)
Why is my girlfriend always so jealous of other girls?
Q. My girl is jealous of girls I talk to sometimes. The first day I get a web cam she's asking me if I'm gonna have live chats with other girls. She's jealous about anything stupid that involves another girl. I don't understand why. I've never been ...
A. 16 September 2010: She needs to gain self confidence. She may seem like she's really confident, secure, but she just needs self-reassurance. Obviously, you ain't doing it for her. She needs to work on herself. Like the other poster said, constantly having a guy in her ... (read in full...)
Why does he talk to other girls when he says he loves me?
Q. I have this boyfriend. I've heard rumors. I've asked him about them, but he denies them. The first time i heard something about him, I asked him, and he said they were just friends. Today, i wake up, and on his status he's talking about a ...
A. 8 September 2010: I broke up with him. Why does it hurt so much? He made me feel like I'm the one who wasn't there for him, and now i feel like crap, because I really did love him. I thought he was different. ... (read in full...)
Why does he talk to other girls when he says he loves me?
Q. I have this boyfriend. I've heard rumors. I've asked him about them, but he denies them. The first time i heard something about him, I asked him, and he said they were just friends. Today, i wake up, and on his status he's talking about a ...
A. 8 September 2010: Yea, i totally get the ego thing. He's the type of dude to add all kinds of girls on his page. Like everyday he adds another 5 girls.
So as far as him adding other girls goes, I definitely have a problem with that. But I mean he's adding them, then... (read in full...)
Trying to win someone heart back?
Q. Hi Guys, i am trying to win someone back at the moment,could you please tell me how you guys got your guy/girl back when you thought all was lost. I need to hear some positives, but i know its not going to be easy....
A. 3 September 2010: I've been horrible to my boyfriend. We've both been horrible to each other. Anyone else would've just gave up a year ago, but somehow we're still making it work. The fact that we have so much memories together helps. I just remind him of who I ... (read in full...)
I have a b/f and a bit on the side and I just met the man I want to marry
Q. I'm here to hear how stupid I am when it comes to matters of the heart. I moved in with a guy I knew for barely a month, and proceeded to create the biggest relationship mess of my life. We dealt with alcohol problems, cheating, ultimately trust, d...
A. 13 February 2010: Glad my life amuses you so much.
I strive for that.
I know how stupid and immature I am. I have realized how that the relationship with Guy A is beyond disaster and it is probably best if we just cut all contact and move on. No matter how much... (read in full...)
How can he just drop me like this??? I need to get over him! Help!
Q. I am hoping someone can help me! I am very confused. I was in an relationship with this guy I thought was the one! Sure enough he thought the same. A few months into the relationship, i found some messages in his laptop to other women, such as ...
A. 27 January 2010: I don't know if this is my bitterness talking, but I'm sort of in the same situation, except I'm the girl he's texting etc. and he's still with his gf. Or so it seems. He's never really been straight with me.
Anyway, the guy's not worth your time... (read in full...)
Question about being the 'chick on the side"...who loses out the most here?
Q. Why do guys always have to have their cake and eat it too? And why am I suddenly the one who is getting used? I never used to be that girl, and here I am, the chick on the side. Is it better to be the chick on the side or the main girl? Either way, ...
A. 26 January 2010: Thats the sad part. I didn't meet him at a bar, I met him at a community gathering, no alcohol involved. And I'm not saying EVERY guy is like this. I guess I can't get em all right. I mean, I really thought this guy was genuine, and normally I know ... (read in full...)
I have a really nice guy for a boyfriend but am attracted to a player
Q. I'm completely confused. For months now, I've been going back and forth between these two guys. I've been available for both of them, but now that it has come down to it, I'm lost. The first guy, I've been with for 11 months today. But I hav...
A. 15 December 2009: soon567- I love you answer! Just say it wit me ...but its all true. I guess I am keepin this dude around cuz he's a sure thing. This other guy is messin wit me, and I kind of like it. Even though i am gettin played like none other i kind of like the ... (read in full...)
Should I sign my christmas card to my boyfriend with "love from"? We havent said "I love you" to each other yet!
Q. This probably sounds like a silly question but should I sign my christmas card to my bf 'love from...' or leave the love part out? The thing is we have been together in a relationship for 7 months now and havent said "I love you", so im not sure ...
A. 10 December 2009: I mean "with love" its harmless. You do have love for him. You do care about him. It's not like you're saying "MARRY ME." And just for further reference. If you feel that you do love him, just say it, even if he doesnt say it back. My best friend ... (read in full...)
Should I win him back in spite of what my parents think of him?
Q. I have been sort of on and off for months with this guy. We actually got together in January. This is my longest relationship. Even though we've had our ups and downs, I really do love him. It took me this long to really realize that I want to be ...
A. 10 December 2009: I get what you're saying soon567, and your right you really don't know the whole situation. I just didn't want to write a book on this site. And i guess it's saying something that I have to question this relationship and the decision of whether or ... (read in full...)
This feels so wrong to be flirting so openly with him while his girlfriend has no idea!
Q. Ok, so this is a very complicated situation. I have been in a relationship for the past 9 months. It is a very dysfunctional relationship, so we're taking some time apart right now. When I first met this guy, we started hanging out with his cous...
A. 27 October 2009: I don't want to ruin things between us. I mean...wouldn't it get weird if i just came out and asked, OK, would you leave her for me?
... (read in full...)
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