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reader, dmartin89  +, writes (2 May 2011):
 Oh for christ's sake...your school is obviously not teaching you anything.
Loss of virginity = penis in vagina.
If you dont know this then I really dont think that you should be participating in any sexual activity.
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reader, auntyR +, writes (2 May 2011):
yes you are. To actually loose your virginity would mean to actually have sexual intercourse, by a man penetrating you with his penis. As you are so young, i'd wait a good few years untill you even think about having sex! When you do use contraception too. But for now enjoy being a kid!
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reader, hannah76 +, writes (2 May 2011):
 Hello, My understanding is losing virginity is through sexual intercourse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2011): I would say so. People sometimes start to question the boundary when it comes to oral sex as it is called sex. In my opinion though, you are still a virgin until you actually have sex.If you are worried about keeping your virginity in tact though I would recommend that you be careful. It's so easy to get carried away when you are feeling that good.
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reader, FoX15  +, writes (2 May 2011):
By medical definition, yes you are. Times have changed and like it just really depends on what you think sex is. I would say you are.
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reader, curiosity1103 +, writes (2 May 2011):
Yes, you are still a virgin. Actually having sexual intercorse is the only true way to lose your virginity. Don't feel rushed to though. I'm 23 and lost my virginity when I was 15 almost 16, and I really wish I hadn't.
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reader, St. Nowhere +, writes (2 May 2011):
 By most conventional standards you would have had to have sexual intercourse to be considered "not a virgin". Since you didn't do that you still are. Hope that helped
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