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Question about being the 'chick on the side"...who loses out the most here?

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Question - (24 January 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 January 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *oX15 writes:

Why do guys always have to have their cake and eat it too? And why am I suddenly the one who is getting used? I never used to be that girl, and here I am, the chick on the side. Is it better to be the chick on the side or the main girl? Either way, both girls are getting screwed, but who is getting the worst end of the deal?

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A female reader, FoX15 United States +, writes (26 January 2010):

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Thats the sad part. I didn't meet him at a bar, I met him at a community gathering, no alcohol involved. And I'm not saying EVERY guy is like this. I guess I can't get em all right. I mean, I really thought this guy was genuine, and normally I know who to steer clear of, but yeah. Oh well I guess.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2010):

SOME GUYS must have their cake and eat it too. The majority of guys do not.

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A male reader, empty-1 United States +, writes (25 January 2010):

If he's screwing around, and she isn't then the main girl is by far and away getting the worst end of the stick.

The chick on the side can't have a bad end of the stick - she doesn't respect herself enough to reach out and grab either end of the stick!

"Guys" don't always have to "have their cake and eat it too". I would suggest you have been looking for companionship in the wrong places!

You aren't going to meet a baker in a nightclub!

You won't catch a playa at the library!

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