Should I make the move to be with this guy? Anyone got experience of this kind of thing?
Q. One of my really good friends for years and I have really fallen for each other, but we live in different cities. We have kept in touch over many years although living in other places, and lately we have been going to visit each other and have ...
A. 7 November 2009: Maybe I'm biased, but I say go for it. A few years ago I packed up my life and moved to Barcelona, Spain to be with the man I loved. Even though it didn't work out (the long distance had damaged our relationship badly) I still don't regret my ... (read in full...)
We both really like each other but she has a boyfriend?
Q. This is kinda long/confusing but i'll keep it simple. I'm a senior in high school and have had a great friend since my sophomore year. Back then when she was a freshman, she had a big crush on me but i was oblivious since even if i was great friends ...
A. 6 November 2009: You're welcome hon :) Lemme know how things go and if you wanna chat about it further, feel free.... (read in full...)
Should I tell my best friend her boyfriend kissed me?
Q. My best friends boy-friend kissed another girl and guess who it was! ME!! But i dont like him .... I think he's a jerk. So should i tell her or walk away ?? Cause i dont want to tell her and ruin our friendship... PLEASE I NEED HELP!!!...
A. 5 November 2009: You have to tell her. But the thing is,did you kiss him back? And how did you get into a situation where it led to him kissing you?
She'll be angry and upset,that's for sure, but if you don't tell her and she finds out from someone else,she'll feel... (read in full...)
My period still hasn't shown up, could I be pregnant?
Q. I've been on the pill since August (microlite) and sometimes me and my boyfriend don't use condoms. Normally he doesn't cum inside me (I know it's not a proper method of contraception) but my period's late now =( Usually my seven day break starts o...
A. 5 November 2009: Well, the purpose of the pill is to prevent pregnancy and I'm sure it's been taken into account that, in most cases, a condom won't be used and the man IS going to cum inside of you.
If you've been taking the pill daily and haven't skipped ... (read in full...)
How do I get her to stop her accusations?
Q. I have been dating this young lady for 3 or 4 months that I have started to have feelings for. But the problem that I am currently having with her is for the past month and a half or so, she constantly accuses me of cheating EVERY WEEK!! This only ...
A. 5 November 2009: Women like this give the rest of us a bad name. She's a bit of a basketcase isn't she.
There's nothing to understand...she's insecure and controlling. And unfortunately I don't think things are gonna get any better. You've only been dating for 3/4 ... (read in full...)
Do I have a chance of getting him back in my life?
Q. When i was 13 i lost my Virginity to my 4th grade crush 13 is young but i felt we were meant to be. And the relationship took a down fall..Now he is dating one of my Closest friend...she is like Family...my feelings for him hasn't gone away...On my ...
A. 5 November 2009: Maybe it's just me, but your best friend should not be dating the person you lost your virginity to.
But besides that, leave it be. You can't make the decision to interfere in a relationship based on the way someone hugged you.
It's very possible... (read in full...)
Why don't I trust him?
Q. my boyfriend and i met last weekend ,we had a great time together, despite the fact we have been dating for six months i just do not seem to build trust on him.. i do know know where the problem is am so insecure and afraid of loosing him.. what do ...
A. 5 November 2009: Has he ever given you reason not to trust him? If not, your trust issues are based either on past experiences, insecurities or both.
It's difficult to let your guard down and trust someone and sometimes that's not a bad thing. Someone really has ... (read in full...)
I've never kissed before and don't know how to do it!
Q. ok the guy i have liked forr aggess has asked me out and he is my first boyfriend....well this is kindof embaressing but i have never kissed anyone before and i dont want him to think i am a rubbish kisser...so how do you kiss? ...
A. 5 November 2009: Hahaha, so cute! There's no right way to kiss, everyone has a specific technique that they enjoy.
Truth be told, in most cases (mine included) first kisses can be rubbish. It's a matter of practice makes perfect ;)
But my best advice would be, star... (read in full...)
Am I being too needy or is my boyfriend slacking on his part?
Q. To make a long story short... I met my boyfriend almost four years ago. We dated, life got in the way, broke it off, remained best friends the next two years, he was there through it all- good, bad, you name it. We recently got back together. We ...
A. 5 November 2009: You're not being needy, not even close. Infact you sound like a really level-headed girl.
I was in a similar situation...the guy that I was/am with, he's a very friendly person, always hugging chicks, but when he gets drunk it gets a bit out of hand... (read in full...)
We both really like each other but she has a boyfriend?
Q. This is kinda long/confusing but i'll keep it simple. I'm a senior in high school and have had a great friend since my sophomore year. Back then when she was a freshman, she had a big crush on me but i was oblivious since even if i was great friends ...
A. 5 November 2009: Well, firstly, you don't really have to feel guilty. I may be wrong for saying this, but you're single and you owe her boyfriend nothing. SHE"S the one that should consider her him. You haven't actively being pursuing her, asking her to cheat on ... (read in full...)
My brother asked me to look at his because to judge its size
Q. My older brother asked me if I could look at his erect penis and tell him what I thought about its size. I know he is really self conscious about it and I just wanted to help him out. I've seen his dick before when we were really young. But never ...
A. 4 November 2009: That's beyond the question of cheating on your boyfriend. It's bordering on incest. That's completely inappropriate and disturbing. Seeing him naked when you were children is fine, there's nothing sexual about that. But as adults...*shudders*
I thin... (read in full...)
Friend & I become very involved and now his g/f is upset. Should I try to intervene?
Q. Hi I'm in a strange problem.I'm a happily married woman immensely in love with her husband but was somewhere lonely.my husband switched his job to a foreign country and i had to stay here for one year. soon after reaching there, he got busy and had ...
A. 4 November 2009: I really don't think you should intervene. You are part of her problem so chances are, she's not going to want to hear from you and you may just make things worse. If I were in her position I wouldn't want to hear from you and I'd be angry if you ... (read in full...)
I will seek help, I am obsessed about my ex-girlfriend. Do we still have a chance?
Q. I've posted about my situation numerous times. Brief recap. Dated for a year and a half. I started of as a confident dude, then started losing confidence, low self esteem, etc. My ex is beautiful. She broke it off, but we still continued to hang...
A. 3 November 2009: CaringGuy, how very blunt...and off base! From a chicks perspective, yes there's hope. We aren't like guys in the sense that when we disappear, our feelings go with too. But here's the thing, you really need to back off. In the same way that gu... (read in full...)
I'm overwhelmed with the thought of something happening between my girlfriend and her ex!
Q. My girlfriends Ex is coming down he is threatening our relationship and me(we use to be friends) im terribly in love with my girlfriend.I get the feeling something might happen this makes me feel so empty and unhappy and agitated and a voice in my ...
A. 3 November 2009: Persistent paranoia like this is so stressful. I would know, it happens to me all the time.
But what it really comes down to is insecurity. You're insecure about your relationship and the feelings your girlfriend has for her ex.
The only thing yo... (read in full...)
Its been a year, why can't I forget him?
Q. ** firstly all names are not real and are made up ** Well, really this all started when i fell for my close friend... let's call him Nick. I went out with him for about 2 1/2 months (October through mid December). me and Nick had a really close re...
A. 3 November 2009: Shame luv! The reason you haven't gotten over him so far down the line is because, firstly, you felt as though he understood you. Most people gravitate towards and trully appreciate people that understand them. It's something we seek out as human ... (read in full...)
Do you think that he is texting in the hope we get back in contact and get back together?
Q. hi me and my boyfriend broke up two weeks ago, i didnt want it to happen but he said it had too due to him needing to sort out his life. he has a lot of debts plus we live some distance apart. he told me that the decision will haunt him for th...
A. 3 November 2009: I'm in a situation quite similar to yours. My guy also left, leaving me with the reason that he needs to sort his life out. 4 Months later he's coming around again...and the reason is because I didn't contact him.
I think you did the right thin... (read in full...)
She broke up with me, is seeing another guy and yet says nothing is going on
Q. my girlfriend recently broke up with me after 4 years and 2.5 year old twins. she started talking to a guy she just met and im losing my mind. she said nothing has been going on and i called him and he said the same. but she continues to talk to ...
A. 3 November 2009: I really sympathize with you.
One thing, be careful..after a break-up, paranoia can run rampant and wreak havoc with your mind. You get it confused with instinct.
There's no guarantee that she isn't see this guy, but they've both said they aren't. ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to act differently after a break up and reunion?
Q. me and my ex recently got back together,after 2 and a half months of no contact ( my choice) he called me one day and told me that he still loves me and misses me alot and if he can have another chance, i agreed! since we have been back togeth...
A. 3 November 2009: Sadly, it IS normal. The big mistake couples make after breaking up and getting back together is thinking that things will be the same as they once were. This is hardly ever the case. You are both in different head spaces now. When you're with ... (read in full...)
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