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Do I have a chance of getting him back in my life?

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Question - (5 November 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 5 November 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *shboo2yu writes:

When i was 13 i lost my Virginity to my 4th grade crush 13 is young but i felt we were meant to be. And the relationship took a down fall..Now he is dating one of my Closest friend...she is like Family...my feelings for him hasn't gone away...On my Birthday He came to my house to say happy birthday and he told me to get up to give him a Hug and wen he hugged me it was tight and firm like he didn't want to let me go..i didn't want to either...is there by any chance he might have feelings for me still...for me it take years to get over a first love and he was definitely my first or should i move on because there is no hope?

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A female reader, FireAndIce South Africa +, writes (5 November 2009):

Maybe it's just me, but your best friend should not be dating the person you lost your virginity to.

But besides that, leave it be. You can't make the decision to interfere in a relationship based on the way someone hugged you.

It's very possible he still has feelings for you, who knows. But if he did, he wouldn't be dating your best friend. It's possible he sees you as just a friend. 13 is very young, no guy knows what they want at that age, their feelings are very immature, it's an age for exploration and dating...some guys at 26 still don't know what they want.

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