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I guess you could just say that I'm an average answerer.
I just give what I can, which is all I can do and I hope that the best comes out of it.
I guess that I am quite mature and sophisticated for my age.
Being at only 13, I have learnt new things from past exsperiences and have most certainly learnt alot from this site, too.
Even the answerers on here learn from others, in spite of thier age or knowledge.
I think that I have learnt from living in an supportive, encouraging and intellectual enviroment.
I thank everyone was has voted for me on this site as a good answerer. It's great to know when everybody appreciates your answers to thier problems.
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I'm 14 and wants to know how to "snog"
Q. hi umm, im 14 and i just got a bf and i love him to bits, and he wants to snog me, but im really scared because i don't know how to , please help me? x...
A. 5 April 2009: Watch videos, read articles, practise on the back of your hand.
Go on YouTube, type in 'how to snog'
Go on goggle, type in 'how to snog'
Tips and such will be taught to you so that you can go in for that confident snog. ;)... (read in full...)
Recently I've been finding it hard to sleep, any ideas?
Q. I am 20 years old and recently ive been finding it hard to "fall asleep" once I am asleep I am fine..I can sleep for 10 to 11 hours if I have to. its just falling asleep thats the problem. i toss and turn and stress out because I have to be up at 7a...
A. 2 February 2009: This answer is going to be a long one.. Only because I have alot of tips that I can share with you...
At first, you could practice good "sleep hygiene". Get yourself ready for sleep by relaxing a few hours before bedtime -- take a warm bath, or... (read in full...)
I'm in my last year of high school and it's been hell...
Q. i really need some help. im in my last year of high school and its been hell. last year my previous best friend went out with my ex behind my back (among other things), and now it seems like everyone is still in love with her. all my friends tell me ...
A. 2 February 2009: Any person reading your question could tell that you were in high school.
High school is a hard time for relationships with your friends.
I know it's diffucult to have trusting friends and to find people who you know that you can rely on but most... (read in full...)
How can I get my girlfriend to give me a blow job????
Q. How can I get my girlfriend to give me a blow job???? We've been together for over 3 months and made out a lot.. and I've done a lot of oral for her so I think it's just fair for her to do it for me tooo... see she's a little afraid that she won't ...
A. 1 February 2009: Hm.. Is this her first relationship with a guy? If not, is this the furthest she has got in a realtionship? It's understandable if either of the answers to the questions was yes. But if you want things to improve, you can make it, if you try. When... (read in full...)
I'm worried just in case I'm not fully developed...
Q. Ok this might be a stupid topic but it took all my courage to ask this question. I'm seeing this girl, we're great mates and I really love her with my heart, she keeps trying sexual advances on me and well I'm kinda scared in case my penis isn't b...
A. 1 February 2009: The longer you leave it, the more the girl will want to see your penis and may even start imagining to, meaning that she will have a image in her mind what she is exspecting to see. Just pretend you ARE happy with your size and let her see her view... (read in full...)
Now why would she do that? Wow!
Q. I went over my boyfriend's house to spend a romantic night with him. Found some explicit messages, and long story short the chick he was cheating on me with came over and everything exploded. He claims I wasn't there for him and I didn't give him ...
A. 1 February 2009: Gina says it all really. Not many people could of gone through what you did with a smile on your face. I think you're great for doing so and keep it up! x... (read in full...)
How can I get my girlfriend to give me a blow job????
Q. How can I get my girlfriend to give me a blow job???? We've been together for over 3 months and made out a lot.. and I've done a lot of oral for her so I think it's just fair for her to do it for me tooo... see she's a little afraid that she won't ...
A. 1 February 2009: You say that you truly love her and you are very happy to have her, so if you were, you wouldn't worry about having oral with her as it means so much to you as you have her how she is with the oral or not. Let it come natrually, when she feels co... (read in full...)
I need some tips on how to control my anger.
Q. I need some tips on how to control my anger. I'm 15 so I don't have time to go to courses or whatever so I need things that you can do at home. Any advice appreciated....
A. 1 February 2009: Controling your anger is important, so I hope that you find some help on here. Smashing up things OUTSIDE, can help calm your anger when it rises. Milk bottles, or things that you NO LONGER need should come in handy at this perticular time.... (read in full...)
Is it stupid to have a long distance relationship after a month of time together
Q. Hey..Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 months. we knew eachother before we started dating thru my ex-girlfriend (they had a falling out before we got together so it;s not an issue). Anyway we didnt talk for a while then before i came ...
A. 1 February 2009: No actually, I think you're actually pretty lucky to be thinking about your future so soon. It shows that your girlfriend is 100% happy about being with you without any problems. Your future together may not happen but why not talk about it? People ... (read in full...)
Self conscious about the size of my penis
Q. i am 18 and i am a virgin. i have always been self concious about the size of my penis. i dont know if its average or big or anything. lengthwise, it is more than 7.25 inches, almost 7.5 inches and 5.25 inches in girth. i dont know if that would be ...
A. 1 February 2009: You've probably heard this before but its true- everyones different. I've known guys with all shapes and sizes but that doesn't perticular bother me. Your size seems fine, quite normal actually. If you've seen pictures of guys ''belows'' and have... (read in full...)
My girlfriend things it's wrong to have fantasies about me
Q. ok so my girl thinks it is wrong of her to have fantacys about me but i think it is hot so how can i ask her to see it my way idk how it is wrong to think of the one you love the most...
A. 1 February 2009: Text her. Tell her that you think its pretty hot being told that somebody is having fantacies about you. She will feel more comfortable about doing it when she does and she knows that she can tell you about it if she wants to. Good luck!... (read in full...)
What do teachers do at the prom?
Q. What do teachers do at the prom? Just stand there? Or do they talk to each other, or dance? It would be weird having them, like, watching us, you know?...
A. 1 February 2009: It can be quite funny at the slow songs really, I mean, think of it, seeing your teacher slow dance with your maths teacher. ;)
It'll be fun, dont worry, no matter what songs playing!... (read in full...)
What do teachers do at the prom?
Q. What do teachers do at the prom? Just stand there? Or do they talk to each other, or dance? It would be weird having them, like, watching us, you know?...
A. 1 February 2009: Well, It all depends on what type of teacher they are.
If they are a fairly easy-going teacher, they will most probably spend thier time dancing. But others just tend to hang about generally talking to people at reach.
I wouldn't worry about ha... (read in full...)
My brand new BF bought me an anal sex toy for my birthday!
Q. My very new boyfriend bought me an anal sex toy for my birthday only two weeks after we had met. Although I had told him that I have never had anal sex before and wouldn't mind finding out about it, I felt that it was way too rushed and made me feel ...
A. 1 February 2009: Well, you have the toy.
It's just up to you whether you use it or not.
If you feel you dont want to, then it's going to be a simple... dont.
He can't make you do something you dont want to.. But if he tries to, then your relationship with him isn... (read in full...)
DearCupid had over one million people visit the site in January!
Q. I have just peeped at our visitor figures for January 2009, the month just gone, and I'm excited to see that DearCupid passed 1,000,000 (yes, one MILLION!) unique visitors/month for the first time. According to Google Analytics we had 1,040,812 ...
A. 1 February 2009: Congratulations, Andrew!
I only joined this site last week and it's great to know that it is becoming really succesfull. :)
Let's hope more and more people will hear the word about DC's wonderfull site and the views will go up by millions! ;)... (read in full...)
In need for help AND a guy! Any suggestions?
Q. I've been feeling a little lonely lately, ever since I split up from a guy many months ago. I really want to start seeing another guy again but I dont possibly know how, I'm 13 years old, I go to an all-girls school, I only have girl mates and a few ...
A. 1 February 2009: Thankyou. :) You make it feel worth the wait. xx... (read in full...)
Why do I get erections for absolutely no reason???
Q. I'm a 16 year old boy and I'm kind of getting worried, I don't know how to say this but about 4 - 6 times a day doesn't matter whereever it is my penis just becomes erect randomley.... sometimes it's if I look at girls and Ii understand that but I ...
A. 1 February 2009: Mistake in my answer.
When I said everyone has to deal with it... I meant men... obvouislyy.. But just felt I had to correct myself instead of making a fool of myself. Haha!
x... (read in full...)
Touched by my cousin and don't know what to do...?
Q. Okay so tonight I was at my aunties and uncles house, and I'm really close with my cousins. So me and my cousin were watching a film in the front room but I was on the side of his chair so I could go on the computer, he put is arms round my waist ...
A. 1 February 2009: Oh dear... I suggest you dont say a word to anyone in your family and keep away from your cousin. I know you and him are close, but you need to stay away from this situation that could get reallyy sticky. Watch out, this is a nasty problem to deal ... (read in full...)
He thinks of me only as a friend. Is there anything I can do to change that?
Q. I really like this guy. He is a friend from church and I have hung with him a while and went to dinner. Then the next day my dad was in the hospital and he came over to comfort me. He is a really good friend and I really like him. But he thinks of ...
A. 1 February 2009: The only way to change that, is to continue being a friend.
You need to wait until his friendly face towards you changes, and he feels a love and effection that he wants to share with you.
If things seem to be dragging and you feel that he is t... (read in full...)
Why do I get erections for absolutely no reason???
Q. I'm a 16 year old boy and I'm kind of getting worried, I don't know how to say this but about 4 - 6 times a day doesn't matter whereever it is my penis just becomes erect randomley.... sometimes it's if I look at girls and Ii understand that but I ...
A. 1 February 2009: Don't worry. This is perfectly normal.
Guys always get this, they just dont admit it, to anybody.
At this point in life your body will do all sorts of funny things you dont quite understand, but this is just the way your body is growing.... (read in full...)
I love my girlfriend yet sometimes I don't look forward to seeing her... why am I like this?
Q. So this is a really weird question, and I don't know what's wrong with me. I have been this way since day one of our relationship. Because of schedules and strict parents I rarely see my girlfriend. But now it seems that when I do have a chance ...
A. 1 February 2009: This is pretty weird. Cos I felt EXACTLY the same when I was with my boyfriend. I couldn't really describe why I felt like this, I could only describe what I felt before I was seeing him. I think that you may be abit worried/nervous/anxouis around s... (read in full...)
What should I tell him? I still want his attention..?
Q. There is this guy that I met, he lives with my friend and I went over to their house. The guy asked for a kiss and I told him that I shouldnt cause I just got out of bad relationship. Then, we had more drinks and he tried again and this time I ...
A. 1 February 2009: Big alarm bells go off when the word 'pressured' comes to my head. If this guy pressures you again into having sex within a few days or something, you should start thinking again about this guy you may have feelings for. I mean, you love his effe... (read in full...)
We're always fighting over the chores!
Q. I'm a young mother of a3 month old baby and my boyfreind and I always fight now over everything but mostly chores. He runs away to his parents house for a couple days and leaves me here to take care of her. Than he says he wants to work things out ...
A. 1 February 2009: Give him this week to clear his head from the bad things, but if nothing comes from it, you need to do something about this, it's getting way too far.
Relationships have to come two-way, if they dont, they dont work out.
I know being alone with a... (read in full...)
Bullied in college, what to do?
Q. recently in college a girl has began bullying me, making comments about things i have posted on myspace and saying awful things about me i had talked to her a couple of times before and we seemed to get on quite well but now shes just attackin...
A. 1 February 2009: Wow, this is a pretty serouis situation. You need to tell somebody about this.. If she is affecting the way you feel about college and yourself, then you need to make a quick move. Tell somebody whoever you are most comfortable with... You... (read in full...)
Our first year anniversary and she went back to work! I'm so angry at this.
Q. Hi, my girlfriend and I just had our first year anniversary, before that she was in Japan for three weeks and I had to make the plans for our first year which I did even though I had exams on. 2 days before our first year she got a call to come into ...
A. 31 January 2009: Did you know how important it was to get into work at that perticular time? Do you know why she had to come into work?
Make sure you know the whole story before you start stressing out over things that are more important than you thought.
Mak... (read in full...)
Sex and regrets
Q. Well, i am a roman catholic. I have been with my boyfriend for about 1 year, 2 and a half months. And today, yes, we had sex. (He is also roman catholic) And now im feeling guilty :/ and a bit .. confused. I always told my self i would wait...
A. 31 January 2009: I know how you feel. In a way you must feel a bit guilty but you must feel that now its done, there is no going back and you may aswell carry on with how you are. But, I suggest, do whatever feels right for you.. If you feel the need for showing... (read in full...)
Too old for sport!
Q. Is being 35 years old too old for sport because I think I am too old for sport because I'm not as young as I used to be......
A. 31 January 2009: Of course not! 35 years old isn't too old for sport if you are a generally healthy woman and you do not smoke and you eat well. I say to keep up with sport. Sport is the key to living a long and healthy life. Good luck!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's penis smells!!!
Q. Okay this is really embarrassing but I have a sex problem. I've been going out with my man for close to four years and the sex is good, when we do have it. I want to please him and stuff, I love to give oral sex and have been told I'm very very good ...
A. 31 January 2009: You say it is really strong, which it probably is, but is this the first man for you to give oral? If so, then not all woman like the smell and taste of a mans penis. Can you smell it too? I suggest you just see a docter that should hopefully... (read in full...)
Are my breasts normal? Ladies please advise
Q. Hi.. I dont even know if this question is really suitable for this sort of website, but I'm pretty scared, so I need to ask somebody. Im 13 years old, and I have just found a movable lump under my nipple which is quite hard and i think I can move...
A. 31 January 2009: Emajayne, Thankyou for your help!!!
I found out that it's a natrual thing at a certain age... So HOPEFULLY it's all good.
Thankyouuu
xx... (read in full...)
Can and will my life get better???
Q. I don't even know where to begin. 1 - my parents turned against their own daughter. 2 - I was diagnosed with anorexia. 3 - I don't even know how to explain what I'm going through. I just wanna know if things can get better. My life is bad...
A. 31 January 2009: Dont give up!!
That's the last thing you need to do.
If life has turned down on you for the past few years dont just give up on it and give in, you need to shine through and show that you can't let life beat you!
Let life give what it got, a... (read in full...)
He's not so quick to say I love you like the others...
Q. I have been going out with my boyfriend for about 3 months now. Usually when I go out with a boy they tend to say "I love you" after like 2 weeks of going out and I usually answer I love you back always thinking that I am in love. Well, with this ...
A. 31 January 2009: If this guy has fallen for you, his love towards you can't possibly change within a week. If your worried that it DID change in that ammount of time, then he wasn't actually in love with you.
I think you are thinking too hard into the situatio... (read in full...)
Is he using me? What should I do?
Q. Ok I lust for this boy in my health class and we started talkin for about 2 months and I decided to give him my virginity which I now regret.after we stopped talkin to each other after we had sex I realize that he used me .a month later he called m...
A. 31 January 2009: The main thing for you to do is to stick with your current boyfriend.
I think this guy was using you, from my view.
It is good of you for being civil, and wanting to be friends, but you have to promise yourself that this is all you two will be.... (read in full...)
I just want to know if he's okay. Should I get in touch?
Q. I wrote to you guys a while back regarding me and my patner who cheated on me for the whole 10 months we were together with his wife who he never left. I broke it off with him a month and half ago, I could no longer trust him, I felt sick every ...
A. 30 January 2009: If you feel that keeping in touch with somebody who treated you in that way is okay, then send him a letter. But you need to tell yourself this, if your letter doesn't get a reply, then it's not your fault. He let you down, and he can easily do that ... (read in full...)
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