For the ladies: a few questions on the subject of attraction...
Q. Just a quick question or two from little old me. Which notion is 'sexier': a relationship which has evolved over the years from friendship or one which has evolved through, shall we say, 'traditional attraction' e.g. eyes meeting across a crowded ...
A. 15 November 2008: defenitely, for me it has to be a relationship which evolve over years from friendship. 2. I don't like to pick man so it would be 3, and picking a man from the office or work is a big no, no for me..
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Do many people wear contact lenses? Any tips about them?
Q. heyaa guyss... this isnt anything to do with relationhips, guys, sex, anything else ive given up with boys tbh lol! but i need a bit of advice about contact lenses you see i have an appointment with my optician in a few weeks for contacts, ive be...
A. 3 April 2008: Honestly, it depends on the kind of lenses you must wear. If you have a high astigmatism, like me, you are going to have to wear the toric contact lenses and those are different from the regular ones and a littler difficult to put on. I personally ... (read in full...)
Can you help me understand why she had sex during our 'time out' period..?
Q. Hello Here's my story. 2 years ago, my best friends sister asks me out. She is a year and a half older than I am. We begin dating and things are perfect. She has many close friends which are guys. There is one certain guy who she would hardly han...
A. 25 March 2008: Are you on some kind of competition with your gf? She had more sex and I had none?!!? That sounds very childlish and it seem that you are compare it to you. What if you did have sex with other girls?? would that be OK?? then, you guys were on a ... (read in full...)
I have severe trust issues...What do I make of the text he sent?
Q. Hey,this is prob a real stupid question and i feel stupid for even askin it. Today i got a text from my boyfriend out of the blue saying "hmmm what to get what to get.." I didn't know what he meant from this as thats all he said not even hi how are ...
A. 18 December 2007: I remember your question back on september; and I still belive the same thing you are over reacting. Belive me, that meant nothing, don't over think things or try to find the reason behind it....not a big deal.. ok..
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I love her with all my heart...i just wish id met her later in life.
Q. Okay, here's the situation, folks. I'm in a committed relationship with a woman I love. We're both in our late 20's, we've dated for nearly a year and we've just moved in together. My girlfriend really is my best friend and she's the closest thing ...
A. 27 October 2007: After reading a little bit of the responses, and your own replys my advice to you is to take time apart from your relationship. Your gf does not deserve to be cheated on or be on the middle of your insecurities. Be honest with her (don't tell her ... (read in full...)
I'm at a loss. I want my boyfriend to love and respect me as he once did. What can I do?
Q. My boyfriend and i have bn together for a yr n 4months i love him to death and i no he loves me too.lately tho it seems that all we do nemore is fight. he used to call me all the time c wat i was doing, but that doesnt happen nemore, i have to ...
A. 27 October 2007: Honey, I really think you should reorganize your questions 'cause it is not clear. Did your bf had anything to do with this girl? Are they seeing each other? I mean I don't understand, but I do get the part that you want attention from your bf. ... (read in full...)
I broke up with my boyfriend who cheated on me, Is it bad for me to have feelings for his best friend?
Q. I just broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years!!! uhh i know, I am now 25. I come to find that he continously chaeted on me throughout the entire relationship. I moved to fla with him so he could go to school and all. I had absolutly no idea. He ...
A. 26 October 2007: DO NOT GO THERE. Trust me, from my personal experience. You are young and available, plenty of guys out there. If you date your ex's best friend is going to bring tension between him and your ex; your ex and you. It is a tremendous mess coming ... (read in full...)
She suddenly broke up with me, telling me something was missing. Has anybody else had this and got back together?
Q. I was in a serious relationship for 2 1/2 years. Very suddently my girlfriend broke up with me. When she did so she was balling and could only tell me that somthing was missing. I treated her so well, and am what I consider a great guy and very ...
A. 12 October 2007: You have to talk to her and ask he what really bothers her. You deserve an explanations. I would advice you to think back and remember a time when you were together and she may had mentioned something. Other than that , just give time to the ... (read in full...)
Will he ever break up with her?
Q. I met a guy last year and we hit it off straight away. He told me he had a girlfriend but they weren't getting on and he was going to finish it with her, but they had a 4 day holiday booked next month so he was going to wait until after that to do ...
A. 2 October 2007: I can tell that you are madly in love with this guy.. but you have to open your eyes ASAP. He've been using you; Yeah, it's true sex is great, but it is not exclusive; I bet he says the same thing to his girlfriend. Man do not break up, woman ... (read in full...)
Too much too late?
Q. Have been married 18 yrs and 3 kids 17, 15, 11, last few years Ive been unhappy. I finnaly told husband I wasnt happy and I dont have the same feelings for him. Now he is trying to change over night and do things he has never done, do dished, ...
A. 27 September 2007: I believe that is never too late for anything in this life but death. As long as you have the desire and the drive to do something it is never late. However, it seems to me that you are a little tired and overwhelme about the his condition since ... (read in full...)
We are drifting apart, but I am getting closer to a female friend...
Q. My wife and I have been married for 4 years now. Over the past year especially she has been becoming distant. I wirk alot and she complains that I am never home. I tried to change that this summer. I am usually home by 6 or 7. However anytime I ...
A. 27 September 2007: Wow!!! I have a question; how long was your wife being in this mood? Did you two talked about the time spent together? I think that you are not being fair here. Have you really try to spend time with your wife, I mean, she complained about you ... (read in full...)
A relationship... with no one knowing? What are these mindgames, what shall I do?
Q. Okaay..well...My ex and I broke up because he didnt want a relationship. He said this was due to the fact we will be going to university, and he wants the ''univeristy experience''. Even though we wont be leaving for univeristy for atleast a ...
A. 26 September 2007: You too are very young and unmature. My advice to you is to place the card over the table for him. Be straight foward and ask him what he wants? Do not feel afraid to speak your mind. Just plain simple ask him: Do you want to be gf and bf ... (read in full...)
He lives far away but maintain contact. How do I know it's true love and exclusive?
Q. Dear Cupid... am a lady of 24 yearys and i have been dating this guy for 3yrs 1mnt now...he is caring loving and everything ...but the only problem is that we are always far away from each other...He is a footballer and he always t...
A. 26 September 2007: This is kind of difficult. and I don't want to be the one messing out your feelings for him, but i have to be honest. A FOOTBALL PLAYER!!! ALWAYS A PLAYER!!! But, I dont know how is your relationship with him, so I have to say that if you love ... (read in full...)
Why would a man call his ex when he has someone new?
Q. I am in such a mess emotionally! :( I dated a man for almost 2 yrs and he broke up with me last April. It was painful for both of us, but it was a long distance relationship and he wanted to find a lady who lives closer to him and doesn't have ...
A. 26 September 2007: When it comes to relationships, there is always one person who gives too much love, and there is the receiver regarless of gender. Apparently, you were the giver since you still want him back, and he is the receiver. You know is good to be a ... (read in full...)
Am I being stupid?
Q. Am I being stupid? I have a great wife, who is a great mother with our children and in 12 years we have never had bad problems. My problem is that she had a couple of relationships in high school and as she says she was "forced to have sex". ...
A. 16 September 2007: When did you find out about this? Did you ask her or she told you?..How did you find out? Anyhow, it's the past, you can't change it and neither can she, so just let it go and don't talk about it anymore....and whether she is telling you the truth ... (read in full...)
We plan on being together in the future, but I want her now, too!
Q. My girlfriend and I are in a distance relationships, different colleges. Been together for 5 months. Been having some difficulties lately with school starting up again and not knowing when we are going to see each other next. Also, she is busy b/c ...
A. 6 September 2007: It seems to me that you have a lot of time on your hands, and she doesn't. You better start doing some extra-activities at school or something 'cause you are going to drive yourself insane. Sign up for some Club or society. Think about what you ... (read in full...)
When I suggested dinner she said we 'need to start fresh in all aspects'
Q. Hi all, Okay, here's the deal. My ex and I of 5 years broke up 3 mos ago. About 5 weeks ago, she sent me an e-mail saying "change is hard" and "we need to start fresh in all aspects" and "i hope you agree and understand"...this was in response ...
A. 5 September 2007: I think that she is very inmature and is not sure of what she wants.. That does not necesarry means that she does not love you, she may love you and want you but she may be panicing now. What you have to do is to really step back.. give her back ... (read in full...)
Shortly after we built a house together she wanted a break.!
Q. My girlfriend of 8 years and I completed building our dream home about 6 months ago. It was a difficult and stressful experience with some pretty rough arguments but we still loved each other. About a month after we moved in she moved out as she ...
A. 4 September 2007: You should follow your parent's advice. It is going to be hard to swallow, but you'll eventually digest it. Let her go... it is obviously that it is not the right time for her.. Maybe, she will regret it later on, but in the mean time you need to ... (read in full...)
Is anyone else in a long distance relationship here and worried about cheating?
Q. Hey, I have been in a long distance relationship for 11 months and 3 days now but will be back to my year and 8 month gf in less then a month what i cant stopthinking about is if things are going to blow up in my face i mean i love her and she love...
A. 4 September 2007: I on the same situation, I am currently on a long distance relationship. We are 2&1/2 hours apart by plane. It is normal to have all this insecurities and worries on your mind, but if you two really want to keep this relationship it all comes down ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend constantly gives me a hard time for my past, and it makes me miserable!
Q. Dear Cupid, I am writing with tears on my eyes 'cause devastated. I will try to make my story short. I met my bf while in college and while in college I acted a little crazy and mess around with a couple of guys. My bf and I were not together...
A. 8 August 2007: I want to thank you all for your responses. !!!!!
THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!!!
I also wanted to answer some of the questions asked. Our realtionship had always been at risk for some reason or another. He had just gotten over his ex, to whom he still... (read in full...)
Do I leave my new gf to go back to the ex gf? Any advice?
Q. I was engaged to a girl who i was with for 3 years who i loved very much about 6 months ago she decided to finish it and i was gutted. Since the time apart i tried to persuade her to give us another go but she said she was'nt ready and wanted to be ...
A. 31 July 2007: I think that you should follow your instints... Be honest though.. do no leave any of the girl hanging with out knowing what is going on.. Belive me, the truth is better than lying... My advice though is to take a break from both of the girls and ... (read in full...)
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