I have a stalker and I need some advice on how to avoid him!
Q. I have a stalker. I am not making this up. For about six months now I have noticed him. I work in the building where he lives, and I never noticed him at first, until he almost knocked me down. Then after that I kept on seeing him. He doesn’t ...
A. 28 August 2008: Ive been stalked before and yes it is quit serious but it later stopped when that guy moved. The first thing that should come to your mind is NOT ignore him if you notice something strange CONTACT the police and tell them your being stalk and its ... (read in full...)
French kissing- Any tips?
Q. This will probably sound pretty crazy to most but... I am 26 and have no idea how to french kiss. When I try it just seems so unnatural. Thoughts? Advice? Thank you!...
A. 20 August 2008: Haha hmms..when i first ask my friends they said spell out your name in cursive with your tongue but be into it that is one way i learned the second one is its like licking a lollipop. Always close your eyes when you kiss because it makes your ... (read in full...)
Can some one give me a clear description of what the "first time" pain is like?
Q. hi i'm 19, and frickin scared of my first time. Could someone please try to explain the pain, relate it to something? and this is for the people that it really did hurt for?...
A. 17 August 2008: The First time for me it wasnt as painful as i thought of course i was like you scared. But everyone is different. The best tip is DONT be nervous loosen yourself because when your nervous your vagina will be tighten and that can cause pain and USE ... (read in full...)
Question about fingering and needing to pee.
Q. please help while my boyfriend fingerd me yesterday i felt like i needed 2 pee n held it is this normal or was i having an orgasm?? ...
A. 13 August 2008: Haha dont worry girl it is absolutely normal because he was actually hitting your g spot with his finger. That causes you to feel like you need to pee but it isnt. Theres something call female ejaculation search that up and learn it. Girls also have ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend and I fight all the time, but I don't want to dump her in case I regret it.
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for almost three years now. She's my first girlfriend. We fight almost everyday, and make up almost everyday. We talk about it all the time. But she still gets upset about the same things. Also she always wants me to ...
A. 13 August 2008: Im not sure what is the thing she always gets upset about. But it seems to me that if you did something that made her upset and it causes alot of fighting i dont think talking to her about the fight is the solution.As a girl myself no matter how ... (read in full...)
I had unprotected sex with an ex, how likely is it that I am pregnant?
Q. im 18 years old. i had sex a month ago with my ex bf which is 19 we had unprotected sex like 3 times and 2 weeks later i got a soar throat and went to the doctor and they thought it was strept throat but it wasnt she thought it was either mono or ...
A. 13 August 2008: It does sure sound like your pregnant because i went through the same and you know how some people gain weight from being pregnant i actually lost like 10 lbs from all the vomiting..VERY painful headaches and yes feeling cold all the time for me. ... (read in full...)
What does it feel like to have a partner with a higher sex drive?
Q. Can someone tell me what it feels like to have a partner with a much higher sex drive / interest in sex, preferably from someone who has been in such a position. I have a higher sex drive than my bf. For the first 18 months I thought we had v...
A. 13 August 2008: My Boyfriend has a Highly higher sex drive than me He would want it every time we see each other. For example if he just comes toward me and he gets close i grab his jewels its hard...haha..he also gets hard when i talk to him on the phone. But ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to bleed the first couple of times you have sex?
Q. Ive had sex with my boyfriend twice.I've bled here and there both times and my vagina seems to be really tight.We both decided to lose our virginity to each other and we trust one another. What should I do about my vagina being so tight and is ...
A. 13 August 2008: It is Normal for a virgin to be tight. Because you have never had anything inserted in there so its suppose to be tight. For the blood it might be because you have broken your hymen but it is also perfectly normal or maybe you were too tense when ... (read in full...)
I know she loves me, but the lack of intimacy is eating at me.
Q. My story is way too long so I will do all I can to exercise brevity as much as possible. My wife and I where married for 24 years before she decided that life for her was horrible and always has been, she just didn't know it until a counselo...
A. 6 August 2008: Although im young but coming from your story i think you should give her more surprises and take her out more. Kind of remind her of the fresh beginning of your relationship with her. Her lack of the sex drive can be cause that shes going through ... (read in full...)
What is your take on couples taking a break? I want to experiment more before I settle with him!
Q. I'm eighteen and my boyfriend of a year and a half is twenty. we are very in love and he really is the guy i want to marry. the problem is, he is my first relationship whereas i'm his fourth, and i just feel like i wish i had partied a little ...
A. 6 August 2008: basically your not ready for a committed relationship. Although im younger than you i never had the thought of having a break a break to settle down and have fun and roam around because it can cause more trouble when you guys are finish with the ... (read in full...)
After a great night with him, he hasn't called me!
Q. This guy I met on a thursday texted called asked to hang friday we finally did saturday and had an amazing time. he acted like he was really into me and went had fun laughed etc. nothing I can think went wrong. We went back to him place at the end ...
A. 6 August 2008: the problem seems to be he just wanted pleasure so he went towards you but at the same time im not sure what his mind is thinking. But really A guy you might just met you should of know him a little longer and better two days no one can trust ... (read in full...)
We are both virgins. How can I approach the topic of sex?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now and are in love. I'm starting to think about having sex, problem is, this is the first serious relationship I've been in, same with him, so we're both pretty shy. (We're nearly 18) I was just won...
A. 6 August 2008: My First time wasnt that pleasurable but it made a great memory for me knowing my boyfriend was careful and we had fun it was like i was learning. But yeah just talk to him tell him that you trust him and all and you want to loose it to someone ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has jealousy issues. How can I get him to trust me?
Q. ok i need help.. i have the perfect boyfriend and i really think i'm starting to fall in love with him. but he has a problem with me talking to guys and my exes. i mean i understand, i don't like him talking to other girls but i try not to let it ...
A. 6 August 2008: why dont you try hanging out with your ex in like a social group not only just you two maybe bring another friend or maybe bring your boyfriend along. Because you two being alone can worry your boyfriend. But if you go along as group and try to ask ... (read in full...)
I found out my husband has been seeing someone new since I kicked him out. What should I do now?
Q. I found out almost a month ago from my husband that he is seeing someone new and apparently has been seeing her since before I kicked him out on May 8th. She has 2 little boys and that is the reason why he has not seen his own 11 year old son in ...
A. 6 August 2008: First of all i know your not the only wife in the world to kick their own husbands out ive known a quite few although im young haha. Anyways I think you feel like you need him because you guys have a little boy and you dont want your son to know ... (read in full...)
I would still like some advice as to how I can reduce my urges to a minimum.
Q. I'm 18 years old and i'm very much in love with my girlfriend, she means the world to me.. But i feel like my sexual urges are getting in the way and i don't want her to start thinking i'm something that i'm not. My urges aren't all that bad real...
A. 6 August 2008: Its completely normal for a guy to have sexual urges. =]. My boyfriend gets turn on just by seeing me,talking on the phone, or just anywhere when im with him. It is completely ok with me sometimes i just tell him no not today. It sounds like you ... (read in full...)
Shouldn't sex be a bigger deal to me?
Q. Not sure if this is worth worrying about but any comments will be apreciated thanks. I lost my virginity about a week ago, it felt like nothing special, i had been with my boyfriend about 3months and it just happened spare of the moment but i do ...
A. 6 August 2008: It is ok everyones sex relationship is very different. Orgasms dont come just by sexual intercourse. Clitoris stimulation is the key. Sounds like your boyfriend just wants his pleasure and dont seem to care about yours or maybe he doesnt know whats ... (read in full...)
Was phone sex with this other guy classed as cheating...should I tell my bf?
Q. im a girl and in a long distance relationship and i was very happy. but lately i havent been. he doesnt call me, we hardly talk, me msgs me bout once a day saying the same things. he is hardly online now and i never really get to see him for real. ...
A. 6 August 2008: im a girl and i dont really think thats cheating but if it comes from a boys perspective it can be really painful to hear knowing his girl is talking to another man and having phone sex. Lets just say if you found out your boy did what you did would ... (read in full...)
I am pushing my bf away and thinking of my abusive ex! Is something wrong with me?
Q. i don't know what to do. me and my boyfriend have been together for about 5 months and at the beginning it was great, but now i barely want to kiss him and when he visits me at my place i push him away. i don't know if it's because all of a sudden i ...
A. 6 August 2008: There is nothing wrong with you at all. I dont know exactly how you feel.For me i would think it is because you lost feelings for your current boyfriend. Its either that or you were hoping that your current boyfriend might have something similiar to ... (read in full...)
I know it's wrong, but I'm sleeping with both my boyfriend and his older brother!
Q. right, im really just lookin for abit of advice, i already know what im doing is very very wrong and i do feel guilty about it.. im a 16 year old girl living in a small village in the uk, i went to an all girls school and as i live in a small plac...
A. 6 August 2008: At the time when i was going out with my ex boyfriend..i sure liked him alot but one day i met his older brother and i thought he was the hottest and the cuttest boy i have ever seen. But to be on the safe side i never had any sexual contact with ... (read in full...)
A girl who likes my boyfriend told him I cheated on him, then spread rumours she was having an affair with him
Q. I liked a boy for 3 years, then he asked me out, and we were together for five months. This girl had always liked my boyfriend, and whilt we were dating she decided to tell him I'd cheated on him (which I hadn't) Then, after it had all blown ov...
A. 5 August 2008: If your boyfriend trusted you he would of not believed that girl. What that girl did was wrong i totally agree. This situation is quite difficult but i can say dont act weak in front of him or her it will give him the idea that you did cheat on him ... (read in full...)
I think I'm in a deep hole with my relationship with a married man. I need advice.
Q. Im sleeping with a married man who has an 8 month old son and he lives next door to me. I think i have fallen in love with him and Im really close to his wife. I know its really stupid but i 14 years old. nd before anyone says hes taking advantage ...
A. 5 August 2008: although it was your choice but did he ever tried to convince you or said something sexual to you? He can go to jail for having sexual contact with a 14 year old girl. Although i dont know the situation clear but he is married you say and he has a ... (read in full...)
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