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41-50,
*rokenharted
writes:I found out almost a month ago from my husband that he is seeing someone new and apparently has been seeing her since before I kicked him out on May 8th. She has 2 little boys and that is the reason why he has not seen his own 11 year old son in over a month or even been that interested in him since leaving home. She works for Abbott Ambulance and apparently is very hot. Yet I believe that despite that information he has thrown away the most important parts of his life for some person who is also recently divorced. He did not want to be tied down, that is crap because now he is driving 30 miles from where he lives and spending time with someone who may not be tying him down now but she will eventually. Then what?. I feel like I don't want him back but there are days where I think I could. He has not filed for a divorce yet. What should I do now?
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reader, Brokenharted +, writes (7 August 2008):
Brokenharted is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have now found out that this so called hot girl is not as hot as she was made out to be. My son already knows what is going on and he refuses to see or talk to his father. His father seemingly wants nothing to do with him right now. So what do I do with that? I am sure I do not want him back, but financially I am concerned for myself and my son.
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reader, Dreamie Tofu +, writes (6 August 2008):
First of all i know your not the only wife in the world to kick their own husbands out ive known a quite few although im young haha. Anyways I think you feel like you need him because you guys have a little boy and you dont want your son to know that his father has left and you have been with him for so long. But If he has found someone else and he is now committed with another then you know that he doesnt want to be a part of this family and when a man does that you should not respect him. If you do get him back he might do the same to you again. Its your choice to file divorce or not because its your relationship and no one has the right to tell you what to do. Dont worry much and just do what you want to do because thats the best way. Be a happy mom and show your son even without the dad you can make him happy =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2008): Sorry brokenhearted,
But you kicked your husband out. He is now a technically a single man, and free to develop a relationship with anyone he chooses. You don't want him back, but then again you do. You are unsure how you feel, but he isn't waiting for you to make up your mind. He's moving on with life, and this hot woman has taken him in. You should make formal arrangements to start the divorce and arrange financial support and access arragnements for your son.
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