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*ustangsally
writes:I liked a boy for 3 years, then he asked me out, and we were together for five months. This girl had always liked my boyfriend, and whilt we were dating she decided to tell him I'd cheated on him (which I hadn't)Then, after it had all blown over, she spread rumours that she and my boyfriend were planning to have an affair. She couldn't leave us alone, and, now that we've split up, she's getting very close to him. I'm scared that he finished with me for her, and I'm afraid that he's going to go out with her, and she's the only person in the world that I actually really really hate. I don't know what to do, and it's effecting me physically and mentally...?
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reader, Dreamie Tofu  +, writes (5 August 2008):
If your boyfriend trusted you he would of not believed that girl. What that girl did was wrong i totally agree. This situation is quite difficult but i can say dont act weak in front of him or her it will give him the idea that you did cheat on him and your being hopeless be strong and stay positive and tell and show others you know you didnt do it, so why should you bother, if they believe it its them when people ask you did you put a smile on and say bravely i know i didnt cheat on him you think whatever you like. You dont need another girl to ruin your life for a boy, its not worth it. All i have to say is look positive if you look negative the girl will think okay i can get her out.Dont worry girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2008): hey, ask your boyfriend how he still feels about you and if he is going to go out with her?
in a relationship you need trust and honesty and if you want to get back together with him you need to ask him and find out so you can get over it quicker and easier.
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