I'm 17--she's older, she lives overseas, we come from different cultures. Should I ease out of this as I feel my family won't approve!
Q. Ive been talking to this Lady online for quite a while now, I feel I know her pretty well. The problem I have is that I dont feel my family would understand if we started dating due to three factors: Im 16(nearly 17 and Im quite mature) and she's ...
A. 16 April 2007: The important thing to consider is what you want to do... What works for the two of you?... Discuss it with her, and come to an agreement.
Best of luck.... (read in full...)
Masturbating mes me feel good because I have low self-esteem! Is this normal?
Q. I like masturbating but I seem to do it to make myself feel better cuz i have low self esteem after i have done i feel bad but good at the same time because i ejaculate so it feels good is this normal??...
A. 14 April 2007: Choking the chicken is perfectly normal and can be considered healthy to release built up tension.
However, low self-esteem won't go away this way... Learn to love yourself, or if necessary seek professional help to deal with your self-est... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and still a virgin, but feel as though I'm the only one!
Q. hey im just after alittle advice, im 15 i have always been quite popular at school and i have had many boyfriends(not to be big headed) but all my friends have rushed into bed with guys and many of them have slept with 4,5,and 6 boys. they call me ...
A. 14 April 2007: Gee, you feel old under the age of consent... I'll be 20 next year and I'm a virgin still...
You're not the only one, sweetheart... Just wait until you're ready and "legal".... (read in full...)
Can low self esteem ruin your life?
Q. Whats the best way to build self confidence n have high self esteem ??? can low self esteem ruin ur life??...
A. 14 April 2007: Yes... It can and it will... I can tell you from expirience.
Build self-confidance by learning to accept yourself for who you are... When you do that, no one can touch you.... (read in full...)
How, exactly do you know you love someone? I mean the real, solid, deep love?
Q. This'll probably sound stupid and I'm sure it's been asked before, but how is it exactly that you know you love someone? I mean real, solid, deep love. I believe deep down that I love my boyfriend, and I want to tell him - but I also don't want ...
A. 14 April 2007: If you're asking us this, then you're not 100% sure... If that's what you're waiting for, then you're not ready to tell him.
However... The only person who can know if you're truly in love is you... Ask yourself if you can't live without this per... (read in full...)
She's still a virgin but she's much more experienced than I am.
Q. Hey I just got my first girlfriend im inexperienced compared to her she is a virgin tho, but i keep thinking of her with the other guys why is that? Other girls that i speak to there past doesnt bother me even if they've done worse then mine? is it ...
A. 13 April 2007: I can understand... My girlfriend often mentions to me how well her guy friends treat her, and it is hard not to be jealous...
But, of course, there's a silver lining here. Honestly, I think you'll be fine... From what you've said, you're w... (read in full...)
I am 14 years old and feel very fat and very ugly...
Q. I'm fourteen and i am very ugly, im fat and thats all i see wheneva i look at myself, i am trying to go on a diet and i try not to eat very much, especially not to eat junk food, i've ate junk twice since ive started about five days ago and when i ...
A. 13 April 2007: Sweetheart, we are that we are. If you wish to change, try diet and excercise... If it doesn't work, then love yourself for who you are, and others will too...
I'm a fat guy, and diet and excercised didn't work for me... I've accepted it, and lear... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and really want to have sex with my 21 yr old boyfriend!!
Q. hi, im 14 years old and i have a 21 year old boyfriend, i see him all the time and i love him alot. its not really a problem though cause if i didnt want to see him i would of told him to **** off. anyways, my friend has been to his house with me,...
A. 12 April 2007: Sweetheart, you can't do it yet... If for no other reason than he could go to jail.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks I'm a slut for not saving myself for "the one" !! Am I?
Q. i lost my virginity to a guy i wasn't in love with or in a relationship with (though i was really attracted to him). i have no regrets about not "waiting" or "saving" myself for "The One." to me, the sex was a purely physical thing. does that make ...
A. 12 April 2007: You are who you are... Big deal you had sex... Your boyfriend sounds like a jackass... Dump him for someone who doesn't care about trivial issues like that.... (read in full...)
Been reading books on dating, attraction, seduction, motivation, anxiexty... but being a virgin at 20 is still eating me up!
Q. I am a 20 year old male virgin. For the past seven months the fact that I am still a virgin has been eating away at me. During the duration of this time, I have been reading non-stop books on dateing, attraction, seduction, motivation, anxiexty ...
A. 12 April 2007: Well dude, I'm 19 and still a virgin... 20 next February. Listen, if you're that concerned about it, find someone you love... If you feel you aren't attractive enough, and you're desperate, break down and buy a hooker. Are you really that desperate?... (read in full...)
I want to remain a virgin until my wedding night, my bf just thinks I'm messed psychologically, should I just give in on the sex before marriage thing ?
Q. I'm to be married within the next 5 months and things are all ok. I always believed in not having sex before marriage and held up all these years.So my fiance has tried many times to have sex with me and since I refused he has actually stopped ...
A. 12 April 2007: It's funny... My girlfriend and I have different value systems... She's very "no sex before marraige"... I'm more "As long as you're at consent and in love"... She said she would not have sex with me before our wedding... And this I have accepted... ... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out?
Q. Hi Guys, Well where do I start, in My local cafe there is a beautiful girl who i used to see with her dad when she was in for a drink sometimes and when I went in today I found she has started working there, well to describe her she is simp...
A. 12 April 2007: Go for it my man!... Just because your skinny and pale doesn't mean you shouldn't ever try to hit a home run. I'm kinda short, really fat, and pale... I struck out alot, even with girls I was friends with... Then I found my dream girl. If she's your ... (read in full...)
Bf wants to do some strange things. Not sure I approve. Any advice?
Q. I have a very physical relationship with my boyfriend which I love. He is highly sexed and masturbates usually a couple of times a day as well. I don't mind this, as sometimes I do it for him. Recently, however, he's asked me if he can ejaculate all ...
A. 12 April 2007: I dunno... It's probably not that horrible an expirience if you're adventurous... If you didn't like it you could just never do it again...... (read in full...)
My bf said he hated 'head'...what does he mean exactly?
Q. i asked my boyfriend what are his turn offs and he said that he 'hated head'. Ive got an idea what this means but im not totally sure. Can you tell me what he means?...
A. 12 April 2007: It just means you better keep your mouth away from his dick... Maybe oral just isn't his thing.... (read in full...)
How do I strike a balanced way of seeing things so that I can relate with people the way they are rather than trying to see them the way I want to.
Q. I have failed to found a person, yet, a friend or a girl who could really understand my deeper feelings and would appreciate the same or accept them to be normal. Because of this, i am losing faith and don't find it worth relating with any human ...
A. 12 April 2007: Like so many of us, you are an idealist. People like you can change the world. Some people aren't able to accept others for whatever reason... The rascists, bigots, etc. out there are unfortunately the ones who are closest to power, and thus the ... (read in full...)
How do I get over her?
Q. Ok...me and my girlfriend broke up like two weeks ago. But i still love her...a lot, and she must have lied to me, because she told me she just wanted to take a short break, and she didn't want a boyfriend right now, so she lied to me, and she said ...
A. 12 April 2007: Yelling at her wasn't a very good way to do it... My advice to you son is to let her go... You're young... Are you even in High School yet?... You'll have many chances to try again.... (read in full...)
He 's a heavy drinker and unpredictable! What should I do?
Q. I need advice, I am totally devastated. I have recently tried to reconcile with my husband after being apart for only 2 weeks. He's a heavy drinker which makes his personality very unpredictable and usually hard to deal with. He begged and ...
A. 12 April 2007: Drinker and Narcotic user?... Read this very carefully: LEAVE!!!! FOR YOUR OWN SAFETY!!!! ... (read in full...)
We're trying for a baby but I can't come inside her. What can I do?
Q. hi can someone please help, me an my girlfriend have been trying for a baby for the last few months, but were having trouble, when ever were having sex i can only come on her never inside her, i dont no y and its getting to the point wer...
A. 12 April 2007: You two are a little young for children yet... Give it a couple more years and call us back in the morning.... (read in full...)
Been battling depression for 5 months, and I have forgotten how to feel! Please help!
Q. i used to be the most cheerful person youd ever meet but ive been battling depression for quite a while now,almost 5 months,it started out severe, i couldnt eat i couldt sleep couldnt concentrate i was just very negative. Its not as severe anymore i ...
A. 12 April 2007: Please get some help, sweetheart.
I've battled clinical depression and other mental illnesses since I was a young boy... Get some help... Get your life back.... (read in full...)
The condom broke! But she still got her period-however, can she still be pregnant?
Q. the condom broke on me and my girl last weekend. she said her period was supposed to come the 13th. it came today,the 11th. could she still have a chance of being pregnant?...
A. 12 April 2007: She got her period?... She's probably not pregnant.
I know this is gonna shock you, but unprotected sex does not always lead to pregnancy.... (read in full...)
My husband of 5 years says I've never satisfied him sexually and wants me to be like a pornstar with him!
Q. My husband of five years said that I'v never satisfied him sexualy, and he wants me to perform like the women in his many porn DVD's. Is that reasonable? He expects me to be always ready for sex ie fully shaved (and I'm very hairy) and doing it up ...
A. 12 April 2007: Might I suggest compromise... Too much hair can be a big turnoff, so why not trim a little?... If he wants anal sex, give it to him, but insist on lube...
Then make some suggestions of your own, sweetheart and see how much he b*tches about it... (read in full...)
He fell asleep when I was performing oral sex! This bugs me-how do I handle this?
Q. Have you ever been with a man that fell asleep with you when you were performing oral sex? He was erect, all was well, had showed much enjoyment then all of a sudden I heard him lightly snoring. I did not know what to do, it had never happened to ...
A. 12 April 2007: Relax... These things happen... If you ever go into standup comedy, there's a good set for you there, sweetheart.
Sex takes ALOT of energy... Any kind of sex... If you're drunk and tired, you're lucky if you can find your own damn feet.
Just... (read in full...)
How can I find true love that will last forever ?
Q. I am really wanting to find true love that will last forever. How can I do this?...
A. 12 April 2007: It's hard to say that you can find it... Some people go through life without ever finding it... You've got to be lucky and find someone you love... You've gotta work hard and develop it into a forever love...
True love is something totally ... (read in full...)
Send a guy-friend a "f***-me-now" text when I was drunk... now I'm worried he'll take it literally!
Q. I'm in need of advice... I got really drunk the other night and i sent this guy a text saying i want to f**k him and the next morning he texts me saying "i can help you with that" and i read it haveing know clue what he is talking about so i look ...
A. 12 April 2007: I dunno where you're from, but first off, stay off the booze! You're definately too young for liquor.
Second, explain the situation and make it very clear you aren't on the meat market yet.... (read in full...)
My dad "touches" me but when I tell him no, he goes into a tantrum!
Q. Well I have had this problem since around age 12 I am 15 now. I do not like my dad touching me as he holds me like my bf on my hips want to hum him plevis to pelvis. He use to be worse by sometimes just opening the shower curtain on me and making ...
A. 12 April 2007: *Loud Whisper*
CALL THE POLICE!... (read in full...)
I am a small B-cup so what I want to know is do some guys prefer small breasts?
Q. Dear cupid, sorry i know this is a boring question. now i dont compare myself to my friends or anyone else for that matter as i would rather be just me. It seems though, that when we're out almost all the guys go for them as almost all of them are ...
A. 12 April 2007: It depends on the person... To me, breasts aren't my number one thing... I know plenty of guys who go for smaller chests. It's all individual taste.... (read in full...)
She's going to a different university. Do I end it now or carry on?
Q. I met my girlfriend just as I left for college. I was enrolled at the Univeristy of Nebraska at Lincoln, and I am still attending. My girlfriend now wants to go to college... she is going to the University of Nebraska at Omaha instead... I am ...
A. 12 April 2007: Well, to put it in perspective, at least you're in the same state with her. I go to college here in Pittsburgh. My girlfriend goes to one in San Bernadino. That's almost 3000 miles... We stay together and see each other when we can...
Might... (read in full...)
How do I convince my shy wife to try a threesome?
Q. I am trying to get my wife to try a threesome. She is a little shy. How can i convince my wife to try it?...
A. 12 April 2007: I'm not going to bore you with a long answer here, my man... It boils down to your wife's moral code... If she doesn't want to do it, she won't, so don't bother...
Might I suggest BDSM or Roleplay instead?... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and the whole thought of sex feels me with dread!!
Q. Ok I hear about people my age having sex all the time. I am 15 and right now sex isn't even an option for me. Like the thought of someone inside of me kinda grosses me out. I am 15 and wondering if I am ever going to over come my fear of having sex. ...
A. 12 April 2007: Oh sweetheart, you're only 15. I'm a 19 year old guy and haven't had sex yet... It's ok to wait till you're ready... Honestly, you're not even at the age of consent yet. If you don't want to, you don't have to. You'll grow out of it in a few years, ... (read in full...)
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