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How can I find true love that will last forever ?

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Question - (5 April 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 12 April 2007)
A female United States age 51-59, *c1234 writes:

I am really wanting to find true love that will last forever. How can I do this?

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A male reader, DrCynic United States +, writes (12 April 2007):

DrCynic agony auntIt's hard to say that you can find it... Some people go through life without ever finding it... You've got to be lucky and find someone you love... You've gotta work hard and develop it into a forever love...

True love is something totally different... Not one couple in a million will have it... It requires luck... Something that not everyone has.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2007):

Always marry someone you can fall asleep on when laying one the couch to any movie. Always marry someone who smiles and comliments you. That love is generous and real. Never settle for a meanie and you will have TRUE love forever- you'll just know

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A male reader, Ziggystardust United Kingdom +, writes (7 April 2007):

The secret of any relationship lasting forever is life long courtship. This has to be mutual. Youll strugle to find what you seek. Its what we all seek. Good luck anyway

Mik

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A male reader, Royofthe Rovers United Kingdom +, writes (5 April 2007):

Royofthe Rovers agony auntI have just come out of a 6 year relationship which was or used to be true love. We trusted each other and were true soul mates in every sense. Then it all went head over heels. True love will only work if BOTH people work at it, being truthful with one another about pretty much everything (one or two little secrets dont matter), respect is very important and commitment to the other person as well. Without both people working at it true love will not last forever. People change over time and these changes can alter perceptions of the relationship. It is important to always talk to them. Without this true love will only last for finite amount of time i'm afraid before it turns into something else. Good luck though, there is always someone out there who is worth the effort.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2007):

You don't. It finds you.

I'm afraid it's hard to swallow and it's impossible to understand until you've experienced it but that's really how it is.

Look as hard as you might and it'll get you nowhere (well, not nowhere, you will meet a lot of nice people along the way and probably care for some of them quite a bit too) but when it's ready TRUE love finds YOU.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2007):

A good relationship is based on love, like, trust, loyalty, respect etc so you have got to have those ingredients so that someone won't have an affair with the closest person who's willing to have the affair with them. But affairs still can occur, even with all those things. But what you have got to remember is that the best relationships are built on those things.

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