Whenever I get intimate with my GF I start to feel sick and sometimes have to throw up! I dont know why!!?
Q. Hi, Me and my girlfriend have been going out since mid june now. Whenever we lie down and kiss each other, sometime i'm touching her breasts, I start to feel sick to my stomache. This is very embarasing. Usually i just go to the bathroom, ...
A. 26 March 2007: I agree. I forgot to post that. Though your old enough to do some exploring and experimenting. You are much too young for real sex.... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and thinking of having sex for the first time.
Q. i'm 16 years old and thinking about having sex for the first time. i'm really nervous cos the girl i'm with has already had sex a few times and i dont want her to think i'm rubbish. i am uncircumcised and wanted to know if i'm supposed to pull...
A. 26 March 2007: I too am uncircumcised. Put the condom on your penis, don't worry about pulling the foreskin back. It won't stay. I suggest using a Diaphragm or female condom. Because as you thrust it will stretch the male condom farther than the size you have set ... (read in full...)
She seems to want to copy me all the time and it's really starting to get on my nerves!
Q. Hi all...I need some help coz I've been getting annoyed with this friend of mine. She and I go to the same university. Recently, she started buying the same perfumes that I had, so I stopped wearing mine because I didn't want us to smell the same. ...
A. 26 March 2007: I can understand it getting on your nervs. I don't think you need to tell her what she's doing is wrong. Just help her get connfedince in who she is. Take her to your hairdresser but find something that would look good on her but yet fits her ... (read in full...)
How can I tell him that i admire him? Will I regret it if I don't say anything?
Q. hi there , im a 28 yr old female n i need some help. I am otherwise a very confident person and i love life...last year i saw this guy n let me tell you, it was this gut attraction, you dont feel like this ( all the time ) and i regretted never ...
A. 26 March 2007: I think you should just come out and say it. When a man and a woman become friends you can never truly become more.(well in my opinion) If you want a real relationship you should let him know from the begging. He has to know what you want, to see if ... (read in full...)
The long distance in our relationship is getting to me! What should I do?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months now, for the first 8, my mum didn't know about it- at first she didn't take it too well but she was willing to welcome him in. After the first proper meeting, she proceeded to tell me he was "too polite" ...
A. 26 March 2007: If you guys split, would you find another guy? Would he find another girl? If no, then just stay together. It's better to be together in some form than no form at all.... (read in full...)
I know he cares about me but at 14 years old...should I have sex with him?
Q. Hey, i'm 14 and am going out with a lovely 17 year old. hes always nice to me, and makes an effort. weve been going out for 3 months, and i can tell that hes thinking about sex. as hes my first "real" boyfriend, im not that clued up about how ...
A. 26 March 2007: 3 Months!? Me and my Fiancee waited 2 years. He's a bit older and that's okay but please wait at least a year.... (read in full...)
What is that average time that sex usually lasts?
Q. what is that average time sex usaully lasts? just wondering cos i've heard 15-25 mins... Me and my bf have been sleeping together for a while but he can never go longer then 5 minutes. I don't mind cos I know he cant help it..I was just wondering if ...
A. 26 March 2007: The longest I've ever had sex was 15 minutes. Generally it's around the five minute mark. It just comes to show you; all the rumors you hear about sex are almost never true. Including what your friends have told you. If you don't come from it try ... (read in full...)
Should I backpack to the far east or stay and deal with my marriage problems?
Q. Hi. I am 34 my wife 44. Been together for 10 years and not had an argument until about 6 months ago. I am stepfather to her 5 teenage kids.Both work full time. She finishes at midnight. I try and stay up til half one to be with her and get 4 hrs ...
A. 26 March 2007: Man. I'm sorry you married her. I think you should driver her car into the closest lake.. I think you should call some type of child services to have the children taken away, because if she wants to be free, she can't have the restrictions of having ... (read in full...)
Im so suffocated at home, but cant afford to move out! Help!
Q. Recently i've been having a few problems with my parents. They constantly interfere and comment on everything i do. i can't read a book or watch television without some remark. whenever i go out, my mother wants to know exactly where i'm going and ...
A. 26 March 2007: You're just going to have to hold your breath. As long as you live under their roof, You have to abide by their rules. Just the way it is, no matter what age. You should listen to your dad. You can't help people, if you can't even help yourself. ... (read in full...)
Help, my mom is overprotective and won't let me date! What can I do?
Q. Help! My mum is being way to protective of me. I am 17, turning 18 next month and she doesn't want me to have a bf. I have been going out with this guy who I met through my classes at university for just over a month now and she doesn't approve, not ...
A. 26 March 2007: Don't worry about your mom. If no guy's good enough then it won't matter who you bring home. You can only let her meet him and hope she sees something different in him. You're kind of right about guys. We don't only want sex.. So we think but since ... (read in full...)
Do you think I could chang my wifes mindset about sex ?
Q. My wife and I have different attitudes towards sex.... I would do it all the time, when I do it I think of it and when I don't... I think of it even more. She is more settled. We go along together, anyway. Sometimes we quarrel a bit for this, bu...
A. 26 March 2007: Maybe she doesn't enjoy it as much as you. Don't worry you can change that. You could go to the gym, get in shape. You can read up on sex.. Be spontaneous and romantic. Light some candles nibble and suck on her ears and neck while having soft music ... (read in full...)
Whenever I get intimate with my GF I start to feel sick and sometimes have to throw up! I dont know why!!?
Q. Hi, Me and my girlfriend have been going out since mid june now. Whenever we lie down and kiss each other, sometime i'm touching her breasts, I start to feel sick to my stomache. This is very embarasing. Usually i just go to the bathroom, ...
A. 26 March 2007: You're just getting nervous. Do what you have to to get through it. Close your eyes take a deep breath and let everything float away. Try to get a bit farther every time. Eventually it'll all get easier. You're going to get through this, I ... (read in full...)
My housemate has a new guy, they are all over each other in front of me and its making me uncomfortable!!
Q. Hey Everyone, Just got a small problem and I'll appreciate anyone's advice on the matter, if you can spare a moment or two. My housemate has recently got a boyfriend and even though he's a great guy and I enjoy his company around the house it's g...
A. 26 March 2007: Moving out could work. You could talk to her. You have every right to make yourself a snack without seeing them sucking each others face off. I'm sure you're getting tired of him always being there. It's not his place, it's yours. He may have no ... (read in full...)
Im really confused, I snogged a guy while my man was away and now dont know what to do!!?
Q. please dont judge me! ive done nothing but cry the last 2 days i feel so awful and very confused! my fella of a yr works away alot he just gone away in december to the new york he comes back in may in so excited to see him but so confused! iv...
A. 26 March 2007: Maybe you don't "Love your fella". A lot of people feel they're obligated to love someone because they love them. If you loved your man you wouldn't of cuddled with this guy. But that's my opinion and mine doesn't count. You should tell your man. ... (read in full...)
These guys are staring at me and looking at me out of the corner of their eyes. Do they like me?
Q. I like this guy. I've already asked him to a dance and he said no. Sometimes he looks at me out of the corner of his eye, though. Does he like me? Also, I've been hearing for three years that another boy likes me. The other day, in a classroom ...
A. 24 March 2007: Why do girls always blow looking out of proportion. We have eyes we use them to study our surroundings. Just because I look at a girl doesn't mean I like her. You could of made him nervous. Girls mature before guys, so you could of just turned his ... (read in full...)
Why does my female teacher keep looking at me?
Q. why does my female teacher keep looking at me? i'm a female high school student and whenever i'm working i sense that she is always looking at me for some reason. and i do not know why. it's not a mean look it's just a normal look. what does ...
A. 24 March 2007: Shouldn't you of graduated by now? Anyway. Don't look too deep into this. It's most likely nothing.... (read in full...)
Does race affect penis size?
Q. I know this question has probably been answered several times but here goes anyway. Does race effect penis size?...
A. 22 March 2007: If it's true, then race could play a role in the female organ as well.. Since it was said that asian men have the smaller penises; the women must have tighter vaginas with black being the loosest..?... (read in full...)
I want to watch porn with him, but feel like hes oggling them not me!
Q. Recently i watched lesbian porn with my boyfriend of 4 years whilst having sex. I felt uncomfortable, jealous and that he was busy watching the girls. I so want to be able to watch it with him, what can i do? I have tried 'normal' porn but hes not ...
A. 22 March 2007: I slightly disagree with Jendorset, I know revenge feels good but if you love him you would want to save him from pain not cause it. You should talk to him about it. Don't do anything drastic.... (read in full...)
How do I explain to my wife (whom I love dearly) that I want to go to a dominatrix?
Q. For some time now I have been very interested in visiting a Dominatrix. However, before i can even seriously consider this, there are a number of issues to consider first, the one most importantly being having a discussion with my wife and getting...
A. 22 March 2007: Have you tried asking her if she'll be your Dominatrix? You could even send her to the girl you wanted for pointers.... (read in full...)
Is it possible to live life amongst humans being careless and free?
Q. Is it possible to live life amongst humans being careless and free?...
A. 22 March 2007: No. We need order, we need restrictions. That's why we created religion and government. If we didn't have laws, the world would be nothing but chaos. That means everyone has to abide by these rules. Everyone!
I hope this helps a bit. Your question... (read in full...)
I was drunk and he forced me to give him a BJ! Is it normal to be mad at him even though I was drunk?
Q. Two weeks ago at a party, i get very drunk and high which i completly take responsiblility for and understand it was a stupid thing to do. I realised it was a mistake when I felt as though I was about to pass out and everything went blurry so I sat ...
A. 22 March 2007: If everything happened just as you said then you were date raped and you have every right to be angry.. no, pissed. You should get the biggest baddest guys you know to beat his ass. Oh and shut up with the "It's my fault" theory. You got drunk, yes. ... (read in full...)
We are still friends--so how do I go about getting over him completely?
Q. While in class my ex boyfriend has been starting conversations with me. He has a new girlfriend and she's be acting weird towards me since they started going out. I really dont care about her but my ex sent me a text the night b 4 saying that it was ...
A. 22 March 2007: You can't. Not everyone can pull of the whole "Lets just be friends". In fact I don't think I've ever heard of a single successful attempt. My advice to you is to stop talking to him, have your classes changed and ask your friends not to speak to ... (read in full...)
When he fingers me it hurts real bad! Is this normal?
Q. Hi, well me and my b/f have been dating for 2 years, and we foreplay but we are BOTH virgins...and when i give him a hand job, blow job etc. everything is fine, but when he fingers me i get tight all of a sudden after the first minute and it really ...
A. 22 March 2007: Sex(all forms) are like being in the relationship itself. The key is communication. You need to talk while he's doing it kind of coaching. Also, never do it dry make sure to have enough foreplay and the right foreplay to get you wet, that believe it ... (read in full...)
His weight gain has effected his self-esteem..he's worried that other females don't notice him anymore! Aren't I enough?
Q. My bf's always been a really handsome guy, but lately he's gained some weight, and i think it's having a real impact on his self-esteem. It used to drive me crazy when other girls would hit on him or flirt with him, and i really hated it that he ...
A. 22 March 2007: He just has a big head. He needs to get over it. That's really the only thing I can say. You shouldn't of allowed his hunger for the attention of other girls to last this long. You should of squashed that years ago. Stop thinking about him all the ... (read in full...)
The love of my life just asked me out for another guy! What should I do?
Q. The love of my life just asked me out for another guy what should I do?...
A. 22 March 2007: Hmm. Where's the guy who wanted to know the definition of a "Love Triangle".. There's no way out of this without at least one person getting hurt.... (read in full...)
How do you become a more dynamic, interesting person?
Q. What makes a person exciting/interesting, one that someone wants to have around and stay around? I get the impression that I don't maintain people's interest. I don't consider myself a boring person at all. I enjoy most activities, I'm always up ...
A. 22 March 2007: The key isn't to change yourself. It's to find a group of people who accept you for who you already are.... (read in full...)
The boys tell me I am ugly! What can I do to make myself pretty?
Q. dear cupid i am 14 years old and quite shy all the boys say im ugly and take the mik out of me because of what i look like it really upsets me i dont know what to do to make myself pretty im not as ugly as they say but i cant get a boyfriend all my ...
A. 22 March 2007: If you wear makeup remember the secret is to make it look like you're not wearing any at all!... (read in full...)
If he loved me like he said he did...would he have just walked away from me?
Q. ok well there is this kid and he don't know if he likes me or not because people keep saying stuff that isn't true sooo before this happened well he kissed me and said he loves me but i walked passed him and he walked away from me if he loved me ...
A. 22 March 2007: I think you should worry less about how he feels and more about how you feel. You haven't stated once how you feel about this young man. Also, if you walked away, why should you exspect him to stay?... (read in full...)
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