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writes:hi there , im a 28 yr old female n i need some help. I am otherwise a very confident person and i love life...last year i saw this guy n let me tell you, it was this gut attraction, you dont feel like this ( all the time ) and i regretted never getting to know him, until recently i went into this pharmacy and hey pronto , HE WAS THERE, working as a pharmacist. now the problem is, i have gone into the pharmacy on the pretext of buying something, and everytime i do, i hve found him looking at me.I can feel that he knows why i go in. Anyway how can i tell him that i admire him ? i will regret if i dont tell him. I have been honest with it comes to my own feelings and i have to let this guy know. Just from my side. I will accept if he is involved with someone else. Please advise....thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2007): hi , many thanks for your answers...really appreciated. Let me add, i cross his path almost every afternoon, n as soon as i pass him, i lose my confidence, i go weak in the knees, i cant even smile at him !!! becos im too distracted by him. what do i do???
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2007): Chances are you'll run him off if you approach him first. Guys love the chase! We girls don't give them the chance to chase us. When we make the first move, they may have sex with us-or be entertained with us for a while, but they never find us as appealing if they're the ones who initiate the relationship. If he's noticing you, half the work is done. Now- just be patient. Be sweet, smile alot, flirt, but let him make the first move. Again, that means being patient. Good luck!
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reader, home_land  +, writes (26 March 2007):
 hello
call the pharmacy ask for him and tell him on the phone and if he thinks of you he will know who you are and there you go.good luck
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reader, Dos_Vinci  +, writes (26 March 2007):
 I think you should just come out and say it. When a man and a woman become friends you can never truly become more.(well in my opinion) If you want a real relationship you should let him know from the begging. He has to know what you want, to see if he can give it.
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reader, nologo  +, writes (26 March 2007):
 You can feel that he knows why you go in.Trust your feelings and keep going there for a while.When he becomes more confident about your attitude to him, he will be different when around you.Approach him THEN, say that you are interested in him, and watch his reaction to your words.If you rush things right now, he may become closed for you as it is obvious that this guy is shy.Otherwise he would probably be the first to initiate such conversation with you.
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