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writes:ok well there is this kid and he don't know if he likes me or not because people keep saying stuff that isn't true sooo before this happened well he kissed me and said he loves me but i walked passed him and he walked away from me if he loved me wouldn't he have turned back and tell me what he thinks? please help me i am confussed Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2007): This boy likely had just a momentary crush on you, which he confused for 'love'. At your young ages, teens kiss and tell each other, they love one another all the time. But when you develop and mature more into adulthood and experience more solid, good relationships, the word 'love' takes on a whole new meaning. Hun, if he walked away from you, then it's apparent his crush on you, is over. And when a boy treats you like this, the best thing you can do is keep you self-respect and pride and walk the other way. Remember, in the future, to only date and guys who respect you and treat you nicely. This guy isn't doing that. Move on, sweety and don't give this another thought!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2007): I think the problem is, you sound like you're very young. Since the two of you kissed he may be confused about that or maybe wondering what it meant. He probably doesn't know where you two stand now so give him some time to figure out what he wants. If it's really bothering you that much then approach him and talk to him yourself, but don't be too hard on him.
good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2007): Firstly love is a very easy word to say when your so young.
Ask this boy if he want to go out try going to the cinema or something then he can get to know the real you without the nasty rumours. Then just take it from there. Good luck!!
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reader, Dos_Vinci +, writes (22 March 2007):
 I think you should worry less about how he feels and more about how you feel. You haven't stated once how you feel about this young man. Also, if you walked away, why should you exspect him to stay?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2007): well im not sure how old u are but i can tell u that he probley didnt mean it but, just because your young doesnt mean you dont have feelings i think you should give him space and if he desides he wants you and wants to be with you take it slow and see where it goes if thats something you really want but becareful no one wants to get hurt. i wish you all the best and if he doesnt ever try to be that way to you again than the best thing i can say is let it go even thow its very hard but you will find someone that loves you for you no mater what someone says. always smile because life is to short to be unhappy over an unsure thing
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