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writes:Recently i watched lesbian porn with my boyfriend of 4 years whilst having sex. I felt uncomfortable, jealous and that he was busy watching the girls. I so want to be able to watch it with him, what can i do? I have tried 'normal' porn but hes not really in to it.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (23 March 2007):
 I have to agree with everyone else, it seems a little unfair that you are only watching girls. Is it a little too homophobic for him to watch males? He Can role play and identify with them without being gay. I can't remember the comedian who said this, but it really cracked me up. "I used to think that guys liked lesbian pornography because it was twice the porn, two pairs of boobs, two butts, but then, as time passed I thought - Hey! - Maybe he's just watching it to see if he can get it Right...". Porn Can be offensive, but if you are both on the same page - it is just role playing. In any relationship. don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable or that you feel uncomfortable talking about. Hope things work out for you.
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reader, Dos_Vinci  +, writes (22 March 2007):
 I slightly disagree with Jendorset, I know revenge feels good but if you love him you would want to save him from pain not cause it. You should talk to him about it. Don't do anything drastic.
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reader, Jendorset +, writes (22 March 2007):
You are really giving him alot here, so you need to tell him you want some normal porn on sometimes aswell. And, if you can watch lesbian porn with him, why not bring up the supject of porn with LOADS of sexy me in it. Make him watch it, and see how he likes it. I think you should tell him how you feel, he should reasure you. If he doesnt, i wouldnt watch it with him again if i were you. Also, have you tried reading porno storeys while he gives you oral sex ? I think you should demand that.
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