Why is he playing with me like this?
Q. Why is this guy playing with me like this? is this some sort of a sick game? So there's this guy that I like. He'd stare all at me all the time. I gave him my number and he'd ring me and text me. But whenever we made plans to go on a date he'...
A. 21 February 2012: wow.... I cant really get why anyone would do that O.O
It doesnt seem like hes going to stop tho, or ever show up, so yeah, I think you need to cut him loose and stop responding.... (read in full...)
Is there something going on between my ex and one of our friends?
Q. Arghhhhh! I need someone to calm me down a bit!!! My thoughts are running away with me and i'm totally freaking out!!! I'm trying to get over my ex at the minute, and it's going well so far, apart from this one thing that's literally tortur...
A. 21 February 2012: I understand how that must make you feel... but unless your plan is to get back with your ex, I think you need to let him go. For your own good you should probably try to get as far out of his "business" as possible, unless you really think ... (read in full...)
Is there something going on between my ex and one of our friends?
Q. Arghhhhh! I need someone to calm me down a bit!!! My thoughts are running away with me and i'm totally freaking out!!! I'm trying to get over my ex at the minute, and it's going well so far, apart from this one thing that's literally tortur...
A. 21 February 2012: ... i dont get it, you area all "ex's" so why on earth are you suspicious? and what would you "confront" about... they arent cheating or anything...
It sounds to me like you guys are too far into their business ... (read in full...)
B/f gave me his password to facebook but I seen messages I didn't like should I talk to him about them?
Q. I have been dating this guy for about a month now, and he gave me his facebook password yesterday when i was at his place. I looked at some of his private messages when i was with him at his place, but i looked at some more when i got home too,and ...
A. 21 February 2012: I don't think you should bring up any of the ones from before you guys were together. not for any reason really. From what you're saying... he gave this password to you, so he knows what you are capable of reading... he wanted you to know. He's ... (read in full...)
Do men find it more attractive when their partner swallows ??
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together for ten month and a half :) we are really happy together...we have been sexuallt active together for almost five months now and i went down on him last satyrdsy for the first time. He said he really enjoyed it ...
A. 14 February 2012: just ask him if he likes it (assuming you like it.)
If you dont like it. dont do it. entice him to do it elsewhere... ask for like you want it, seriously... only you can figure out the proper way to make that work COMMUNICATION ~ ... (read in full...)
He's spending Valentines Day with his ex?!
Q. My partner has remained good friends with his ex of 10 years. This has always bugged me, but its something that he wants, they speak on a daily basis, either thru txt or phone calls, and catch up when time allows, as she works very long hours. Any ...
A. 14 February 2012: well... look at it this way:
hes never going to change... except maybe for the worse.
You ok with that?... (read in full...)
He said me breaking up with him was the best Valentines gift ever! I know he doesn't want me, but I still feel like I made a mistake by breaking up with him....
Q. Dear cupid i am in love with a guy for 2 years. He knows that and we are in fwb. He is not seeing anyone and im not either. But he never introduced me as his gf. I am his friend, thats all he wanted from me, but i want more. I told him today i...
A. 14 February 2012: well.. you feel cheated cuz you cheated urself. you thought that if you were FWB long enough it'd become something more?
Try to move on, dont regret it too much, it wasnt worth it.
by the way... all I had to do was read the title... and i k... (read in full...)
Does romantic sex appeal to men ?
Q. we women mostly (at least in my case) want slow sensual sex that lasts un hour or more with steady rythm and cuddling ,kissing ,sweet words and mutual participation but my experience showed me that men want the opposite , has i always chosen t...
A. 14 February 2012: Just throwing my two cents in : I think most men 1) cant last an hour and 2) are romantic... until they are horny... then they are just horny, and whatever kink turns them on is what theyll want
not a man tho... so I'm curious to see some answers ... (read in full...)
I rejected him because I was I wasn't sure what sort of relationship I wanted with him
Q. Dear agony aunts, it's valentine's day today and I gave a valentine to the guy that I rejected a few months back but really liked a lot(the thing is, I don't know what kind of way I like him!) . And he was astoundingly cold to me, as though I was ...
A. 14 February 2012: Well.. you blew him off , thats what he thinks. And he's either moved on or not moved on and is just putting up a front so as not to get hurt twice.
You're going to have to do a little more than just give him a valentine... try giving him a ca... (read in full...)
Girlfriend told me I act weird when I receive blow jobs
Q. My girlfriend of 6 months is 12 years younger than I am, but very much more sexually experienced than I me. I got married young and I have only been with two women in my life while she is very adventurous and loves sex. She is also blessed with bei...
A. 14 February 2012: maybe it just isnt the type of reaction that turns her on? Personally I find that boyish ... somehow... (yeah that makes no sense, but thats how i see it) I'm sure she was flattered at ur reply tho, she was just playing that down.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to put my life on hold for a while is that right of him to ask?
Q. A couple of weeks ago I got a call from a former navy recruiter, and he told me of a new opportunity that would let me enlist in the military, but it is only valid for the next two months. I was very happy about it since i have been wanting to do ...
A. 14 February 2012: well ... everyone else kinda covered all the basics, ill just add a bit:
Did you ask him why he wants you to wait a year? ... i mean what difference does it make to him?
but yeah... maybe hes being needy = seems selfish, sit down with him an... (read in full...)
I love him like I've never loved anyone before, but should I marry him and be in a long distance marriage for so many years?
Q. Hey guys and dolls there :-) my head is about to explode. I'm in a longdistance relationship with my bf- soon to be husband. He lives a bunch of hrs away by plane. We get to see each other very often, we're both very committed to making things work. ...
A. 24 January 2012: You are a teacher.... just move to where he is and get a job teaching there?... (read in full...)
Just ended an abusive marriage, my ex is still living with me, and he's emailing his ex!
Q. Is this part of his game playing. I recently ended a 7yr relationship. My ex still lives at my home but will be moving out shortly. The reason for this was because he was abusive to me one night after he had been out. Whilst i reaconise that he has ...
A. 24 January 2012: He's probably just looking for a place to live... a place where he can get emotional and sexual needs satisfied is always a plus.
Dont delude yourself, if he's abusive, dont even go there. It doesnt matter why he's doing it anymore, it only mat... (read in full...)
Why would my boyfriend rather masturbate than have sex with me?
Q. My problem has a few layers, so I will try and explain as clearly as possible without rambling. I have been together with my boyfriend for 3 years. I am 19 and he is 26. I had sexual partners previous to him, but I was his first. He tel...
A. 24 January 2012: uh... if the guys told you they dont watch porn, they lied.
I think you are over reacting, it seems that the situation is exactly as he's told you, his sex drive is lower than yours. The thing about porn is its "to the point" so whenver he has u... (read in full...)
Is he the one for me?
Q. Iv known ds guy 4 quite a while as we were in d same organization for 6years. We neva got to talk to eachoda until lastyear wen we wud only greet eachoda in passin•Then novemba,last year,we bgan to talk in earnest and 3weeks ago,he told me he loves ...
A. 24 January 2012: if you are already having these doubts... you should probably listen to your instinct and get out while ur not head over heels. He doesnt sound bad to me... but apparently you two are a bad match... (read in full...)
I think I like multiple women.
Q. Hey all, I'll keep this brief. I have three lady friends at my university. And whenever I see one of them I think: "ooo, I think I like you because your personality is ________________". Or "you're attractive". Then I'll see the next woman maybe 1 ...
A. 24 January 2012: haha
1) it is normal
2) all guys like multiple women... it means you're straight... you're attracted to women.
3) you need to sort out right now whether you seem to develop emotions for more than one, or just lust after more than one
I... (read in full...)
Rough sex got out of control and I hurt my girlfriend.
Q. I really feel bad about hurting my GF. My girl friend likes it when I get rough. like when we have sex or fingering her, she likes it when I really slam her. or she likes to be slammed against the wall sometime. well last weekend I was fingering her ...
A. 24 January 2012: I think it's great that you feel like an ass : D
... ok... what I mean is that it seems like you really understand that while she may like it rough, she doesnt like being hurt. Some guys tend to mix the two up. You guys need "safe words" ... some... (read in full...)
Porn woes!
Q. Looking for a male perspective; in the throes of a wonderful new relationship and I'm the happiest I've been for years. The emotional side of the relationship is perfect and the physical side the same. I'm very open-minded!! The only niggle I have ...
A. 24 January 2012: "Being attracted to older women with children does not mean he can only be happy with a woman who meets that description. "
To add to what Ciar said there
I actually envy you... i wish I could believe that getting older = looking more att... (read in full...)
I'm in the depths of depression. Is there a way out?
Q. Hey guy's I'm going to apologize before hand as on the education front I don't have much. Here's my story.. and why I have self diagnosed myself with social anxiety and depression. I started to realise I was different around the age of 13 I...
A. 24 January 2012: If you havent gotten your GED yet, you need to sign up for classes. No matter how much school u skipped, you are at your smartest (book wise) right now. You will forget even how to add eventually .... and you will regret not doing it eventually. ... (read in full...)
Have we lost our spark in the bedroom?
Q. I've been with my current boyfriend for almost two years. He's really great to me, very kind and caring. In the beginning we had a little issue with his ex because we moved kind of fast into our relationship without recovering from the previous ...
A. 24 January 2012: no offense, but you ask if you lost your spark?? I think you never had it. The beginning was better because it was something new. You need to find out what turns him on, if it really isnt going to work, then there is a deeper problem than jus... (read in full...)
Am I right in wanting more time?
Q. I have been seeing my gf for 10 months now and it has now become apparent that she wants me to decide pretty shortly if I want it to be a lifelong commitment ie marriage and kids. Or not = end of relationship. We have lived together for around 6 ...
A. 23 January 2012: Well... maybe its not a long enough time... maybe it is (i'll go ahead and admit i'm too young to really know)
What I think is that at your age... assuming shes around your age... women will start to think they're running out of time.
Women a... (read in full...)
My boyfriend seems more interested in himself and his games than he is in me
Q. So, I'm 19 and I have my first boyfriend of all time. I'm excited, I adore him, I find him to be the sweetest boy I've ever met... unfortunately, this is a long distance relationship. We have to communicate over skype more often than anything. W...
A. 21 January 2012: LOL ... oh how I wish I could talk to you more.
what you have managed to type here, is the exact replica of the story of my life 3
My boyfriend and I have been long distance for about a year and hes just about the most avid hardcore gamer o... (read in full...)
My sex drive is significantly higher than my wife's
Q. Hello all, I am new to the site. My question is, I am a 36 yr old male, married with 2 small kids. The problem I am facing is that I am all ways horny, and I mean all the time. My wife helps me out with it most of the time, but other times I do...
A. 21 January 2012: Tell her.
Trust me, if she loves you... and chances are she does... she does NOT want to see this ruin your relationship.
like the other post said, it does sound like the type of situation where the guy ends up cheating. dont do it. whatever you... (read in full...)
Before we dated she revealed that she used to meet up with strangers for sex. I'm disgusted. Am I being too judgemental?
Q. I have been dating a girl for the last 6 months. Last week she told me that she has used internet sites to meet guys for sex. This was before we dated and has not done it since. I am having a problem accepting it. It was not my business, I ...
A. 21 January 2012: well... before you make any big decisions, try sitting down with her and telling her how it makes u feel... though perhaps you should avoid words like disgust . and go more for words like hurt and disappointed and confused. Because after reading ... (read in full...)
We talked about a three-way but my boyfriend won't even talk to the other girl!
Q. Hello For about a year now me and my boyfriend have talked about the idea of having another girl in our relationship. Mostly in a sexual way, but not purely just that... we actually want a 3 way relationship. Anyway, so we talk about this A LOT...
A. 19 January 2012: Hey guys ^^ thanks for all the advice
@person12345 thanks for your opinion, but you're wrong, and im very happy that i know that 100%
I think YouWish hit the nail on the head same with shrodingerscat ... thinking back on it all, I was the m... (read in full...)
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