The woman I love is there, but ignoring me. How can I reach her?
Q. Just over two years ago I met the most incredible and beautiful woman. She is a professional Dominatrix and I had sought out her services to indulge some 'kinks'. However, we hit it off and never did anything professionally. We became really good ...
A. 19 November 2009: I think some of these people on here are messed up souls
Ive read about there problems and want to throw up
I think your sweet and really a kind hearted person .. But
your native to her. I think she is disconnected as a person and you are... (read in full...)
What should I do with a husband who has so many addictions?
Q. ive been married for 5 years now and i made the mistake of not getting to know the man first ,soo i feel responsible for where im at today .before i married him i seen he had a lot of girly magazines around ,told him i will not tolerate porn in my ...
A. 29 October 2009: get out and get far away from him. Everyday you stay there you are wasting your life . It will be hard but after you make your mind up everything will start to fall into place. Hes a mesed up person and is using you. best of luck... (read in full...)
What if she chooses smoking over me?
Q. hey i have a problem with my girlfriend she used to smoke before we hooked up and quit when we became official because she knows that i wouldnt be with someone that smokes for reasons i told her. we are going to a party this Saturday and she said ...
A. 23 October 2009: yuck I hate smoke on peoples breath and to kiss someone is just sick ...not sexy at all . MY ex stopped for me and smoked behind my back . I left him but I made a list of what I would never put up with LIARS..AND SMOKERS first two on the list. ... (read in full...)
Is she just playing with me?
Q. I need help and i have no idea what i am supposed to do. My ex and i broke up about 4 months ago because i believe we were spending way to much time together and small fights turned to big ones. We dated for 4 years and everything was great up until ...
A. 23 October 2009: Hey the girl might be playing games but you dont put your foot down . I wonder what you did to make her leave and go get another man in her life. ? Drop the feel sorry for me and the class . This is your fault for putting up with it .If you let ... (read in full...)
Is it supposed to be this hard to hang out with her?
Q. I met this girl a while back on a movie set we were both production assistants. Well we chatted during the downtime for about 2 hours. she was really cute and cool. Well, after hitting it off with her i felt bad cuz she was leaving for Tanzania for ...
A. 23 October 2009: Ask her if she ever gets free time.... Then ask her out but somewhere fun and exciting . Shes got work , school, and helping people . I think somthing for her would be nice . If she tells you she has no time take that as a no and just be friendly ... (read in full...)
Am I her booty call?
Q. I met this girl about 2 months ago, we hit it off on the first date, on the second date she spent the entire weekend at my place. This happened for 2 more weekends, then one night during the week she told me that she had been having sex with ...
A. 22 October 2009: I would get another girl and you both will be even... (read in full...)
Moral beliefs on fantasies?
Q. I was wondering what people think about this one. I feel that if you're in a relationship with someone, you shouldn't fantasise/masturbate over someone else. To me, at that moment in time you're choosing to be with (think of) someone other th...
A. 21 October 2009: my guy did it
I told him I did it too
there was a big guy ready for him... he got mad and sad its sick .. I agreed but I said when your fantansy is with other women all I can think is big bubba taking you from behind . He said he cant let that... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks I'm cheating on him constantly!
Q. My boyfriend always thinks im after other guys and cheating on him constantly. Ive honestly never cheated on him i love him so much. I go to school and i got a little close with one guy, we would hug longer than other people would or talk just to ...
A. 21 October 2009: when someone thinks you ae cheating its because there gulity of it themselfs... ... (read in full...)
For the men out there......how do escort/massage review forums work?
Q. Recently I confronted my husband, of 13 years, with some postings I found on a local escort type review forum. The postings gave me the impression he had been visiting Asian Massage Palours as well as visiting escorts. He says that he made up ...
A. 20 October 2009: your in denial .. so what if your husband is nice and a good man hes cheating on you and you dont want to even listen to people telling you what you know is the truth. Men lie and they lie about having sex with other women because its called ... (read in full...)
I just want to know the truth, how do I get her to come clean?
Q. I have a serious question. I know that as men or humanbeings in general, we have a tendency to over react or feed into our doubts. Let me tell you the story. I meant and married my wife via the internet. When I met her I was done. Totally in love....
A. 20 October 2009: she had an affair and you know it . I wonder if shell do it again ?... (read in full...)
Can I convince her I'm not a repetitive liar?
Q. Hi, Well About 12months ago i got with a girl and we were together for months then we broke up. recently she asked about if we cud get back together and i said id love to, but at the time id slept with this girl a few times. she asked, but i denied...
A. 20 October 2009: I think she should go back . Yes and give you a chance and tell you everything you want to hear. I love you I trust you and your the best in bed.
After you get comfortable she should have sex with someone else in fact have sex with him bj and a... (read in full...)
We havent spoke in nearly a month, does this mean its over?
Q. I am in a long term relationship. However I got mad with him, and I sent him a message saying that he might one day not hear from me again. He never replied my text. Its now close to a month since I last heard from him. Does this mean its over? I ...
A. 20 October 2009: Men wait for us to call did you know that ? Well there EGO is waiting so you have to stick to what you said and thats
means dont call him. I know its hard and your thinking why did I say that I was mad at the time but you did. If you call him he w... (read in full...)
My ex still has a hold over me!
Q. The first time I posted, my now EX was really distant and pulling away (shes 30, I'm 28). The second time I posted she ended it by stating she didnt feel like she was the type of person who could be in relationship because of some issues in her ...
A. 20 October 2009: I think you know what you need to do and thats to move on. I wonder what her isssue is in her life and does this have anything to do with you? If she has moved on and is hannging around co-workers then maybe her issue was you..? It doesnt make sense ... (read in full...)
Is he interested or just keeping me hanging?
Q. My ex split up with me 2 months ago. I didnt want it to end but he felt we were fighting too much and needed to not live together anymore. I wanted to work on things and he agreed to date but us live apart for a while and work on our problems, but ...
A. 20 October 2009: He doesnt like the fighting ? get the ---- out of here!!!
Id kick his fake lieing ass out of there. See you are nice and hes playing games. Men are ---holes and he is like I dont like the fighting and I miss you and want you back but I dont wan... (read in full...)
I don't know why I'm feeling this way! What I should do?
Q. At the beginning of summer vacation, I was dumped by my (now) ex-boyfriend for confusing "reasons". I had very limited contact with him over the summer, and we didn't see each other in person at all. With the lack of contact, I was able to get on ...
A. 20 October 2009: You have moved on and your in a good place . If you got back now you would ( break up ) you will have all that work to do all over agian. I went through this I was with a guy and we broke up then he wanted to get back and I let him back in . Guess ... (read in full...)
Is it crazy for me to get involved with a younger man?
Q. I'm a 45 year old divorced mother of two and find myself being courted by a 32 year old man. Is it crazy for me to get involved in a relationship with him? He is the nicest person I've ever known and I am attracted to him. My concern is that aft...
A. 15 October 2009: I understand your concrns that age thing is a sensitive subject . I was in two younger men realtionships and it was a lot of fun but a lot of heartache. The sex of course is amazing and there much more free then older men. I will tell you there are ... (read in full...)
I thought she was The One, but she's recently changed
Q. Fascinating relationship problem! I am in a highly charged relationship that has been just bliss until a few weeks ago when my girlfriends tone, frequency and mood in her communications collapsed. This has left me dumbfounded and hurt. It has neve...
A. 15 October 2009: wow if she had sex its over!!! how can you be with another person and in love and have sex with other people? Shes not the one shes not in love with you thats why she cheated on you ,lied, and you need to move on . I think your in denial about what ... (read in full...)
Was what he did during oral sex wrong?
Q. ok so my boyfriend always wants me to swallow after giving him oral sex. he says its sexy and it feels better for him. so i dont have a problem with doing this, but just last night, right when he was about to cum, he PUSHED my head down and held me ...
A. 13 October 2009: He has no respect for you and you he thinks hes in a porno
make some meat balls put some shit in it or dog shit that works to and pasta .Feed it to him and smile and giggle the whole time .
P.S. make him do the dishes to !!!... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend bad mouthing me? I feel so betrayed!
Q. My boyfriend is always looking for validation and sympathy from his friends and family. I found out that he makes me sound like a bully to everyone around him!? I am not a bully!? I notice his friends and family ignoring me and giving me bad ...
A. 13 October 2009: Hes insecure and needs attention.... (read in full...)
Do bad boys every change?
Q. Do u think bad boys ever change? What do u class as a bad boy? Im hooked on this man who i have had an on/off relationship with 4 3 years! He always let me down. Put his mates first. Sleep with lots of woman b4 i met him. And continued to when were ...
A. 13 October 2009: ummm this is called (sywo)its in most imature men that dont want to grow up. Ive had that type too and the best thing for you to to is tell him when he calls hey im going out call me tomorrow. Tell him the next day and the next. he will get it after ... (read in full...)
What happened and why is it so hard to move on?
Q. I have been in a relationship for almost 2 years . I have had a lot of loss over the last 4 years which caused me not to be in a relationship for a longtime . I felt all these years of being alone and I mean alone I didnt go out at all or date ...
A. 12 October 2009: thank you for that last post it was so helpful . I think your right I did let my self go to soon. Hes life was a mess when I met him his friends were really young and all they did is go to bars and drink and use drugs. He told me he was trying to ... (read in full...)
What happened and why is it so hard to move on?
Q. I have been in a relationship for almost 2 years . I have had a lot of loss over the last 4 years which caused me not to be in a relationship for a longtime . I felt all these years of being alone and I mean alone I didnt go out at all or date ...
A. 11 October 2009: thanks for your post its hard to go through this all agian
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He's nasty to me - why?
Q. Please help, I am in a 3 month relationship with a guy younger than me by 8 years.When we first dated he lied about his age and I found his ID Doc. but he doesn't know that I know his real age. I found out that he was cheating just a month after we ...
A. 11 October 2009: my guy is 9 years younger then me and he did the dame thing
he would take to me mean and blame all the problems on me . I had him paying rent but it was always late. he take money from me and pay me back in a month . I was in love with him but afte... (read in full...)
Should I tell the truth about my shady past
Q. 5yrs ago I was at a very bad place in my life I was addicted to crack and pills and in an abusive relationship. I lost my job because of drugs and to support my and my bf;s addiction I beganing doing things I am very ashamed of. I slpet with dealers ...
A. 11 October 2009: Im sorry that you went through this in your life and Im so glad you have pulled your life together and are doing much better.
I have to say my first reaction to your question is to tell him because you want to tell him everything and not keep any... (read in full...)
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