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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (13 October 2009):
 I know it's not easy but you need to talk to him about this. If you let it go it will continue to eat you up inside and ruin your relationship with him.
Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI would like to thanks everyone for replying! I don't still don't really know what to do.. I can't look him in the face without thinking about all those bad things he says about me. I don't know how to bring it up because he is always sweet and nice around me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2009): I wish I could answer this for you. I am going through the same thing. My fiance had done awful things in our relationship but I have forgiven him and tried to work past it. I recently found out that he was telling family members that I was the one doing the things he was doing he totally put me down and I have done nothing but been loving and supportive and respectful. ANd if that isnt enough I read a text he wrote to a friend bad mouthing me and letting his friend do so as well. I am totally baffeled by this. I treat him with the utmost respect. I feel for you I really do, being in this situation sucks.
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female
reader, sunnycomet +, writes (13 October 2009):
Talk to him about how you feel. Ask him to stop bad mouthing you. If he doesn't apologize and stop then you should reconsider your relationship with him.
Good Luck!
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reader, DESTINY 23  +, writes (13 October 2009):
 Hes insecure and needs attention.
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