I think my online girl is cheating on me--her stories don't add up!
Q. I think my girlfriend is possibly cheating on me. I am really confused....she really seems sincere, tells me she loves me all the time, but certain behavioral patterns really bother me. Though our relationship for now is strictly online (thats how ...
A. 12 February 2011: she met uonline, who else did she meet before, or after metting u... (read in full...)
Boyfriend was flirting with another girl but I'm the one who messed up by getting into an ugly fight with him...
Q. Dear Cupid My bf of 1 year started heavily flirting with a girl recently. We already talked about this and he said nothing is serious but i doubt that girl is falling for him. Yesterday again he started flirting with her and i got so pissed off, w...
A. 12 February 2011: amentothat listen to the previous answer u did nothing wrong, he did, let him be the one to call u to say he is sorry and the odds r that by time he realizes he was in the wrong it would be too late good luck... (read in full...)
Can someone explain to me why guys would literally have sex with anyone?
Q. [MOD NOTE] 2 questions combined. can some guys (girls welcome too of course) explain to me how is it that alot of guys would literately have sex with any one. alot of guys can literately be walked up to, and if us girls wanted to, we could have sex...
A. 27 November 2010: yes you are right cheaters, people who have mutable sex partners with no emotional attachments dont think it is wrong untill they either get caught or try to settle down
who would want to be with someone if they are ridden more than a bus route... (read in full...)
Short affair, and only oral sex
Q. Back in Sept. My husband had a month and a half affair. I didnt find out till the friday before Thanksgiving. The woman's husband called me to let me know what has happened. I told the guy there was no way. Thats not him. We have been together for ...
A. 27 November 2010: just oral eh, sexual acts are sexual acts and should only be performed with the partner(husbans/wife, gf/bf).
cheating is cheating, and oral is usually only the beginning... (read in full...)
Need a good honest opinion of what to do now.
Q. My girlfriend of 9 months told me from the beginning of the relationship to never ask her about her past sexual experiences and it bothered me having to be so mysterious.... last night she was extremely drunk and we were having sex and I asked her ...
A. 27 November 2010: wow 570, there are prositutes that dont have that high a number, and even though she gets tested every 6 months dont mean anything, some std's can not be detected untill there is a break out hsv is one of them
my advise; run... (read in full...)
My girlfriend started dancing at a strip club!
Q. I know this is a long post but I don't have anyone I feel like I can talk too about this situation and I really hope some people here can read through this and tell me what they think. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 9 months ...
A. 29 October 2010: first off she is now taking her clothes off for money, great morals there(there is another profession that does that too)
secondly, the private dances; a little more than just dances goes on, i am one that can addmit that i have shot my load on a st... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is horrible at showing affection!
Q. My girlfriend (26) and I (24) have been going out for 4 months. The affection is horrible!!! I am frustrated and very openly venting to all of you as I really wouldn’t otherwise and I am really looking for some help if my perception of this is ...
A. 22 October 2010: dont do anything, if she wants it let her come and get it or ask for it, do the whole hard to get thing... (read in full...)
I told my girlfriend I cheated on her, but wasn't completely honest about what happened. What should I do?
Q. so I am 18 and in college and my girlfriend who i care about very much is 17 and still in high school. about two months ago I made a horrible mistake and cheated on her with another girl. I kissed her and got a hand job from her. I called my girl ...
A. 21 October 2010: should of thought of that before u let it happen man... (read in full...)
She's cheating and I don't know what to do about it
Q. i'm in love with this other lady, we have been together for 4 years now. my problem is she hadn't be faithful, i once got her with a man who is like twice her age, then she ask for forgiveness, and now when i'm with her, her cellphone is either in ...
A. 21 October 2010: well man here is the truth, if she knows u will forgive her because u love her she will cheat again
time to throw in the towel man, even though u love her it appears that she cares very little about it
loving someone sometimes makes us put the blin... (read in full...)
What is considered cheating?
Q. Hi everyone what is it that is considered cheating.what did the person do to be called a 'cheter' ...thank you!...
A. 21 October 2010: cheating is and there is many ways of cheating, one is sex with someone other then bf/gf, another is having sexual talks/text messages/e mails with someone other than bf/gf
really if is something of that nature that u want to keep hidden/secret from... (read in full...)
Wife and social networking
Q. my wife of 11 years has started to go on social networking sites various this includes web caming not to much to worry about i know but she got into a web relationship including web sex i wasnt a good husband due to the duress of shift work and ...
A. 21 October 2010: ok this is a easy one, she made a commitment to u as a wife to have no other above u so with that being said tell her there is no grey area in a relationship(ie thing are no good, stress and all that) she can either act as ur wife or she can be ur ... (read in full...)
I have herpes and feel like scum!
Q. Can someone help? I'm really anxious, upset, stressed out, and depressed. A couple months ago I met someone. I have herpes. He is a really special, kind wonderful guy. Unfortunately I let things get a little too far before I told him (mutual ...
A. 20 October 2010: first off it is a crimal offence, agervated sexual assalt
secondly, how could u being the one with hsv not know the was it can be transmitted, did u know it can be spread without having a outbreak, it is possible to get it on the hands too
and l... (read in full...)
Are all men crazy, or just this one?
Q. my boyfriend and i use to fight all the time . now that we are in seperate housing i dont want him any more and he still finds ways to get in good with me .. what should i do we been together for 3 years and been seperated for 2 months and i dont ...
A. 20 October 2010: well if u got a new bf its time to move on
are u going over to his place for sex, if so shouldnt u tell ur new bf... (read in full...)
I have suspicions that he might be cheating on me...
Q. my bf, and i have been dating for about 2 months now, our relationship, is more sexual than emotional. Which personally i do not mind, because i am not in love with him. The only problem is that, now, i think he is cheating on me, and i told him, ...
A. 20 October 2010: what do u care if he is seeing someone else, u dont love him, really ur a friend with benifits.
why give it up to someone who u have no emotional attachment to... (read in full...)
How can someone who wants to marry you turn around and find someone else immediately?
Q. How can someone who wants to marry you turn around and find someone else immediately? It's been two months after almost three years. I'm still hurting and she started dating someone else almost immediately. ...
A. 6 March 2010: its either a rebound or someone she was seeing on the side... (read in full...)
He's having an emotional affair with this girl... help!
Q. My boyfriend and I have had a very rocky relationship but i thought it was getting better, 4 months after we started dating he cheated on me... because it was so early in the relationship i forgave him... now... a year and two months later he says ...
A. 6 March 2010: time to turn ur back hun, there is now such thing a banging someone or have a emotional affair with someone and the only being friends
if this is the shit he is pulling now, it can only be worse later
find someone new, someone with morals
re... (read in full...)
When she is in a mood there is no reasoning with her
Q. Alright, im in bit of a situation... Well theres soo much to tell but ill try to keep it short. Well my and my gf have been dating for 2.5 years now and im 18 and shes 19. Things started out pretty well, but they were going in the wrong direction....
A. 20 February 2010: sounds like to me she is trying to justify something, maybe a reason to break up again, i'd be asking whats up with her(remember because of the internet, namely facebook, its been easyier for people to meet and become attached to others easyier).
s... (read in full...)
Boyfriend can't perform in bed as good as he thinks he can.
Q. I just started having sex very recently.My Boyfriend and I have had sex a couple times and everytime it was bad. I cheated on him with a friend who I asked to teach me how to ride and perform fellatio and some other basic positions and the sex was ...
A. 18 February 2010: man you all said a mouthfull, what is it with people these days, no one can keep a damn commitment anymore.
sex is not a reason for a relationship, regardless if he is good or bad at it, and besides who is to say that you are all that good at ... (read in full...)
Do I send my ex a Valentine's card?
Q. Hi, I'm looking for some advice on whether to send my ex a Valentine's card. We were together 9 years, lived together for 7 years, but finally split up September 2009 after coming to a stuttering end when I found out he was 'messing around' with a ...
A. 13 February 2010: well the proof is in the pudding, messed around once, u forgave, he messed around again, people these days just dont know how to keep a commitment.
walk away, take it as a life lesson... (read in full...)
How can I prove to my wife I'm NOT cheating on her?
Q. My wife accuses me time and time again of cheating. She has also tried to hack into my facebook and myspace. I have proved to her time and time again that I'm not cheating by letting her look at my accounts and also she goes through my phone and I ...
A. 13 February 2010: sounds like she is trying to justify something she is doing, flip it around and see what happens... (read in full...)
For anyone out there who has been cheated on.. can you tell me when the pain starts to subside?
Q. Hi everyone, For anyone out there who has been cheated on.. can you tell me when the pain starts to subside? Only three weeks ago, I found out my boyfriend of eight years has been having an affair for the past year - and possibly the ent...
A. 8 February 2010: time will help, for me it was alot of alchol which i wouldn't tell anyone else to do. remember it was not that you were not good enough but that he was not good for you.
yes you may have loved and trusted him but love is blind, its been a year now... (read in full...)
How do I know if the sex was good or not?
Q. So I had sex with this guy last night. It was totally a one night stand and I'm not expecting anything out of it. I was just wondering, how do i know if he liked it or if I was bad? I wasn't laying there like a dead fish and when i gave him head he ...
A. 8 February 2010: well lets just look at what one night stand is, just a way to have sex with someone ya dont care about.
bottom line is he just wanted to get off so you really could of been a dead fish he wouldn't of cared.
here is question for you, you gave hi... (read in full...)
Does everyone know if STD's can be transfered by oral sex?
Q. Does everyone know if STD's can be transfered by oral sex?...
A. 7 February 2010: i did know std's could be transfered this way was surprised at how many people dont know.
and just so everyone who wants to know herpies can be transfered without having a out break if the carrier is a-symptomatic (known as shedding) they can have... (read in full...)
We decided to start anew and admit past cheating...I told him and now he's upset!
Q. i been in a relationship with my boyfriend for six years and we met really young i cheated on him two years into the relationship and he found out and i just recently told him we were not very stable at the time i cheated on him and were together ...
A. 1 February 2010: the problem is most guys cheat and expect to be forgiven, but when their partner cheats it effects the ego; the thoughts of not being good enough, and as i know from having a cheating partner, how can sex be enjoyable knowing what happened during ie ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has HSV should I tell the people she has cheated on me with?
Q. i thank those who answered my question back in november, and now i have another; as my partner of 8 yrs had cheated with a co worker and had a online relationship with one of her customers from work something else has cause me to be thinking she has ...
A. 18 January 2010: well i did leave her and we do have a child together, i took some advise to give her another chance, and now im thinking it may not of been the best advice to have taken... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has HSV should I tell the people she has cheated on me with?
Q. i thank those who answered my question back in november, and now i have another; as my partner of 8 yrs had cheated with a co worker and had a online relationship with one of her customers from work something else has cause me to be thinking she has ...
A. 18 January 2010: well i did leave her and we do have a child together, i took some advise to give her another chance, and now im thinking it may not of been the best advice to have taken... (read in full...)
Can a life-long cheater ever be trustworthy or am I wasting my time?
Q. part one; in aug 08 my then finance added some guy to her facebook and when asked about it she said she thought she knew him, she then deleted him and i thought that was the end of it, or so i thought. part two; in jan 09 she went to her work chri...
A. 22 December 2009: i thank you all for your comments and advise, i beleave i know what i have to do.
in all this there is a major problem to go along with all this, we have a family, she has a child i have a child and we have a child together it pains me deeply to s... (read in full...)
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