My only problem with him is his parents!
Q. Let me start by saying my partner and I are 27 and 28. We have pretty much the perfect relationship. We never argue, fight, lie or hide anything from eachother. We are so happy together. We have had problems in the past from outside influences but ...
A. 19 May 2013: I made the typo of husbands!! I meant husband!!!
Also here - I cant understand how easy it would be for a son to be blinded by it all and not back up their partner.
Its can not cant :)... (read in full...)
My only problem with him is his parents!
Q. Let me start by saying my partner and I are 27 and 28. We have pretty much the perfect relationship. We never argue, fight, lie or hide anything from eachother. We are so happy together. We have had problems in the past from outside influences but ...
A. 19 May 2013: Thank you for your advice. You confirm that I am not completley unreasonable.
The problem is my partner has sent a couple of long email basically telling them that they are trying to control his life and that he feels he cant come to them with for... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to call me a different name during sex!
Q. Ok so now my Long term boyfriend has asked if he could call me by another girls name during sex. Im very uncomfrotable and seriously am thinking of breaking us up. Is this normal??? And then when I told him no he went soft during sex. Lost his hard ...
A. 19 May 2013: It wouldnt be for me to be honest. But different strokes for different folks.
I think you need to find out why before you finish with him.
At the same time I do understand why you are upset by it. Try find out what its all about and chat t... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my mistress, but can't divorce my wife.
Q. Hi all. I just registered to this forum after googling to see if I'm alone. I am in the same situation as many of you and I'm completely devastated. I have been married for six years and have two wonderful kids with my wife. over the past six yea...
A. 5 December 2012: Although I do agree with everyone below that you messed up. Having Affairs is wrong bla bla. Your selfish bla bla. But that bit I am sure you know. The reason you have come on DC is for advice not a pounding. So my advice is..... You have fucke... (read in full...)
He told me I may not be the one he wants but I'm the one he needs!
Q. The title says it all. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about six months and we've been recently having fights about the direction of our relationship. He always tells me how beautiful I am and how much he loves me and is in love with ...
A. 18 November 2012: I totally get what he's saying. I have dated alot of hot, rich intelligent guys and all of them I felt equal to me in the sense of dating. But for various reasons the didnt work. Either I messed up or they did. And the relationships tended to be a ... (read in full...)
I am wrong for her but how do I tell her I'm the problem?
Q. I have been dating a girl for about 8 months now and at first it was great but I have grown bored. I know I am the problem because this has happened to me in the past I just thought I had grown out of that stage but it turns out I have not. I have ...
A. 14 October 2012: Mr Wrong, I know your story so well. I was married at 18 and had quite a traumatic relationship. Since the break up of this relationship the people I have had relationships with or been involved with since then have more or less been projects or... (read in full...)
Why am I having much difficulty landing a real relationship?
Q. While dating and having much difficulty landing a real relationship, I've noticed that many women avoid getting into a serious relationship with a guy who has not been in a long term relationship in the past. Why is that? I don't want to lie beca...
A. 8 September 2012: In my opinion, its not so much "experience". When I was single and a guy told me he hadnt been in a long term relationship. It raised the question why?... It maybe gives off the impression you cant hold a long term relationship.... (read in full...)
Confessing to cheating..ONLY experiences from cheaters or cheated-ons.
Q. Hello, As the title says, I would like to know FACTS from people who’ve been through this. I’m not working on a survey or something, but yes, I've cheated on my gf (a fling without intercourse and no feelings) and I'm living hell right now (guilt...
A. 26 March 2011: I was cheated on, within my first year of marriage I am glad he confessed because I had trust issues before this happened and I at least felt he was honest and I could trust him (bizare i know that i learned to trust after being cheated on) I al... (read in full...)
How do you fight feelings for someone you can't be with?
Q. How do you fight feelings for someone you can't be with? Is it possible to be "just friends" with someone you are attracted to? (We are both in relationships, by the way)....
A. 26 March 2011: Im in the same position right now. Only it was more than attraction. Strong feelings developed and although nothing physical happened it was very intense. What I can tell you is that these feelings will fade eventually. It just depends how you ... (read in full...)
What is with his kisses?
Q. hi my boyfriend and i have been together for 2years and everytime we kiss he always just pek kisses me why is that?...
A. 1 December 2010: Its not a big deal, I think yeh the a full blown snog is nice. But if hes giving you lots of little peks that nice to.
I was the same with my ex... and when we were having sex wed have proper tongue action but you dont need to have your tongue j... (read in full...)
Can someone who's cheated, have a healthy relationship with the person they cheated on?
Q. Can someone who has cheated on their partner have a healthy relationship with the person they cheated on? Specifically if they never confess that they cheated to their partner? Can they marry that person and have a good, solid marriage, by withhold...
A. 30 November 2010: My husband cheated on me in the begining of our marriage and although I stayed with him for a further 5 years, it indirectly was what caused the marriage to end. There was a respect lost when he did that to me. But for some reason i did respect that ... (read in full...)
Why do women want to stay friends with their ex?
Q. This one is for the females. Please enlighten me or tell me if this is true. What is with the obsession in remaining friends with the ex boyfriends? Do all women do this? For those that say yes, why?! I have never remained "friends" with a...
A. 22 October 2010: I am one of these woman, I keep in touch with all my exs. And I am there for them 100% when they have any problems. Am i good friends with them? no. But I am there for them.
I think the connection I once had with them stops me from cutting ... (read in full...)
What were you like as a teenager?
Q. I have recently have been thinking about my teenage years since now I am a young adult and I have been thinking about what I expected when I turned 16. I live in a small town but the teens here were weird. They were the party girls who slept with ...
A. 26 September 2010: I was one of these party girls,,, from the age of 13.
If you didnt do it, well done to you because after a few years you dont feel to good about it!
You have nothing to worry about, its great that you haven't. Just carry on as you are.... (read in full...)
If someone ignores you does that mean that they like you?
Q. Apparently a method of telling someone you like them without saying anything is by ignoring/not talking to them. To what extent is this true and is this a popular method to use when you like someone? And is there any way at all if you can ...
A. 16 September 2010: Ok, I wouldnt use the term ignoring. But if someone feels awkward round, I mean unusually awkward round you and finds it difficult to speak to you then yes they could like you.
How to know,,,??? Well you could try talk to the person. If they see... (read in full...)
Does she have the same feelings?
Q. does she feel the same way i feel ? this girl and me are staring at each other quite for a while,at first i was,not interested in her even after being attracted to her,i ignored her as she is much younger than me,but after few days she didn't ...
A. 24 August 2010: Next time she walks past stop her and say hi get talking and invite her for coffee. Easy!... (read in full...)
Does she have the same feelings?
Q. does she feel the same way i feel ? this girl and me are staring at each other quite for a while,at first i was,not interested in her even after being attracted to her,i ignored her as she is much younger than me,but after few days she didn't ...
A. 24 August 2010: IM THE GIRL!!!!
Im in a similar situation but in reverse. And yes she likes you. But shes scared. The eye contact and the hanging around says it all. Basically the problem is,,, there is an attraction here and you both know it,,, and you both kno... (read in full...)
Is my boss just flirting, or is he interested?
Q. I have been at my job for about 8 months now. The first 6 months it was just work between my boss and I. But the past 2 months something has changed. He calls me Blondie and no other co-worker has a nickname of any kind. He has been touchy feely. ...
A. 14 August 2010: Ok Im in a not so dissimilar situation only its my trainer not my boss. And yes hes definatley flirting with you.
Firstly you need to think about...
1, do you have the same feelings
2, is he married
3, how this will affect your work
4, if you... (read in full...)
My boyfriend didn't want me there because of his ex.
Q. my boyfriend asked me to go to his convocation but then later changed his mind. i had no idea why then we had a talk and we ended up decide that i should go to share the moment with him. i realised that his ex gf is going to be there and it'd put ...
A. 6 August 2010: DUMP HIM!!!! ... (read in full...)
I am ugly and need a boyfriend
Q. [Moderator's Note: OP's own title] hi im 15 and live in nz i have never been popular a1l . at school people avoid me and call me names and i really want a bf but no one wants me because im ugly and quiet, at home its not much better my dad is dead ...
A. 6 August 2010: This is not true.... You can be ugly,esthetically. And you should not listen to those ,who say, no you are beautiful. It would be humiliating and confusing for an unattractive person to think that she is not. But you can still be smart, if you are ... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out or is it just too weird with her facebook page?
Q. First let me start by saying that this is my sisters page I am not a female I am a male age 30. I am interested in this young lady age 23 and I just saw something on her twitter page that bothered me. She posted "what.the.f**k. some chick just ...
A. 6 August 2010: I think its best to forget about this girl. I wouldnt want you asking me out with that attitude.
Damn I speak to lots of guys including exs. And Im not meeting any for sex.
You sound wayyyy paranoid. and quite frankly a little scary!... (read in full...)
Shall I give my cheating husband another chance?????
Q. MOD NOTE...The title you chose has been used in a previous question, so i've tweaked it a bit. While I was back home on vacation by myself, my husband went out, got drunk and went to a hotel with a prostitute. He kept this from me for 5 whole we...
A. 6 August 2010: Got to admit, if mine had come back with a disease he wouldnt have gotten through the door. I dont think I could let that one go.
I wouldnt want him near me!... (read in full...)
I feel sad that I don't have a dad
Q. heyy i have a problem i cant express my feeling as clear as i want to. my stepfather left my mom for a lady anoter race than i am im only 14 and i use to ball up my feeling inside till they jus com out at skool and i would get in trouble. i dnt noe ...
A. 6 August 2010: My dad left my mum for another woman when I was 5 and when I was 8 she met another man who has been the nearest thing to a dad but he works away most of the time. I dont call him dad and hes not really like a dad were not that close. But my mum is ... (read in full...)
Shall I give my cheating husband another chance?????
Q. MOD NOTE...The title you chose has been used in a previous question, so i've tweaked it a bit. While I was back home on vacation by myself, my husband went out, got drunk and went to a hotel with a prostitute. He kept this from me for 5 whole we...
A. 6 August 2010: After a year and half with my husband, who I loved with all my heart and i genuinly believe he loved me. He cheated on me, it meant nothing to him and I know this for sure. Like with you he broke down and told me the truth. At first I was angry and ... (read in full...)
I am ugly and need a boyfriend
Q. [Moderator's Note: OP's own title] hi im 15 and live in nz i have never been popular a1l . at school people avoid me and call me names and i really want a bf but no one wants me because im ugly and quiet, at home its not much better my dad is dead ...
A. 5 August 2010: It just feels like 5 minutes ago when I was at school and when I was there it felt like it was the most important part of my life.
Like you when I was at school I never though I was pretty I dont think anyone else did either. I wasnt quiet bu... (read in full...)
I feel my boyfriend and I are just worlds apart. Can this work?
Q. Dear Cupid Hi im 15 years old I have met the perfect guy who's seventeen, who is literally prince charming but he's megga rich and im not, so its really awkward because he expects me to just drop everything and just come and see him. Also i feel...
A. 1 August 2010: Well Im currently madly inlove with a poor guy and I mean poorer than you can imagine..... thats the least important of my issues with him.
From being the person with more money, I would strongly suggest not being embarassed about not having t... (read in full...)
Need help and advice regarding my life...
Q. i really need advice here. whats wrong with me. at work i work extremely hard, have never been ill yet am constantly berated and despised by colleagues. its got so bad ive had to change teams twice now because it was getting to me so badly. i am a ...
A. 1 August 2010: Have you ever heard of inferiority complex. Well pretty much everyone who is an asshole to someone has one of these. Ive actually come across these problems myself when I was back in the UK. Ive always been that little kinder, smarter and harde... (read in full...)
Girlfriend flirts online -can I still trust her?
Q. Me and my girlfriend broke up for 10 days then got back together. A few months later, I found messages from a sexual conversation she was having with a guy online. When I confronted her, she said she was just talking trash and that it happened while ...
A. 31 July 2010: I agree with the below... Once trust is broken its broken....!!!! I mean you can forgive etc. But you never ever forget. The thing is if you believe you can truly forgive and let it go maybe you can try but if you can its a downward spiral.
Thats... (read in full...)
Ugly curse... or beautiful blessing?
Q. How do I even begin? Well, I just feel the need to express my thoughts and get things off my chest because I am in a complicated situation that is leading me to lack of sleep because my brain won't stop thinking and debating. I am sixteen years ol...
A. 31 July 2010: When I was just a little older than you, I met a guy who made me feel just as special as this guy makes you feel. and it is a beautiful blessing. Like you, I was more mature than most girls my own age. I couldnt imagine having a relationship with a ... (read in full...)
Secret fantasy...
Q. Hi, I have been married for about 18 years, and recently have this fantasy of my wife being with other men, I get horny if i think of it. However, I am afraid to ask my wife about it. We love each other and have good sex. Am I crazy???...
A. 31 July 2010: Ok I had the same experience with my ex husband and we had a threesome. He was keen on the 3sum but not so keen to sleep with someone alone, but he went ahead with it and came back saying he didnt like it. I was sooooo keen to make this go ahead but ... (read in full...)
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