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Why does my boyfriend laugh when we snog? It is really annoying me.

Q.   Im 14 and Have a Boyfriend. Its Going Great but When we start to snog , He just bursts out Laughing. I really Dont know why because Im serious about it. It Starts off Great but As soon as the Tongues are in , He just laughs. Its really Starting to ...

A.   11 February 2008: dont listen to prinstion girl, dont dump a person because they are having a good time. He probs just hasnt experienced it very much and so finds it new and intriging. I bet if you keep doing it regularly he wont laugh at all... (read in full...)

How can I stop turning red and act normal around this guy I like??

Q.   Another Guy Problem. I like this guy alot, he is always making fun of me and making me laugh. My friend has spoken to him and he says he likes me and he knows I like him as my friend decided to tell him. He said i act strange around him I guess i ...

A.   26 January 2008: Sorry you cant, its a reflex that takes place when your embarrassed. Your face fills with blood, its something to do with instincts and reactions, but its inevitable. Sorry, just relax and feel confident around him and it will most likely go away. ... (read in full...)

He wants to break-up and for us to experience other people but I have given all my heart to him.

Q.   My boyfriend and I met each other about 5 months ago. In the time we have been with each other we have fallen deeply in love and have spent every free moment possible with one another. I truly and honestly believe that he is the one -- I had never ...

A.   26 January 2008: move on hun, it will be so hard, i know, but its for the better. My last relationship a couple of months ago, i was in for 2 years, losing her almost killed me, but i got on with life, enjoyed my mates, and found that i am a better AND HAPPIER (told ... (read in full...)

Is cyber sex cheating??

Q.   Is cyber sex cheating? I have a bf but i ended up having cyber sex just once with one of my friends i met online. Should i tell my bf? My bf and i have been together for 2 months now, we havent told eachother we loved eachother, so it hasent g...

A.   26 January 2008: it depends what you think like really. If you want to know if its cheating, make urself mutual in your mind(i.e dont be biased because you have done it/want it) and ask yourself, would it hurt me if you found out your boyfriend had been having cybe... (read in full...)

Why won't my boyfriend treat me like a princess anymore??

Q.   My boyfriend and I usually talk in "baby voice" to each other, he talks that way when he is being really sweet and wants to show me affection. I admit I haven't been very nice in the past and when he would act like that I would get mad at him abou...

A.   26 January 2008: maybe you should give him the respect he deserves first, then you will eventually get it in return. If i was your boyfriend, i would feel so unappreciated. Doing something i thought made you happy, then being shouted out for it. It sounds exactly ... (read in full...)

We started dating and now he is acting weird...what can I do to keep him??

Q.   I met this guy in college. One day he asked me for a walk and he showed me around the campus and then we kissed. After that we started dating but he started to act realy weird. He doesn't call me and he doesnt want anyone to know about us and he s...

A.   26 January 2008: move on and forget him(at least pretend to). The end result will most likely be that he has realised what he has lost, be confused, and have a strong lust for you. Men want what they cant have, its how it works for women aswell. Show him what he has ... (read in full...)

She said she'd be jealous if I found a partner. I am not her type, however. What can I do?

Q.   hi. my friend is 55, i'm 42. she lives in glasgow and me in stoke on trent. we met as friends, developed lots of strengths etc.from the first meeting we both didnt fancy each other but got on very well.this was in october 2007. we spoke and both ...

A.   26 January 2008: move on with your life, it will kill her inside! and probably make her want you. It will be a complete role reversal. Then you will have the decision, do you really want her anyway? or are you better off without her? enjoy it all no matter what, you ... (read in full...)

Can you break a penis?

Q.   I know this sounds totally ridiculous, but can you break a penis? Is this possible? Just seen as you can break an arm or a leg, why shouldn't you be able to break a penis?...

A.   26 January 2008: The answer is no, the penis has no bone, therefor it can not be broken. It is just muscle, that is flooded with blood that makes it hard. A penis can not be broken like an arm or leg... (read in full...)

She's broken my heart. What can I do?

Q.   I have a problem. I really, really, -REALLY- like this girl. I've known her for over a year, and we both admit we'd be great for each other. I've never felt any kind of close connection to anyone like I do with her. The only person who comes...

A.   6 January 2008: i know how it feel buddy! exactly the same thing happened to me, exactly the same. It happened a couple of months ago, and now im basically completely over her. I would say just go with the flow and dont set yourself completely on this girl, as if ... (read in full...)

I'm 18 and planning to have a baby. Do you think it is a wise decision at this age?

Q.   hi the as you may know previously i had a boyfriend but now we have broken up and i am with a new man, would you think it was mad if we decided to have a baby i am 18 and he is soon to be 21 please can you help us thanks lovesickpup...

A.   6 January 2008: how long have you been together? do you love him? will you be able to support this baby? will your future been able to cope with a baby? you need to ask yourself many questions before you do something that big!... (read in full...)

30 and pregnant, my bf does not agree to keep the baby, but my mother says it is my last chance to have a child, so what should I do?

Q.   im 30. im pregnant but my bf says he doesn't want a baby. i told my mum and she said that it's my last chance to have 1. Is my mum right and what should I do?...

A.   6 January 2008: No your mother is not right, you cant force a man to have a child, i dont believe that is moral. You will have another chance, the oldest birth is 62 years old! If you keep it, not only will the baby be fatherless, but you will be a single mother ... (read in full...)

Why is it that I never want the ones who like me, and the ones I do like always just want to be friends??

Q.   I have this friend that likes me only i don't like her. at the same time i have a friend that i really like. this isn't the first time this happens. why is it that the friends i'm not interested in like me but the ones i like just wanna be friends? ...

A.   2 January 2008: You want what you cant have matey! its how life works... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my older sister

Q.   hi, i am 15 and in love with my 20 year old sister. when i was about 10 she used to put lip stick on and kiss me on my cheek ect. how do i find out if she loves me without me asking her...

A.   2 January 2008: Do not say anything to her! you probably love her as a family member! If you say anything to her, she will laugh in your face and think your a freak. That is for definite. Also if she did love you, you cant do anything anyway, its illegal, and ... (read in full...)

We argue non-stop. Is my marriage over?

Q.   Hi! Hoping someone might be able to give me some advice... I've been married for just over 4 years and we were together for 2 years before this. We've always had quite an erratic relationship - we're both very stubborn, and arguments have alway...

A.   2 January 2008: talk to him, tell him everything, how your feeling, dont ask us, we dont know your husband. All men are stubborn and all women are stubborn, he is probably stressed and so are you. Bite your lip and take his nonsense if u love him.... (read in full...)

She was my first, I was not hers... should I "get even" by experimenting with somebody else, as the thoughts about my wife's past haunt me regularly?

Q.   Married for 7 years with 2 chilren, have had normal ups and downs but very good marriage. My wife had been with 6 other men before me, and I was a virgin. We got married right out of high school so I know these encounters she had were just "dumb ...

A.   2 January 2008: get over it mate, if you want to ruin your families life, go ahead and be selfish and cheat on your wife. OR you can be a grown up, get over yourself and love your wife. I promise you, if u cheat on her, you will lose her and will regret it f... (read in full...)

14, I performed oral sex on him without a condom. He didn't ejaculate, could I have gotten any disease?

Q.   I am going out with this guy who is 2 years older than me. The other day we told each other that we loved each other and that we never want to lose each other. because he made me happy, i gave him a blowjob, 3 times. He said that i was really g...

A.   23 December 2007: Blow job: yes you could have gotten a disease but i wouldnt worry about it, i doubt you have one Sex: Just say no if you dont want to do something, if your ready for sex then do it, the fact you have said: "He tells me that he wants to have... (read in full...)

Once hurt very badly by a man I loved, now I run a mile everytime I'm in a relationship getting serious because I'm terrified I'll hurt again. This way I'm hurting others as well. Advice?

Q.   It's 3 A.M. and I have just got back out bed. There's something I can't get off my mind so I felt the need to ask my friends on 'dearcupid' for advice. It all started two years ago when I met a guy called Jay* we were seeing each other for ar...

A.   23 December 2007: im only 17 and i have been in love twice already. I had my first love when i was about 13, but i lost her due to moving to different places, etc. That crushed me but i thought i only live once, i cant spend my time pointlessly thinking about the ... (read in full...)

Should I be happy for them, or jealous?

Q.   My boyfriend of almost 2 years recently broke up...it's has been about a month...and we are both in new relationships..but the only problem is that i think i'm still in love with him...i like my new boyfriend but i'm really not into him...but my ex ...

A.   22 December 2007: dont be jealous, whatever you can try and do, is dont be jealous. It is hard, but a wise friend once told me, if you want your relationship to work, you have to do whats hardest on yourself. For me this means ignoring my ex gf and leaving her, even ... (read in full...)

My gf is ex-anorexic and has mental issues, becoming moody. If I don't behave in a certain way she gets mad and breaks up, which is emotional straining for me. How do I cope?

Q.   hello I a a lesbian any my girlfriend is really feminine and I am too, but not as much as her. we've been together 9 months. She wants me to treat her like I was man as far as doing things for her. She is also ex anorexic and does have mental issu...

A.   22 December 2007: there is nothing you can do but grit your teeth or dump her and move on. My ex was a nutter, but i loved her, and after a while when we first went out, those annoying things about her went away. its solely up to you, if you have the willpower to put ... (read in full...)

I cheated and everytime we are apart I think about how horrible I have been to him.

Q.   I cheated on my boyfriend when we first started going out 9 months ago. I told him though and he's forgiven me. Everythings perfect and i couldnt ask for anything more. But i often get upset and wonder why he's still going out with me. He assures me ...

A.   22 December 2007: you should be grateful, your one of the lucky ones. Stereotypically boys forgive girls easier. We cant hold grudges on you girlies, your all too cute and adorable. He will be over it, as long as you dont cheat on him again, he will trust you. If you ... (read in full...)

My ex-boyfriend looks me up and down in that guy way, what is going on??

Q.   Hope someone can help me through this. I am willing to hear the truth even if it is not what I want to hear. My boyfriend and I broke up at the end of August. He ended it and I was pretty upset but have kept busy with family and friends and am ...

A.   16 December 2007: depends what the looking up and down is like. If its digusted looking, then he is disgusted. But i dont think its that, otherwise he wouldnt be staring at you constantly. I cant say because im not there. But if i stared a girl up and down in that ... (read in full...)

What should I be doing after I have given him an orgasm?

Q.   ok... so your young and you are performing things (such as handjobs or oral) with a partner for fun not as foreplay. so you finish giving a handjob, he has come, what next? do you kiss or just stop or should you carry on even if he has ejaculate...

A.   16 December 2007: yeah ask him if he wants you to continue, dont just continue cuz that could cause some uncomfortableness, just ask, we dont mind questions, and you get the information you need to get the best result. Everyone wins.... (read in full...)

New gf makes me feel 'weird'-I just want to hug and kiss her! What's wrong with me?

Q.   Ive recently got a new girlfriend as after seeing her, i asked to become a couple. She said yes which was good but im very confused. She really likes me and i like her but when im not with her i feel weird and i dont know why, but when im with her i ...

A.   5 December 2007: yeah, you love her or you just have alot of lust for her. Would you do anything to make her happy? if the answer is yes, then you love her... (read in full...)

Can a guy tell when a girl orgasms?

Q.   My question is quite simple really: can a guy tell when a girl orgasms? Clearly male ejeculation makes it obvious but I was wondering about when females cum? Please reply x...

A.   3 December 2007: yes u can feel it... (read in full...)

Best gift to give your ex gf on their birthday? I want to win her back.

Q.   what is the best gift to buy my ex girlfriend, her bday is in a month and we broke up last week. Im not speaking to her but i want her back. And i would like to give her a gift that would make her smile and happy...

A.   3 December 2007: i already sent her dozen pink roses, and wrote her a 7 page letter with a poem aswell. i sent her a picture of us with it aswell, which she said was her favourite picture. She still isnt talking to me and i cant talk to her because she blocked all ... (read in full...)

Do emotionally abusive people change that much in two months??

Q.   I broke up with my fiance 2 months ago. We hadn't talked for about 3 weeks and he texted me saying he wishes me well, saying I didn't have to respond. I texted back the same. Well yesterday he called me from an unknown number and I answered...

A.   2 December 2007: why is he seeing girls age 13? are they his children? because thats a much large problem ... (read in full...)

She thinks a sexy joke I had with my friend means I cheated but she dumped me and I miss her so much.

Q.   Hi, I recently broke up with my girlfriend of since may 6th 2006. I love her so much, and she loved me so much. She broke up with me because i had this joke with one of my friends who is a girl, which was rather sexy. She took it as i cheated on ...

A.   30 November 2007: You think ignoring her for like a month will bring her back to me?... (read in full...)

She thinks a sexy joke I had with my friend means I cheated but she dumped me and I miss her so much.

Q.   Hi, I recently broke up with my girlfriend of since may 6th 2006. I love her so much, and she loved me so much. She broke up with me because i had this joke with one of my friends who is a girl, which was rather sexy. She took it as i cheated on ...

A.   30 November 2007: i dont want to move on, no girl is a match to her (in my eyes), i need to know how to get her back? a plan or something... (read in full...)

She thinks a sexy joke I had with my friend means I cheated but she dumped me and I miss her so much.

Q.   Hi, I recently broke up with my girlfriend of since may 6th 2006. I love her so much, and she loved me so much. She broke up with me because i had this joke with one of my friends who is a girl, which was rather sexy. She took it as i cheated on ...

A.   29 November 2007: the joke was a joke between her and 2 of my mates and i. First one was about boobs in skl and how we expected to see them, which we obviously didnt cuz my skl is posh and boring and tight and yeah well you know. And the second was about how i named ... (read in full...)

She thinks a sexy joke I had with my friend means I cheated but she dumped me and I miss her so much.

Q.   Hi, I recently broke up with my girlfriend of since may 6th 2006. I love her so much, and she loved me so much. She broke up with me because i had this joke with one of my friends who is a girl, which was rather sexy. She took it as i cheated on ...

A.   29 November 2007: lets just say it was a dirty flirtacious joke, done by facebook. Enough to make her think it was cheating.... (read in full...)

Will I ever be pregnant?

Q.   my boyfriend and i have been trying to have a baby for the past year. its not him its me. he has two other children. is there a chance i will ever be pregnant? i hope so......

A.   29 November 2007: have you been on the pill for some amount of time? if you have, it takes a while for your dormant ovaries to become active again, dont worry you have alot of time to get pregnant. If not, go have a fertility test. There are many drugs you can take. ... (read in full...)

A guy told me he loved me online and I said I loved him, too. But I dont! We barely even know each other!

Q.   i need help. there is this guy at school that likes me. he came on msn and hes like i love you.... stuff like that.then hes like you dont like me, dont talk to me. bye i did a stupid thing and told him i loved him then hes like you wanna go out a...

A.   29 November 2007: just dump him... (read in full...)

My wife has given me permission to have a sex buddy....is it a bad idea??

Q.   My 46 year old wife is going through the menopause and has lost her sex drive to the point she has no desire for me or any other man on earth. I asked her to use her hand or to give me oral sex and she refused. She told me to find a woman that is ...

A.   29 November 2007: i may be young, but i just lost the girl i love. And i know that if you do anything sexual that isnt with the one you love, you will regret it. There are other ways to get relieved, but the choice is up to you. Just think before you act, because you ... (read in full...)

She thinks a sexy joke I had with my friend means I cheated but she dumped me and I miss her so much.

Q.   Hi, I recently broke up with my girlfriend of since may 6th 2006. I love her so much, and she loved me so much. She broke up with me because i had this joke with one of my friends who is a girl, which was rather sexy. She took it as i cheated on ...

A.   29 November 2007: hi, she told her that it was a joke, but my ex gf is stubborn and ignorant (i love her tho, i find everything cute about her). She doesnt believe what she doesnt want to hear. I have been going out with her on and off since me and her were 12 years ... (read in full...)

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