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Can a guy tell when a girl orgasms?

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Question - (3 December 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 3 December 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My question is quite simple really: can a guy tell when a girl orgasms? Clearly male ejeculation makes it obvious but I was wondering about when females cum? Please reply x

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A female reader, missmel34 Australia +, writes (3 December 2007):

missmel34 agony auntWhen a woman has a cliteral orgasm her cliteris and vagina swells, lubricates and sometimes pulsates.

Vaginal orgasms are more difficult to predict as every woman is different and generally the swellng occurs deep within the vagina. A Woman can produce a mucus like discharge when she extremely turned on. Although this discharge is not always a determination of being aroused as during particular times in her cycle she tends to be dryer.

Some women produce a clear liquid that sprays out of her during climax. Female ejaculation is rare however.

The fact is, every woman is different.

Women can also experience vaginal orgasms through not only anal penetration but through nipple stimulation. This depends on the womans individual erogenous zones.

Alot of men think they know that their woman has climaxed because she tightens, pulsates, becomes wet, her breath quickens and she may even moan. Let me say all of these things can be replicated. A woman can tighten and pulsate her vagina voluntarily and her vagina will lubricate during the course of sex purely because shes turned on or even through the fact she is being stimulated. Alot of women reproduce these sensations to make her partner cum and finish the sex.

The fact is men really don't know for sure, every womans body is different, every sensation is different, and women in time can develop very convincing ways of faking it.

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A male reader, Dangly United Kingdom +, writes (3 December 2007):

yes u can feel it

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2007):

I imagine a sensation similar to having his head clamped in a vice would be indication enough. It's all a matter of experience. If he's experienced, he should know.

Why do you want to know anyway? Do you fake it or something?

Phil

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2007):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

But what about if a guy is giving a girl oral sex?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2007):

I can most definitely tell when my girl has an orgasm. Her vaginal muscles contract in a pulsating fashion, and I'm quite sure if it was a snickers bar in there it would pop out in slices one piece at a time.

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A female reader, citris United States +, writes (3 December 2007):

citris agony auntSeeing that every person is different, some women are easier to detect than others when they have had an orgasm. Some guys are unable to tell, others can. It all depends on the guy, the gal and the circumstances. Generally if invovled in intercourse when the female orgasm occurs the walls of her vagina will contract around the mans penis and it's quite strong and even if a man hasn't experienced it before it wouldn't be too hard to guess as to what had just happened.

It might help you if you did a bit of research on the female orgasm and what occurs within the body during climax. As you said, with men it's obvious, with women it can be as well if you know what it's all about.

Enjoy your research! ;)

Citris

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