If the scar on my thigh going to turn guys off when I start having sex?
Q. When I was little I was bitten by a donkey, and I have this massive scar on my thigh. I worry that when I finally have sex, men will be repulsed by the scar. Should I try and hide it with make-up or something??? ...
A. 11 July 2012: Not at all ... It is unique part of you and part of your past that you should share with any future partners.
It sounds like an interesting story ... How did you get bitten by a donkey?? Hmm ... Anyway don't make an issue out of them and most guys... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of 3 years and I have nothing to talk about anymore!
Q. My problem is that me and my boyfriend of 3 years we have nothing to talk about any more. I know everything about him cause he is an open book he'll tell me everything even if i never asked him to tell me. He knows me pretty well except for a few ...
A. 25 April 2012: Spice up your relationship!
get out and get excited.
Maybe a holiday is on the cards? ... or a romantic day out? If you find yourself becoming complacent you need to get things spiced up!! :)... (read in full...)
I feel like I literally have to choose between my boyfriend and my parents even though I'm an adult
Q. My parents are very strict when it comes to relationships. They have a set list requirements a boyfriend/girlfriend must have have in order for me or my brother to date them. Then they try to control how we interact. It is a nightmare. Because o...
A. 25 April 2012: What are your parents religious views? if I may ask? It seems to me like that this is a little unfair particularly as you are over 18. If you can support yourself now is the time to ... but do you have a job, money etc.
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I now regret taking him back after his fourth cheating episode!
Q. my partner of two years has technically cheated on me and i have taken him back for the fourth time and now i am regretting it what should i do?...
A. 1 April 2012: This guy has real trust issues and once a cheat ... always a cheat! time you got rid of this guy and got your life back on track .... there are plenty of guys out there that will be faithful to you - you just need to choose them better! don't become ... (read in full...)
Was she always that person and I just didn't see it?
Q. Last night me and the boys were out and we saw a girl who looked familiar to someone we went to school with. Well, it was confirmed when she smiled and said hi to us. She looked a lot different to how I remember her! I don't want to sound rude bu...
A. 1 April 2012: Sounds like this girl stands out from the crowd! make an effort to spend more time with her - you never know what may happen?... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a guy wants YOU to tie HIM up?
Q. My boyfriend is into restraints, or whatever it's called, where your hands are tied to the bedpost, and sometimes feet are tied to the.... bottom of the bed? wtf is it called? But anyways, he said once that he wants me to tie him up... What do...
A. 30 March 2012: If you are comfortable with this ... take the dominating role, tie him up and tease him ... you never know he may do the same to you one day :)... (read in full...)
I want to put more effort into repairing our friendship
Q. My bestfriend is a girl Cassidy, and my other friend Martha said you've been helpful on her friend problems so I'd be grateful if you can help me. Cass is 16 and I'm 17. We've been having problems because I don't put a lot of effort in and i ...
A. 30 March 2012: chill :)
You need to address some personal issues that you seem to have:
- do you feel the need to act differently in front of people than you do with her privately? ... if so ask yourself why you feel the need to try and fit in??
A friendship l... (read in full...)
I don't like being a laughing stock!
Q. Dear cupid I am a petite person. yesterday my bf (of 2 years) told me one of our common friends was teasing abt me that how my how short i look when i drive, how tiny my arms feet look and how i look like an egg plant.... I asked him how he ...
A. 30 March 2012: In these situations when he is with friends it is too easy to just laugh along with them without thinking about any else's feelings. He is not likely to think this himself he was just trying to fit in. In terms of being over sensitive you have every ... (read in full...)
How should I propose?
Q. So I'm sure i found the love of my life. We've been friends since May of last year, and been dating since December. I know it's only been a short time but I know he's the one. I'm not one who ever wanted to get married but for some reason I want to ...
A. 30 March 2012: My advice would be to slow down ... when you enter a new relationship emotions can really flow around. You have only known this guy for a short amount time and would say not long enough to propose! I am a little old fashioned when it comes to ... (read in full...)
My ex enjoys spending time with me but no longer loves me. Do I give up on getting him back?
Q. Hi everyone, So I was with this guy for 2 years, until we broke up at the end of last year. We promised before we got together that we would still be best friends, and we are, we have such a laugh. He is perfectly aware that I still like him and ...
A. 29 March 2012: Never give up! but you have to give your guy space to work out his own ideas. I would say friends at the moment is going to be best .. and just see where it goes from there. Also you need to get some self confidence girl! when you go to college you ... (read in full...)
What are the biggest reasons for divorce?
Q. I was wondering what are the biggest reasons for divorce. Or I could call it cause for divorce. My husband is not intimate with me anymore, Is this very common after 20 something years of marriage? I know ,there are some marriage, what was ...
A. 29 March 2012: Biggest reason usually is finance related ... money stresses etc etc. In terms of your issue with your man not wanting to touch you or satisfy you ... he feels to secure with you and feels that you will always be there .. so there is no need to make ... (read in full...)
Looks don't matter, or, are men really this shallow?
Q. Well, I know that people always say that looks don't matter to guys, or that they're not the most important thing, but are they just being polite? 'Cause I read an article and it really made me lose a bit of hope in men... http://livingw...
A. 29 March 2012: this negative sort of media and press has this effect on lots of young women around the world. Guys always like showing off to one another about these things ... particularly when they are young. As a guy grows older there are more important things ... (read in full...)
What is the meaning behind my ex sending me a text "good luck with your life"?
Q. My ex just sent me a message saying "good luck with your life".We broke up two months ago, why is he contacting me?.When we broke up another time before that, he got intouch after a couple of months then too and he sent a message saying he hoped my ...
A. 29 March 2012: The ex is still thinking about you, you are still on his mind ... are you over him? if so its time to move on ... ignore the message and go forward with your life!... (read in full...)
Do I tell my best friend I'm pregnant by him?
Q. i ressonly lost my vaginaty to my best and oldest male freind (we have always been close and tell each other everything) i just found out that im pregnant do i tell him. we was waching dvds at mine drinking a bottle of wine with a takeaway we noram...
A. 29 March 2012: You have to tell the father that you are pregnant! you need to make a few serious decisions though ... are you going to keep the baby? whatever you decide you will really need his and his families support. Tell him before you tell anyone else, he ... (read in full...)
We broke up, I had sex with another guy, ex found out and then I had sex with him! Where do I stand with my ex now?
Q. dear cupid, soo, this is gonna be pretty long-winded, buuut hopefully, somebody will be able to help me. thanks in advance to anyone who is willing to give it a shot. ") for the past year, i've been on-again/off-again with this guy...
A. 29 March 2012: You have hurt him by sleeping with joseph, what I don't get is why joseph would tell him? what could be gained? It sounds to me like he has missed you and is passionate for you. There will still be hurt after what happened, but time is the greatest ... (read in full...)
Is wearing a sheer or see thru bathing suit OK?
Q. My boyfriend (of many years) asked me to remove the lining from a couple of my bikini's, so that when we go to the beach they will be see through. I did this to one of my darker suits, the results being not too dramatic. More noticible on top, but ...
A. 29 March 2012: Go for it! sounds like this gets you very excited as well as your man! don't be shy to show off! As long as it is not in an area with kids etc. then you will be fine! This could be just the excitement your relationship needs! :)... (read in full...)
Girlfriend lost her license for 5 years. How should I handle it?
Q. My girlfriend lost her license for five years. We have been dating for eight months. We both have children and we live about 45 miles apart. How would you handle this situation?...
A. 29 March 2012: It's time for you to step up to the plate ... do you drive? if so you need to give her a little extra support through this ... she will know that whatever she did to lose her licence was bad and is need of help! 45miles is a little distance but not ... (read in full...)
Could my husband really have went to a massage parlor and not have gotten hard?
Q. Here is my dilemma with some background: I've been married almost 21 years. Late last year I had sex with someone else one time. Felt bad and my husband could tell so when he asked I confessed instead of lying. He promptly kicked me out. We ...
A. 29 March 2012: Very possibly could be true ... if a guy has too much on his mind or is trying too hard, libido and intimacy can be lost. Sometimes a guy can be overwhelmed by all this and feel a little out of the comfort zone.... (read in full...)
I need insight as to my feelings about my ex!
Q. Hey, I'm 21 and will be turning 22 this year, so I know I'm young yet. However, I never dated until I met my high school sweetheart. WE did everything together and had all the same friends, all the same morals, and beliefs. Our only problem was ...
A. 29 March 2012: Being friends or at least civil is important, but you have to move in terms of your relationship as she is holding you back! ... (read in full...)
Do I tell my brother in law that his wife wasn't a virgin when they married?
Q. I just found out something and I'm not sure if I should keep to myself. My wife is the youngest of 3 daughters. Her next oldest sister just filed for divorce and is already dating and sleeping with men even though her divorce isn't final. My ...
A. 28 March 2012: Do NOT say a word, this is no-one's business but theirs. Nothing could be gained for anyone by letting this cat out of the bag. ... (read in full...)
How do I improve our friendship?
Q. Hello, it's Rach again. Right now, I have a problem. But then again, most of us do... On the 3rd week of January this year, I joined a tuition class. There's this guy in my class who I have feelings for. Everytime I see him, they just get deeper....
A. 28 March 2012: Do you want to improve your friendship? or are you looking for a relationship?
Try texting less and spend more time together in person, face to face communication is the best way to build a friendship. Find something which interests you both to do .... (read in full...)
After 8 months together boyfriend has never made me cum
Q. I feel really bad writing this but I need some advice :( me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months and he has never made me come once :/ i know that sounds horrible and selfish but he doesnt even try. He asks for sex and if i want it too...
A. 28 March 2012: Lots of young guys do not think about their partners, they just want the sex and then go! Try introducing a little foreplay to you relationship, dress up etc etc.
keep him from penetrating you for as long as possible, and try to encourage him to t... (read in full...)
Is he a friend..ore a boyfriend?
Q. Me and my friend D met our freshman year, and we have been friends ever since (were seniors now). We drift apart, but something always happens (like our friends death) and we become really close friends when we reconnect. I have had feelings on and ...
A. 28 March 2012: You don't want to be his re-bound girl! Friendships to relationships can be the best relationships ... as you should already know that person well and feel comfortable being with them. I would play the long game here and if he is really interested ... (read in full...)
Online g/f said she'd be back and that was 3 weeks ago. Do I let go now?
Q. So ive been in this long distance online relationship, everything seemed like all was going good. We would sit on skype talk to each other all day, sometimes fall asleep talking to each other and just leave skype on all night. Then after about three ...
A. 28 March 2012: How well did you know this girl ... skype relationships if they can be called that usually end this way. I would take it that she has gone. ... (read in full...)
B/f has time for everything but me!
Q. So, I'm going out with this guy for over a year now. I love him and all. But off late, things have become very difficult. He just cannot seem to make time for me. Ok, so we had exams for a while and he didn't have time. I get that. But we have hol...
A. 28 March 2012: You need to stir him up a little if he is taking too much for granted, maybe he feels a little too secure, maybe he thinks no matter what he does you will always be there for him ... make him realize that the relationship takes 2 to tango and he ... (read in full...)
I can't let it go that my b/f had sex with his ex
Q. Should I split up with my boyfriend? To give you a bit of background knowledge, I started seeing my boyfriend after a drunken works night out and it very quickly turned into a boyfriend/girlfriend situation. At the time I was living with my b...
A. 28 March 2012: Did he openly admit to doing this? ... or was he caught?
If he openly admitted to making this mistake, the chances are he is very sorry. When someone betrays your trust it can take a while for it to be rebuilt, but you have to work with him. Just... (read in full...)
I'm not really attracted to him, we hooked up and I don't want to lead him on!
Q. I became friends with this guy a little while ago. We get along so well- mutual interests, great conversations, same views on life, etc. I wasn't initially attracted to him because, not to sound like a complete bitch, he's less attractive than I am ...
A. 28 March 2012: Relationships are always going to be a challenge. It sounds to me like this guy would make a great boyfriend. Why not give it a go and see what happens? If you intend to be friends only you need to make this clear as you have slept with this guy so ... (read in full...)
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