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writes:Last night me and the boys were out and we saw a girl who looked familiar to someone we went to school with. Well, it was confirmed when she smiled and said hi to us. She looked a lot different to how I remember her! I don't want to sound rude but she looked attractive. Don't get me wrong before she was a pretty girl, but I never really noticed her probably cause she was quite quiet and in school to be honest, none of the guys took notice of her either. But I couldn't stop looking at her when she was talking, I just kept thinking she's really hot, amazing figure too. She talked to us for a bit, she is really funny, interesting and easy to get along with. I was thinking why on earth haven't I spoken to her properly before, we were even in the same class for years?!The guys and I were talking today about our night, when one brought up how different that girl looked. Saying how they'd definitely go for her and when did she get so hot. She is really has changed into a beautiful girl!I was just thinking how is it that I never really noticed her before? I've talked to her and never thought anything of her really. But this time, seeing her she looked amazing!! And she is so easy to get along with, how is it that none of us really noticed her until now? How did she get more attractive over the years... has she always been that person or what happened Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2012): If she was quiet in school, maybe she was a little shy. Shy people sometime dress down and prefer to stay in the background. Thats probably why you didnt really notice her in school. It might have been how she wanted things!
But now she is away from school, she has probably matured a little and gained in confidence and voila! You sound as if you have a crush on her.
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reader, trinabwar  +, writes (1 April 2012):
Sometimes people change. The girl you knew beccame what she was going to heather you noticed her or not. You should take time to know her better.
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reader, Cole Turner  +, writes (1 April 2012):
 Sounds like this girl stands out from the crowd! make an effort to spend more time with her - you never know what may happen?
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (1 April 2012):
 Presumably you are different than you were at, say, 14 years of age? As you mature and gain confidence and polish, you will appear different to people.
Our appearance alters considerably over time; I can scarcely recognize the young men I knew when we were all teenagers in their 50-year old incarnations.
For the most part, the young people I knew developed poise and confidence as they matured. I expect you had a certain memory of her and she had changed enough to make you look at her again without the filter of the valuations you'd applied years ago.
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reader, itcantjustbeme +, writes (1 April 2012):
 I think you're confused... I don't think she's the GIRL you knew... She has become the woman she was meant to be. That's the noticeable difference.
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