Embarrassing moment from my past--afraid this guy on facebook will spill it!
Q. Embarrassing moment - This is not a cry for help - just wanting to know how to get over an embarrassing moment and avoid being a laughing stock. The thing is - when I was a teenager (a few years ago now) teenagers were'nt as aware of things as they ...
A. 9 April 2010: i personally wouldnt be to concerned about it. hair is a natural part of the human body. if he is to be that shallow to remember and say something about it the he really doesnt have a life.... (read in full...)
Tips on controlling ejaculation?
Q. Hi, I'm 17 years old and I'm a senior in high school. My girlfriend and I have just recently started pleasuring each other. I'm a virgin and I've never gotten further than feeling a girl's breasts until now. She says I'm good at fingering her and ...
A. 9 April 2010: very good advice from everyone, i am going to try the edge method so it hopefully helps me. in the beginging i use to last for awhile (5-10 minutes) but no over 15yrs with my beautiful wife i cum within only a couple of minutes...
my problem ... (read in full...)
First time sex and he couldn't cum, is this common?
Q. i have only been going out with my boyfriend for a couple of weeks and yesterday we had sex for the first time together. it was ordinary sex apart from the fact that he didnt (or maybe couldn't?) come. afterwards he apologised for this and ...
A. 6 April 2010: don't worry he will. nerves are probably the main problem. well me, its been the opposite problem. if only i could find a way to last longer. any suggestions ladies?????... (read in full...)
Are there any faithful men out there?
Q. Hey everyone! I was wondering ....Is there such a thing as a faithful man? Even after so many years? No offence guys just got myself out of a bad and long relationship and I am worried/scared : / What are your experiences? Thank you ...
A. 6 April 2010: yes there are many faithful men out there, i am one. but the question that you posted could also be " are there any faithful women out there". i say this because that is what i think. i have been cheated on twice. it has rattled my head as to why ... (read in full...)
Can I get back with someone who cheated on me?
Q. (Mod note: Title set by the poster) Recently, I discovered that my girlfriend of 5 years had cheated on me. I left, of course, and moved out of state. Here's the problem, She is telling me that she is going to do everything to make things right wi...
A. 25 February 2010: yes i agree with caring guy on this one. cheaters can change But only if they want to change.
my wife had cheated on me and now 2 yrs down the track we are still together. but i will say that trust can take a very long time to regain. when i go away... (read in full...)
Why do men/women cheat on their husband/wife?
Q. Why do men/women cheat on their husband/wife? Is it just because they can't resist a beautiful person? Is it because they aren't fully committed? Well then, why did they get married in the first place? Is it because their spouse changes? I love my...
A. 18 February 2010: well you can't ever stop someone from cheating. i had given my wife the world and she cheated on me. when i say i had given her the world, i mean she always had love, her own time, help etc. i have been told by a couple of very close female friends ... (read in full...)
Boy, revenge is sweet...
Q. Hi, my wife recently cheated on me with a guy who lives in a small town about 10 miles away from me, anyway to cut a long story short I found everything out, confronted my wife and then I confronted the guy in question and gave him the mandotary ...
A. 4 February 2010: l am right with you on how you feel in every way. l was cheated on by my wife and it bloody hurts. even today (2 yrs later) and it still hurts. l was also tempted to hit him and also tell his wife, but what stopped me was children. My children hurt ... (read in full...)
Her sexual desire has gone, help me find it again...
Q. my wife has really gone off sex and seems somewhat distant. ever since we got back together after she cheated on me nearly 2 yrs ago our love life has been slowly sliding sideways. she does tell me that she loves me more than anything and she doesnt ...
A. 3 February 2010: i am always the affectionate one. i am for ever giving her cuddles, kisses and compliments about how sexy she looks. even when she is standing at the sink etc i will walk up behind her and massage her shoulders etc. as for helping around the home, ... (read in full...)
Want to watch another couple having sex
Q. lately l have thought alot about wanting my wife and myself to watch another couple makie love. it turns me on when l think about it. just to watch them makeing love and to see the passion involved. has anyone else had these thoughts or have...
A. 13 January 2010: porn doesn't really do it for me. porn is all acting and to me it's not sexual. my wife isn't real interested in it but at times she has shown some interest.... (read in full...)
It scares me that I am thinking of sleeping with someone other than my wife!
Q. hello all, i pretty much no the answers to the question i am going to ask, but i spose i want some reasurance that i am right. for the past 3 months or so my wife and i have only had sex twice. this is playing on my mind big time as to me she is a...
A. 10 January 2010: thank you all so much for the replies, to answer some of the questions, NO i have never cheated on my wife. as for getting my daughter a house and helping with the bills, i have told her she can do it all on her own. she left home when she was 16 as ... (read in full...)
Guys, what is your favourite position?
Q. What do guys like best sex wise? Any special posistion? ...
A. 13 November 2009: any position..lol
i love my wife on top slowly riding me. and also the same by laying on my chest riding and milking me. she cums more this way and i last longer than a cup of 2 minute noodles.... (read in full...)
Why is it wrong to tell someone that their partner is a cheater?
Q. I have a question I would like views on please. With regard to finding out that a person has been having affairs all their married life........... Why is it so wrong to tell someone that their partner is a lying, cheating so and so? Why is it OK...
A. 22 September 2009: well personally l dont think it is wrong to tell someone. i found out my wife was cheating on me and to this day i thank the person who told me. i look at it this way, if l wasn't told then she could still be cheating and have taken me for ... (read in full...)
Ladies: What is the 'decent size penis?
Q. One for the ladies, i know most of you will say size doesn't really matter it's the way you rock the boat, but what do ladies think is "the decent size penis" ...
A. 22 September 2009: sorry didn't want anyone to have to sigh. lol but its a bit like most ladies think their boobs are to small or large, sag or point outwards etc. i am purely asking as my wife said i was average. so to me that means she has had larger and smaller ... (read in full...)
I'm worried my vagina isn't as good as the other girls' he's known!
Q. I've got a boyfriend and we've been dating for a few months and we want to start on foreplay. I like the idea of it but I'm quite sensitive about my vagina. I know this may sound creepy/strange/etc. but I've fingered myself and I'm quite ...
A. 21 September 2009: relax hunny, have never seen or heard of a ugly vagina.. my wifes vagina has changed from when i met her after we have had 5 little kiddies. but do you know what???? its still as beautiful as the day she first intraduced me to it. lol.
all diff... (read in full...)
"piercings make a girl look slutty"
Q. guys, do u like tattoos and piercings on a girl?? is a tongue piercing trashy? i want to get my tongue pierced for my 16th birthday in a few months but my boyfriend, who is covered in tattoos but no piercings, says that it will make me look slu...
A. 21 September 2009: you do as you want to, thats what makes us all individuals. i have piercings and tattoo's aswell as my wife does.
she has a couple of tatts that clothing covers when need be. also she has her nipples, ears and nose pierced. i think what looks out ... (read in full...)
How many times can most women climax in a row?
Q. I just got out of a three year relationship with a girl that was not really right for me (there was love, but a great deal of immaturity), but she was really fun to serve in bed. (I mostly gave to her, not the reverse, and we only went to third ...
A. 17 September 2009: yes every woman is different and also her partner makes the difference. my wife has told me and i do truely believe her, that l am the only one who has every made her cum. but this didnt just happen from the first time.now depending on her mood and ... (read in full...)
My wife got a tattoo of my name on her... does this mean she's sorry and her love for me is stronger?
Q. ok, got a question if anyone can help shed some light on it. from my previous posts you can see my wife and l have a very messy separation for some time. since she has been back she has been a lot more loving towards me and that is great, im loving...
A. 17 September 2009: thank you all for the honest answers, they have actually made me feel fantastic inside. this site is fantastic as it so good to someone elses perspective on my situations...
having questions that you normally can not ask friends or family just dri... (read in full...)
Do you know any married men that have managed to stay faithful?
Q. Do you all know of any married guys who are faithful?...
A. 26 August 2009: well i am 100% faithful to my wife of 15yrs together. on the down side i know she has been unfaithful to me..
nowadays its not just the men who are unfaithful, women are just as unfaithful as men can be..
l have been basically invited a co... (read in full...)
Is it possible to remain just friends after an affair?
Q. My situation is this, I am best friends with a married man and we have crossed the boundary. We both know what we have done is wrong and have committed to each other that we would stop. We would like to remain best friends without the sex part as we ...
A. 25 August 2009: i'm sorry but what ever way you look at it, it is home wrecking. my wife had had an affair a few years ago and it has wrecked our home. i am different, the kids are different and the whole happy family life is different. you should not have ... (read in full...)
I snooped around into my girlfriends accounts, and found that she had been talking to another guy in secret; and even met him!! How can I confront her about this?
Q. So... I've been with my GF for nearly two years. We've had a lot of fun, and our relationship has always been very fair and loving, despite some rough patches involving money (being out of work mainly). We've lived together for about half this ...
A. 23 August 2009: l feel for you big time. i was in the same situation as you and my wife of 11yrs did meet up and sleep with a guy. yes you are a snoop and you have every reason to snoop. i did everything for my wife except wipe her bum. not big noteing my self ... (read in full...)
I won't swallow, so now he doesn't want oral, is this really a big thing for guys?
Q. I am deeply in love with my man, was giving him head until a week ago when he suddenly said you don't have to. I asked him what that meant, he said it is because I won't swallow, Is this a really a deciding factor for men, He loves the way I give ...
A. 19 August 2009: well all that l can say is "its his loss"
my wife has probably swallowed twice in 15 yrs, the rest of the time she gets me close and then finishes me off by hand. l am very happy with that. don't let him force you to do something you don't want to. ... (read in full...)
My past makes me nervous about sex
Q. Okay, I REALLY need help! My explanation is quite dark so...be warned if you happen to be under 16 (just in case, don't want any tweens getting freaked out) I am 19 and my bf is 21 and we are going to have sex for the first time...soon. And I am a v...
A. 19 August 2009: mmm ok, well first of all I really feel for you with what has happened. being in love is such a wonderful thing and you really want the first time special, I know mine was fantastic(22yrs ago) and I still remember it to this day. my suggestion ... (read in full...)
How long is sex supposed to last?
Q. probably a silly question, but how long do women prefer men to last in bed??? i suppose l am asking because in myself l dont believe l last very long at all. what got me thinking more about this is when my wife and i had separated for a period, ...
A. 17 August 2009: thank you all so much, well i am actually feeling abit better in myself knowing how long i last is satisfying time. thank you all again as it has really helped.
i think if it wasn't for this site, i would be going crazy.............. (read in full...)
Will my 'bent penis' affect my ability to have sex in future?
Q. Have had a normal sex life as a maried man. Lost my wife about 10 years ago and apart from masturbation have not had a partner since. Recently I noticed that my penis is bent almost at 90 degrees when erect. The more erect it becomes the more it ...
A. 17 August 2009: do not fear my friend. i to have a bent penis which i was paranoid about. l no for a fact that i am the only one who has ever made my partner orgasm and she puts it down to the fact that i am bent.... and trust me when your pleasuring your lady to ... (read in full...)
What's normal as far as noise goes, during sex?
Q. I'm dating a really great guy with whom I recently became sexually active for the first time. I enjoy being intimate with him, and he says he feels the same way, but he expresses concern that I don't make a sound during any type of sexual ...
A. 12 August 2009: everyone is different. my wife is fairly quiet and l dont mind at all. the expressions on her face and how she moves her body is worth more than moans and groans.
my previous ex was very load and it actually got quite embarressing at times.
but e... (read in full...)
Oral sex--tips to do, not to do
Q. hey guys and gals, oral..... girls hints and tips on what you love when a guy goes down on you........ guys hints and tips on what your partner loves you to do. my wifes clit is so touchy that i can only give her oral for a couple of minutes befo...
A. 12 August 2009: it actually makes her clit very ticklish. she starts laughing and squrming to the point she is nearly jumping and constantly pulling away.
it drives both her and myself crazy sometimes. she really wants me to keep going but it is so sensitive that... (read in full...)
She's still friends with the man she had an affair with during her first marriage
Q. So I never saw myself on one of these things, ever, but I find myself really confused, so here we go... I'm in love!, she was once married. She had an affair. She has been very honest with me with everything, including the details of how t...
A. 12 August 2009: i know how you must be feeling. simular situation as you i am in to. only difference is it is my wife who had the affair behind my back. yes it is hard and i bet your the same as me and actually have hate for this person. YES she should not have any ... (read in full...)
Married People: How often do you have sex and how often would you like to have sex if possible?
Q. A few friends and I were chatting the other day about our sex lives. For the most part, we feel they are ok....maybe a little more time for sex would be nice and a little more foreplay, but overall, not bad. Our husbands, however, feel th...
A. 12 August 2009: well average 3-4 times a week... wow l wish.. married for 11 yrs and 5 kiddies. sometimes once a week normally once a month.. i would like it 2-3 times a week but i am coming a custom to my wifes low sex drive. before having kids we use to go for it ... (read in full...)
Boobs.
Q. My boobs are the size of a 15 yr old is there something wrong with me?...
A. 11 August 2009: hunny, i wouldnt worry to much about boob size.. the size doesnt make the person nor does it change the sexual excitment between couples.
my wife was a perky 14d when i met her and now after 5 kiddies they are a saggy 12b. but i still love her the ... (read in full...)
I've found out my wife is a slut
Q. Hello everyone. I'm 20 years old and my wife is 33 as of August 2, 2009. I just found out Saturday night August 8, 2009, that, well what I believe is a slut. She told over her 32 years of living she has had, 14 sexual partners. Some were one night ...
A. 10 August 2009: wow, you seem so upset by this. now was your wife "loose" before you found out??? doubt it... how many girls have you slept with??? if a guy sleeps with 14 girls he is a stud, but if a lady sleeps with 14 guys she's a slut.
WRONG.
i personal... (read in full...)
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