He seems to have lost feelings for me
Q. Married for 19 years, love my husband with all my heart but can't seem to continue to deal with him always being in a bad mood. He never seems happy. He says it's all due to finances but we both make good salaries. He is constantly talking about ...
A. 25 February 2010: confront him about insulting you. sounds exactly like my family growing up. my dad ended up having an affair with a woman and divorcing my mom after 20 years. as a result my brother turned into a heroin addict and i have some emotional problems as ... (read in full...)
Should I be friends with him after he hurt me so badly?
Q. So I'll try and make this short. I was in a very long term, happy relationship. We split up amicably-ish about 5 months ago. He hooked up with an idiot of a girl straight after. She is such a loser! Amongst many idiotic things she does, she cons...
A. 25 February 2010: if you are still hurting then the answere is no, you cannot be friends. it sounds to me like you are not over it but you would like him to think that you are. my ex is a more attractive than my new girlfriend but there is nothing she can do to ge... (read in full...)
How do I reconcile with a life of at least 30 more years of not being in a mutually loving relationship?
Q. I feel doomed for life. Except for short periods of time, I don't believe I've ever been with someone where both people felt mutually and enduringly in love with one another. I know people who never fall out of love, and I too have gone through long ...
A. 25 February 2010: "How do I reconcile with a life of at least 30 more years of not being in a mutually loving relationship?" here's how: go out there and be the best person you can be. try to look your best while exhibiting your best behavior. touch the lives ... (read in full...)
Why do guys only want me for sex?
Q. everyone i meet says am really friendly and really sweet. they all say i have a great personality. guys thinks am cute and sexy..but they just want me for sex and off course i don't give in cos am not the type to sleep around.. i want ...
A. 25 February 2010: it is probably because you are so sweet and nice. all men want sex. some men want only sex and some of the men that think they only want sex are also interested in love but it will take the right female to bring this to their awareness. i am one of ... (read in full...)
I think I'm too self-conscious to orgasm!
Q. I think I'm too self-conscious to orgasm. I've orgasmed in the past with previous boyfriends but with my current one, whenever he pleasuring me it feels good but then it starts to feels really intense and sensitive and rather than come, I start ...
A. 25 February 2010: i don't have an answer but my girlfriend is exactly as you describe. she gets on top and right before her orgasm she stops, collapses, soemtimes shakes or tears up, but never having a full orgasm. she says it's too intense and she absolutely can't ... (read in full...)
How do I find a balance? I was happier when I was fat, but I do enjoy my body and being attractive to the opposite sex
Q. This may seem like a strange question but it is something that has plagued me since about the age of 16. It is to do with beauty and mental state. Basically from the ages of about 12 to 15 I was huge I weighed close to 22 stone, which wasn't as ...
A. 25 February 2010: it sounds to me that you are too concerned with how you look when you should be equally concerned with how you are. i'm sure you realise looks aren't everything. when a person is attractive they often lack in personality. thats not always the case, ... (read in full...)
Did my girlfriend just break up with me? I don't understand what happened!
Q. My girl wants to have a baby with me. I was scared about this at first, but she wants it so much and I love to see her happy and see her smile, so I started to convince myself I was ready. But she got in my face last night about it, and finally ...
A. 25 February 2010: if she did break up with you, sadly, perhaps its for the best. she sounds like she is having some major maternal urges that she can't control and sounds like you are apprehensive to say the least. this is often the case where the male is trying to ... (read in full...)
Does my teacher fancy me or am I just being silly ?
Q. Ok i am having this major love/hate realationship with this male english teacher in my school. Ive liked him for atleast 3 years now. But ive always felt a connection between him and me , his eyes are so hypnotic. Then i went to see a play with my ...
A. 25 February 2010: it sounds like you have a certain charm that you are just "practicing" and in the right time and place your charm ability will be an asset. school can be especially boring if you are day-dreaming about love all the time. remember there is a whole ... (read in full...)
Did I ruin everything by not making him feel good in bed? I'm a virgin.
Q. There has been a guy friend that I have liked/flirted with for 3 years off and on. There has always been an underlying sexual tension between us but he has had some girlfriends here and there. But lately we have been talking/flirting again. This ...
A. 25 February 2010: lots of things to consider. one important thing to remember is whatever uneasy feelings you have he is certainly having similar feelings, probably wondering if he should talk to you about it and what to say. you both know that it needs to be brought ... (read in full...)
He scares me with the things he says about sex!
Q. ok soo imm going to be 16 in 2 months. the guy im talking to will be 19 in 5 days. we have been talking on the phone and texting for about 2 months now. we`ve hung out 3 times. once in a group, once on our own, and then he came to watch me cheer one ...
A. 8 February 2010: some roughness during sex is normal but he sounds more like he intends to make you fear him. if you are smart you will just end things now. he is obviously not going to make you happy. its possible that he is just messing with your head to see how ... (read in full...)
Guys -- how long do you usually last during a bj?
Q. This is for the guys out there. When getting a blow job about how long does is take for you to ejaculate. I give my boyfriend head but there's no way I'm letting him cum in my mouth so I only do it for a while then carry on with a hand job just in ...
A. 3 February 2010: i make my gf do it till her mouth hurts which ends up being only five minutes or so, then we finish with something else. my ex was really good at it so with her i wouldn't even last five minutes. what i always say to girls is don't be a baby about ... (read in full...)
Normal? He wants bj twice a day?
Q. My boyfriend wants me to do bj for him twice everyday(at least once,but doesn't have to make him cum though), if we ever see each other in that day(we don't live together). I just want to know is it normal for guys or it's just he has too much ...
A. 3 February 2010: do it. he probably had an ex that did it and if you don't he will start thinking about her... ya dig?... (read in full...)
I gave my stepfather a BJ. Did he take advantage of me or was it my fault? I don't want to hurt my mum
Q. I'm really confused about my relationship with my step father. He's 27 and I'm 16. My Mom Married him 3 years ago, even though she's 12 years older then him, and everyone was against it. But anyway, a few weeks ago when i came home from school, ...
A. 3 February 2010: trust me you want to discontinue this now. you already made a mistake. don't make another one. this is the sort of affair that will haunt you for the rest of your life.... (read in full...)
BJ help
Q. ok im 13 and im REALLY horny, i have a girlfriend and i really want her to give me a blowjob, help! and please dont answer tht im too young, i need help not parental lecturing, thanks...
A. 3 February 2010: persuading a girl to give a bj is sometimes challenging. just convincing her is an art in itself. it never stops. i'm 27 and i still have to work different angles to get bj's. persistance and patience.... (read in full...)
He flirts with me, but he flirts with other girls too. Does he like me?
Q. [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into 1 question] hi my name is ally and i started going 2 a youth group almost 2 mon. ago. i met this guy named, mitch. ive been friends with him 4 almost the whole time ive been...
A. 3 February 2010: he likes you but also he's probably flirty by nature. some people just are. if your not allowed to date then it hardly matters yet but you're gonna have to step it up because it sounds like you are probably not the only girl with your eye on that ... (read in full...)
27 year old virgin - wondering if I need to get counselling
Q. Hi This is my first time posting a question but I figured what the hell. I am going to be 27 this year and I am still a virgin. It shouldn't be that big a deal but I feel like it is one. All my friends have had sex and some are even married wit...
A. 3 February 2010: its ok to be a virgin but don't be afraid of sex. obviously you have an issue with your father. thats ok. lots of other girls have similar father issues that emerge in their sex lives. you need some male attention because you crave it naturally ... (read in full...)
My friend wants me to have sex with her and I don't want to!
Q. i am kinda in trouble here i have this friend i have known her since we were kids and now she wants me to have sex with her . . . .but i dont see her like that how do i tell her that i just want to be friends i dont know what to do i am confused?...
A. 3 February 2010: it is likely that she has had a crush the entire time you've known her. be very casual when you explain to her thats not the kind of relationship the two of you have.
consider this however; she may think she is in love with you. surely you have... (read in full...)
Can anyone guess what’s going on in his mind? Does he actually like me?
Q. Hey. I need some help. I’ve been talking to a guy on msn as mutual friends for over a year and I’ve fancied him since. He’s the first person I’ve proper liked. I didn’t see him much but by now I see him every day. There’s a problem though. ...
A. 3 February 2010: drop him a hint. if you already have then just try to impress him somehow. most likely he is unsure. guys usually are. try not to have any expectations. don't feel bad if he's not into you.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend likes to choke me during sex.
Q. My boyfriend likes to choke me during sex. I told my female friend this and she said "thats hot" Is this normal? Why do people like this?...
A. 3 February 2010: i always choke my girlfriend during sex. she bites and claws me. i don't choke her hard usually. she is a tiny girl and has a really tiny neck so its something that has to be done carefully. there's absolutely no possible way that it could ever kill ... (read in full...)
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