I'm supposed to be getting married in May. My fiance has been again been caught talking sexual on dating sites!
Q. I am supposed to be getting married in June. The honeymoon is even booked. After the wedding she would have been moving into my house. We have been together for over 5 years. It has been an off and on relationship for the last 3 years. Mainly d...
A. 21 February 2013: I do not understand why you are here asking what you should do, or why she does it. You know what to do. DUMP HER. She is probably getting titillated by talking dirty online or possibly gets a buzz out of cheating. Do her reasons matter that much ... (read in full...)
Where is the line between deceit and harmless white lies?
Q. I would appreciate some opinions please, and thank you. There are TWO parts to my problem. I believe I have met my soulmate. I have only felt this way once before, so I know the feeling. I knew it immediately. We have been together nearly a y...
A. 18 February 2013: Ok. Harmless white lies could be things like not telling you where he really is because he doesnt want you to know what he is buying you for your birthday. It could be something like him saying it wasnt him who left the toilet seat up and smiling ... (read in full...)
She has started going on dating sites, in front of me. She tells me there is better than me out there. What should I do?
Q. I have lived with my girlfriend for 5 years. We have both decided against getting married and have no children (she doesnt want any). Everything has been steady and we have always got on. Over the past 6 months she has got into a twice weekly g...
A. 6 February 2013: It looks like she`s heading for a really nasty downfall. With the way she has treated you, I would not be the one to pick her up. Her friends motives, whatever they are, are not being done with good intention for your friend. A lot would say it`s ... (read in full...)
Why will my girlfriend not stop going on dating sites?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend just short of two years. She has been going on dating sites like it`s a habit for at least the past year. She has lied and lied about it, but she surely knows that I know different. We have been broke up over Christmas ...
A. 5 January 2013: Was it her being on dating sites that actually caused you to break up? or was it something else? Her being on a dating site and wanting you to reconsider sounds rather stupid and dumb to me. If her being on dating sites did break you up, then dont ... (read in full...)
Was he over the top to break up over this after 2 years together? Was he looking for an excuse?
Q. My boyfriend and I broke up in April of this year. He had found out I was on dating sites again. I did not want to meet anyone, because I was in love with him. I used to go on dating sites to tease the guys on them and had no intention of meet...
A. 24 December 2012: So you went online to tease men did you? Or is it a better way of saying you went online to talk about sex? You may have to just accept you did wrong and got caught. If your ex has not been in touch with you since April then it sounds like you are ... (read in full...)
Why is he still lying? Yet begging to resume our relationship? Will he change or continue to go on dating sites if we get back together?
Q. I dumped my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago for going on dating sites and sex texting with girls. He could not even explain who these girls were, so I assumed they were from dating sites. He is still lying and says he never went on those dating s...
A. 20 December 2012: Why should he change? If he was serious about getting back with you, then now would be the time he would make an effort to change. He hasnt. He doesnt even seem to think he did anything wrong.... (read in full...)
If he really loves me and wants to marry me, then why does he keep joining dating sites?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. The last 2 have gotten rather bumpy because he keeps talking to girls on dating sites. He has asked me to marry him but because he lies to me about his dating sites it makes me too afraid to marry ...
A. 18 December 2012: Whatever you decide to do, do not marry him. He has no respect for you, and if anything, he will go worse. He probably wants to marry you because he see`s you as an easy touch.... (read in full...)
I can't stop making out with my colleagues!
Q. I am 27 married 7 years and have a child! I haven't been happy for a very long time but kept in marriage for security and for child sake! Recently at a Xmas do, I got very drunk and made out with s work colleague! I then went home and brought home ...
A. 17 December 2012: Try letting your husband go, so you can pursue your dreams. He does not deserve the disrespect. ... (read in full...)
She wont give up the dating sites and chat rooms, what can I do? I don't want to leave our son....
Q. I have been living with my common law for 6 years and we have a 5 year old boy. For the last 18 months we have constantly argued over her use of dating and adult related chat room type websites. Just as always, I think we are getting back on the ...
A. 17 December 2012: To the anonymous female. It is rather offensive to say someone is "pestering" their partner about going online for attention. I dont think you would say the same if the tables turned. Watch out, karma will get you. ... (read in full...)
She accused me of cheating, but she's on a dating site?
Q. I have had to constantly re-assure my girlfriend since day one. I have put up with allegations that I am cheating or will end up cheating on her. I am often accused of finding others attractive when we are out. Despite this, I have tried to ...
A. 11 December 2012: Dating sites are a better tool for exposing cheats than they are for finding a partner. You had a lucky escape. Enjoy your future.... (read in full...)
While house-sitting for my girlfriend, I discovered she is not the person she lead me to believe she is.
Q. So I have been with my girlfriend about 4 months and I thought things were going great. We got serious very quickly however and ended up spending almost every day together. Lately I've felt very uncertain about several things I've discover...
A. 2 December 2012: She lied about doing it, then she confesses and says that she hasn't met anyone. Then she turns the blame on you for making her do it? I think she is full of shit my friend. To put it one way, I dont think you can actually believe anything she tells ... (read in full...)
I dumped him because of the dating sites, but he's still on them meeting new people! How do I overcome my anger?
Q. I have broke up from a 2 year relationship. It was my decision. He would not stop visiting datimg sites and always lied to me about it or said he went on them because I nagged him all the time. Now, the same account he said wasnt his is still there ...
A. 1 December 2012: You ended a relationship with him because he was on a dating site. He has carried on with that dating site , and even put his photo on it. He doesnt think any more of you now then he did back then. That is not someone who`s learnt his lesson, like I ... (read in full...)
He cried, real tears, but guess what!
Q. Just over two months ago I left my dating site obsessed boyfriend of four years. I accepted dating sites were part of his life and always will be. He has suddenly started trying to get me back again with the same old bull shit and accused me of ...
A. 23 November 2012: I think you can rest in the fact that dating sites will be in his life forever. You need to forget he exists. Do not take any of his calls or listen to him again.... (read in full...)
Is it common for people to be in a relationship and signed up to online dating sites?
Q. I have noticed this kind of question comes up a lot on this website. Is it very common for people to be signed up to dating websites whilst in a relationship. I have found my boyfriend to be doing it and lying about it. when he is not able to lie, ...
A. 22 November 2012: It is disrespectful and it is also abuse. You are allowing him to do it, so he will carry on regardless of what it is doing to you. I think the only way out is to dump him.... (read in full...)
My ex is trying to win me back but has an online profile that he visits every day???
Q. Not sure if I want to continue reuniting with my ex-bf. We had been together for 12 years, living together for 6 of those, then he left me in a most cowardly sort of way. Then, after about two-and-a-half years of on-and-off luke-warm contact,...
A. 22 November 2012: It sounds like anyone is better than no one as far as he is concerned.... (read in full...)
I feel I've lost so much. How can I get my life back on track after breaking up? Life's really tough for me right now.
Q. Please ladies explain this to me. I'm on my own for the first time in my life and I'm 36 now. Two long term relationships, 2 children and I'm ashamed to say with both women. The first I thought was love. The second I walked out on in the mi...
A. 17 November 2012: Was it the first time she caught you or had you pushed your luck much too far that time? Somehow, I dont think you have any thought about what you did or the hurt you caused. I dont believe you even think you did anything wrong. Well, she has got ... (read in full...)
Drunken one nite stand is threatening to tell my girlfriend what happened!
Q. I've been seeing my girlfriend for just over a year, I love her to bits. About 4-months ago I had a one night stand, not full blown sex but heavy fondling. I'd drunk wayyy too much. Halfway through I came to my senses stopped and went home. The ...
A. 13 November 2012: You would be better telling her before she finds out. I cannot understand why you think you love your girlfriend to bits. If you did, you wouldnt be here asking this question.... (read in full...)
My wife has been cheating on me for 3 years. How do I get her to want me?
Q. Where do I start? I've been married for 12 years but been with her for for 18. We have 3 boys who I wake up for every morning to make all the money I can so they have everything. My wife doesn't work, I was raised thinking u should support the ...
A. 10 November 2012: You need to forget making her want you. By the sound of it, it`s she is only with you because the other guy doesnt want her full time. Stop being her fool and get out of that marriage.... (read in full...)
Caught my boyfriend on dating sites, after calling me a slut and a stalker he then claims it was a virus!
Q. I have found out my boyfriend has been going on dating sites. When I asked him about it he went mad at me and started calling me a stalker, said I dont trust him because I myself am not to be trusted, called me a slut and then turned it around to ...
A. 10 November 2012: Do not allow anyone to abuse you like that. Walk away.... (read in full...)
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