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HOW TO KISS A WOMAN

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Article - (21 January 2010) 6 Comments - (Newest, 25 January 2010)
A female United States age 51-59, bootydoctors writes:

Pinkee here~ It’s January, which feels like a good time to get back to basics. Why don’t they teach things like this in public schools? Well, I’ll tell ya- no one ever taught me, OR a lot of the guys I’ve kissed. In case you’re interested in what goes into a good kiss from a woman’s perspective, welcome to Kissing 101. Here are a few key things to keep in mind:

1. Shaving is good. Razor stubble hurts. We women have delicate skin, you know. Be sure to shave a short time before you expect to be kissing someone.

2. Good oral hygiene is a must. Brush you teeth before going out on a date, floss, use your tongue scraper (available at most pharmacies), AND use mouthwash. Also visit the dentist regularly, at least two times a year for cleaning and maintenance. A clean mouth and good breath is a turn-on! Oh, and by the way, you can brush your lips too. My college boyfriend (the original metrosexual) taught me that. It makes them soft.

3. Take the gradual approach. EASE into the kiss. Slower is sexier. Don’t grab her and shove your whole tongue into her mouth at the start. In fact, never shove your whole tongue into her mouth. When it comes to kissing, less is more.

4. Touch her. Tangle a hand in her hair. Touch under her chin with one finger, as if to gently draw her to you. Put one hand on her lower back. Yum.

5. Tease her with the tip of your tongue. Let your tongue play with hers, not overpower it. Let the kiss be a dance that you do together.

6. Refrain from drooling and slobbering. Think human being, not dog.

7. If you’ve been kissing each other for a while, spice it up. Experiment with passing different foods between your mouths while kissing, like your favorite type of chocolate, chocolate pudding, or raspberries.

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A female reader, bootydoctors United States +, writes (25 January 2010):

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bootydoctors agony auntDear ChloeLouise,

Yes, that sounds like a good one, too. Also, for all of you who want more information of this sort, listen to the Booty Doctors on Wed. nites from 7-8pm, EST. All you have to do is go to www.blogtalkradio.com/thebootydoctors and register.

Love,

Pinkee

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A female reader, bootydoctors United States +, writes (25 January 2010):

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bootydoctors agony auntHi Hearfullalove, Each to her own, I guess!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2010):

Very good post. But...point 7? Exchanging food-stuffs back and forth? Eh, no thanks.

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A female reader, ChloeLouise Spain +, writes (24 January 2010):

I totally agree. A lot of guys are not very good kissers, another thing I'd like to add is relax your tongue, a tense tongue the whole time isn't too fun.

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A female reader, kittensox Canada +, writes (23 January 2010):

i agree with everything, iom gonna show this to my gf XD btw YES im a girl

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A female reader, Chanelle.x United Kingdom +, writes (22 January 2010):

I should show this to my boyfriend x lol

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