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Being an Oasis for Each Other

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Article - (27 April 2010) 0 Comments - (Newest, )
A female United States age 51-59, bootydoctors writes:

Pinkee here~ In today’s fast paced world, nothing is more soothing at the end of the day than your lover’s touch. I know that many times you would just like to have sex, but it’s not ALWAYS time for sex. Plus, I understand that most of you out there are not getting it on as often as you’d like to. So here are some ways you can create soothing touch with each other, and it also may lead to more sex, because sometimes there’s nothing like non-sexual touch to put a woman “in the mood”. Believe me, I’m a woman. So here goes:

1. Give each other hand massages. You can use lotion, or not. And it doesn’t have to take up extra time in your life. You can do it while you’re watching tv, a movie, or even while waiting for your dinner to arrive at a restaurant.

2. Give each other foot rubs. Ditto, except I don’t recommend doing it at a restaurant. :)

3. Give each other head scratches. Yeah, that’s right. Have you ever tried it? It’s amazing

4. Then you can progress on to the face massage. Massage your partner’s forehead, cheeks, chin, and ears. If you want to get really crazy, try the eyebrow scratch. It’s a bit unusual, but my partner likes it (of course he does, because he made it up ) and even I do at times.

5. And there’s always a good back rub or back scratch, with or without clothes on.

6. My partner and I have a position that we like to sit in when doing all these things: One person sits in a couch or chair while the other sits on the floor or a pillow in front of him or her. That way, the one in the front can be the receiver of a back rub, head scratch, or whatever. And, if you’re into multitasking, the person in back can place their feet in the lap of the other person simultaneously, and receive a foot rub. Lucky for me, my guy is a good multitasker. But if you aren’t then taking turns works, too!

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