I want to lose weight without going crazy or dying, please advise?
Q. How do i lose weight with out going crazy and with out dying ? xxx...
A. 7 January 2009: Great question!!! I went to the doctor this past december, it turns out I have high bp, so he wanted me to lose some wieght to see if it goes down. He reccomended eating five times a day, but small portions and healthy meals. For instance have ... (read in full...)
I need some advice please about my ladyfriend's vaginal odour.
Q. Hi, I need some advice please about my ladyfriend's vaginal odour. I only get to see her about once every couple of months and we have a good sexual relationship in the short time we're together. However, on my last visit a few days ago, I was about ...
A. 1 January 2009: Because that is rather odd, I have thought of a way where you can be descreet about it. Tell her you are going in for your six month test, just so you are always clean and safe, and ask her to go with you to get one too! Tell her you can never be ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant... I want to get an abortion but don't know where to go. What are my options?
Q. I'm a college freshman and I just found out I'm 7 weeks pregnant. The father is a frat guy who I had a one night stand with. He doesn't know, and I know he wouldn't want to have anything to do with it. I'm thinking of getting an abortion since I ...
A. 1 January 2009: After reading the other posts, I just had to post again. While I agree that you should tell tell the father, you are doing a very responsible thing. Adoption is another option to consider, but it just seemed to me that you had your mind made up. ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant... I want to get an abortion but don't know where to go. What are my options?
Q. I'm a college freshman and I just found out I'm 7 weeks pregnant. The father is a frat guy who I had a one night stand with. He doesn't know, and I know he wouldn't want to have anything to do with it. I'm thinking of getting an abortion since I ...
A. 1 January 2009: Hi Honey! I recommend that you look up planned parenthood. They perform abortions free or low cost. It's a won't ask, won't tell type of place. They also provide free condoms, birth control, and advice for protective sex methods. I strongly ... (read in full...)
Should I kiss her?
Q. I have to make this quick because the girl I'm writing about is coming over in just a few minutes. I've known this absolutely amazing woman since we were just in diapers and I started falling for her in freshman year of high school. We're now both ...
A. 1 January 2009: Give her a New Year's kiss. See her reaction, tell her happy new year after you kiss her. Make your judgements by her actions, and make friendly conversation. Then When the moment is right, and you will know when, only then should you tell her how ... (read in full...)
I like having my butt rubbed..weird?
Q. i really enjoy it when my wife rubs my butt hole through my undies, and only through undies...is this normal 4 a 22 y.o male??? ...
A. 1 January 2009: lol, yes its perfectly normal, all people have different sexual pleasures, things they like others they dont, for example some menlike sucking toes, others love having theyre ears sucked, some men even enjoy ass play, this does not mean you are gay ... (read in full...)
A bit too close for comfort.
Q. Hi. Im a sorry that this is so long but it is really urgent and I could do with the help. Please take the time to read! I thought Id ask to see what people on here think I should do. There is this lad at school (lets call him Fred Flinstone) and h...
A. 1 January 2009: Sweet heart if you dont have the emails saved, there isnt anything you can do. Dont do what your teachers tell you, herassment is herassment, especially this severe. You need to tell the police, they may confront your teacher and ask her if indeed ... (read in full...)
Condom split and now I'm worried about pregnancy
Q. i started taking the pill, i wasnt fully on the all clear so i used a condom too, it split. i thort i was pregnant so i stopped taking it i then started to bleed, but not like a period. i got a few symptoms of pregnancy, tired feel sick etc, then a ...
A. 31 December 2008: lol thats because of the bc, it usually helpos lighten your periods! Thats the original reason I started taking it lol. Now you dont have to worry about bleeding so heavily, oh but it may be light now and get heavy, especially if you just started ... (read in full...)
A bit too close for comfort.
Q. Hi. Im a sorry that this is so long but it is really urgent and I could do with the help. Please take the time to read! I thought Id ask to see what people on here think I should do. There is this lad at school (lets call him Fred Flinstone) and h...
A. 31 December 2008: No you are not the one who is wrong, they just arent listenig and they aren't hearing you, make them listen. If your teachers wont then, you need to contact the police and show them the emails. You also needed to tell your parents, so they become ... (read in full...)
Bleeding after sex/masturbation?
Q. Hi all! Okay so I know I ask this question almost every time it happens, maybe its because I still question exactly why it happens. Anyways it seems everytime I masturbate by stimulating my clit or have sex, after I orgasm, wait a few hours until I ...
A. 31 December 2008: Thank you so much!!! Finally a straight answer lol thank you thank you thank you lol. That's probably what it is. But on my next visit to the doctor, I'll talk to him about it, just to be sure like you suggested. lol. Thanks again and happy new ... (read in full...)
A bit too close for comfort.
Q. Hi. Im a sorry that this is so long but it is really urgent and I could do with the help. Please take the time to read! I thought Id ask to see what people on here think I should do. There is this lad at school (lets call him Fred Flinstone) and h...
A. 31 December 2008: This may sound extreme, but he is clearly threatening you and your friends, you need to go to the police and have a restraining order placed on him, Show them every email that he snt you. Make copies. He needs to stop, this isnt a game anymore its ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend calls me derogatory names during sex. What does this mean?
Q. I am dating a wonderful, sweet, caring, thoughtful man and we are planning a future together. We have only been together for a few months. He absolutely adores me and I do him as well. We have an incredible sex life but one thing confuses me... ...
A. 31 December 2008: Well he's absolutly right lol. He's not trying ot be rude to you, but my guess is he's just a little kinky and domineering in the bedroom. If he's as sweet as you say, then you must excuse him lol. A lot of guys have a thing for that. It makes them ... (read in full...)
Found explicit pictures while snooping on his computer!
Q. My fiance moved in a few months ago. I was snooping around on his computer and found several explicit pictures of him with other women.I am ticked off! I really didn't need to see any of that! They were is a hidden file created a few days after ...
A. 31 December 2008: First of all, are you sure that those pictures weren't taken before he met you? Second no offense I dont mean to be rude but if they were in a "hidden" file, on HIS computer and you were snooping, I think you kind of asked for it lol. Most guys have ... (read in full...)
Girls!! Why do you like the "landing strip" so much?
Q. Soooooooooooooooo question to all girl, i wasnt wearing a shirt and my girlfriend saw the hair going from my belly button to i guess the lower part of my stomach i guess some people call it a landing strip or many other names. My girlfriend like ...
A. 31 December 2008: I have to agree with both katatonic and satin desire! First off yes a landing strip is for women who wax their pubic hair and leave just a strip lol. Nextly lol, because woman are infact genetically programmed, hair is a sign of good health. ( it ... (read in full...)
Two 14 year olds + one ripped condom = one possible pregnancy?
Q. I am only 14yrs old me and my girlfriend had sex she is also 14 the condom ripped. So far she hasnt experienced any signs of pregnancy. my question is how long does it take her to start those signs if in fact she is pregnant? can anyone help me ...
A. 31 December 2008: Hi sweetheart!!! Okay first thing would be to calm down. She may not even be pregnant. She can take a pregnancy test two weeks after the day you had sex, when you think she got pregnant. A urine test may not be accurate just then however, I would ... (read in full...)
How old should I be before I have sex?
Q. how old do yall think i should be before sex?...
A. 31 December 2008: I very much agree with the last post. You have sex when you feel its right to have sex and most of all when you are ready. The right guy will understand and I think thats its great that you havent given into pressure. I made that mistake when was ... (read in full...)
I don't believe that I love my daughter's father anymore!
Q. I am in my early 30’s and I have a one year old baby girl. She is the best thing that ever happened to us. The problem is that when I was eight months pregnant her father called me a spic, and when she was only eight days old I was kick-out of the ...
A. 31 December 2008: I think you need to talk to your husband about this a lot more. Go back ot counseling and maybe try just a little more, Give it about six months to year, if you still can't manage to work things out, then perhaps you should moe on. The best of ... (read in full...)
How normal is it for a girl to want sex often?
Q. I'd like to know how normal it is for a girl to want sex often. i usually want sex at the very least once a week. but i like to have it once a day or sometimes more. sometimes i feel like i am not normal because of that. so i guess my questio...
A. 31 December 2008: I understand!!! That is totally normal, and nothing to worry about! I usually have sex at least once a day, if not more. ( long term bf lol) In fact sometimes I think I wear my bf out! lol. ^_^ Remember stay protected and have fun!!!!... (read in full...)
I'm a lesbian but I'm not like other lesbians
Q. A lot of people seem to think I'm 'weird' for various reasons, but I always tell myself that I'm a perfectly normal teenage lesbian. But some of the things others, including other lesbians, are saying is starting to make me wonder... One thing...
A. 31 December 2008: You are a very normal lesbian. You are very open and not ashamed of who you are. People really are born gay, some just dont want to admit it or deny it. Others have ot discover that they are gay, maybe they think they straight but once they have ... (read in full...)
B/f no more sex he's afraid of pregnancy!
Q. So, basically, I have been with my boyfriend for five months now, and we've been having sex for about 3 months. We have always been safe and responsible, using condoms as protection. However, recently, I considered going on the conraceptive pill as ...
A. 31 December 2008: While I understand that he doesn't want to get you pregnant, that sounds absolutely absurd! I can't take birth control due to the side effects I had from it. I jave tried three different types/ dosages and the side effects were worse everytime. ... (read in full...)
Thank you for all the advice
Q. just like to say a big thank you to all the aunts and uncles who have given me good advice,bad advice,labelled me even accused me in the years i have written my problems.as 2008 draws to a close and its been a horrible year in ever aspect of my ...
A. 31 December 2008: I'm so glad you've found someone, while break ups are difficult ot say the least, they can lead to wonderful new beginings, congratulations on your partner and good luck!!! Happy soon to be New Year!!!... (read in full...)
Bent penis is it a problem?
Q. hi my penis leans a little to my left when it gets hard and im not circumcised and my skin is not at the centre of my head i have a lil trouble peeing when in hot bt its nt dat bad, so what u all tink...
A. 31 December 2008: Well what is your question lol. Each penis is indivual, there are not two penis's that are exactly a like (twins?? idk lol) Your penis is individual and its completly normal for a penis to curve to one side or other. Don't dwell on it, as long as ... (read in full...)
Worried about my son on drugs..how can I have a life?
Q. How can I help my drug addict son? What ,if he never going to stop? How can I keep my sanity?He is making bad choices, and brakes my heart,when he is hurting. So every time ,he goes down on the same road, I'm there with him, so my life is never ha...
A. 31 December 2008: First of all how old is your son? I'm guessing he is in maybe his late twenties. While its great that you are always there for him, at the same time if he is an adult her needs to act like one. Sometimes people wantng to help someone isnt enough. ... (read in full...)
Have a baby with my guy or wait for someone better?
Q. Just a quickie Im 36 and in a relationship that I'm very unsure of. My boyfriend of 2 yrs can be sulky and childish and is never wrong. He wants us to have a child and I really want to start a family more than anything. He wont ever change an...
A. 31 December 2008: Instead of thinking, "should I have a child with him" Try to think of it in this sense " Do I want to be with this man all my life?" "Does he make me happy?" " How would he provide for a family if we decided on it." If you are thinking in the terms ... (read in full...)
Condom split and now I'm worried about pregnancy
Q. i started taking the pill, i wasnt fully on the all clear so i used a condom too, it split. i thort i was pregnant so i stopped taking it i then started to bleed, but not like a period. i got a few symptoms of pregnancy, tired feel sick etc, then a ...
A. 31 December 2008: As the last poste rsaid, it could be a number of things. It could be the way the birthcontrol pills affect you body, and it may just have to regulate. I could be that you were pregnant and had a miscarriage. It could also be signs of a tubal ... (read in full...)
My wife want's a mutual marriage. That is, she wants to date other men.
Q. My wife want's a mutual marriage. That is, she wants to date other men. She wants to find me a girl as well. It's crazy and weird. We live in the same house and have a year old child. I do not know what to do. I have always just wanted to be ma...
A. 31 December 2008: My personal expirence is with a mutual marriage, people are just living a lie. Putting on a face for society, family, maybe their children. My parents tried living like that since the time I was three, and I've remembered after all these years. My ... (read in full...)
Can you worry yourself sick?
Q. My boyfriend and I just broke up on Sunday and I have been worrying trying to figure out "What went wrong?" "What could I have done differently?" and such... because we seemed so happy together... I cried for 7 hours straight and only got 3 hours...
A. 31 December 2008: Oh yes! One can worry themselves sick, just like one can worry about being pregnant to the point where they are actually having pregnancy symptoms, even when they aren't pregnant. Until you make peace with yourself and try to move on (on your own ... (read in full...)
Could an STD affect my sex drive?
Q. dear cupid, i'm a 24 year old man and have always had a high sex drive but in recent months it has taking a bad turn for the worse, my penis hurts sometimes while having sex and my urine stings to sometimes and i think i might have an ...
A. 31 December 2008: Yes, as the other posts suggests, get to a doctor, it could be a UTI or it very well could be an STD. planned parenthood tests for free. Next time you have sex use a condom, and until you find out what's wrong with you, stay away from sex. Good luck ... (read in full...)
Used protection but could I be pregnant?
Q. Straight to the point - I had sex with my boyfriend a few weeks ago. We used condoms - No splits or anything, as far as I'm aware. I also recently just started the pill. And yet I have really sore breasts and the odd spotting, so could I be ...
A. 30 December 2008: Yes it is probably the birth control pills, but if you want to have a test, it could be helpful. More likely than not its the bc though! ^_~... (read in full...)
I'm being forced into marriage in India. Please help!!
Q. My parents have arranged a marriage with someone I really do not want to be with. He is 17yrs older than me, short, balding, overweight, unattractive and the few times I have been forced to sit with him I found him to have bad hygiene! I know people ...
A. 30 December 2008: It seems you are limited as to what you can do. What is you tell the man that you arranged to marry that you dont, and never could grow ot love him, tell him that your parents are forcing you to marry him, maybe he will have simpathy towards you and ... (read in full...)
Teen stuck at home, how to cope till college?
Q. I think I feel stuck or something. I'm 17 years old and I'm a junior in high school. Everything seems to be getting so old... My friends, how my days go, school, being a junior... I'm just sick of it all. I stay home all the time because the kind...
A. 30 December 2008: At seventeen I wanted the same thing. I know what its like to feel stuck in a rut. Often times, I didnt go to school because I was so depressed, and I had job where I was VERY over worked especially after six years of doing it. I can honestly tell ... (read in full...)
Should I shave in preparation for sex?
Q. So, me and my boyfriend are wanting to have sex sometime soon but I don't know if I should shave down there or not. Should I ask him or is it weird to ask your boyfriend something like that? Or do most guys like it shaved or just trimmed? Or leave ...
A. 30 December 2008: Ah! Don't worry honey! Wehter to trim it shave it or leave it bushy is kind of a " to each there own" type of deal. I think you should ask your boyfriend what he personally likes. Don't be nervous, if you can talk to him about sex you can talk ot ... (read in full...)
Male Thong
Q. I have been wearing a thong for the past 5 years and I find them very comfortable. I have many different colours. I am straight and have a girlfriend but she says only gays wear throngs and makes fun of me. Is it unnattural for a male to wear a ...
A. 29 December 2008: Hey darling! While it is unusual for males to wear thongs, it is not gay but more a preferance. The only reason more guys dont wear thongs in my opinion is because they things its "girly" or "gay", its all just a stereotype. If you like it and its ... (read in full...)
Pregnant? Could I be?
Q. let get to the point. i jerked him off, he cummed, he washed his hands, then fingered me. am i pregnant???...
A. 29 December 2008: Hi honey! Nope, there is not a chance in the world of you being pregnant. But I agree with the last post, you should take a sexual education class, or you can just ask your doctor for information, if not your parents. Becareful, and stay ... (read in full...)
Can a relationship survive if the girl can't spend the night?
Q. Help! I'm 27 years old living under my parents roof. I was raised strictly.. parents always say 'Let a man show you respect.' They would just flip if I were to call them and say.. 'I'm sleeping over so and so's house.' The guys that I've dated ...
A. 29 December 2008: Well honey, I strongly suggest, saving up to move out. You are an adult, you don't need their permission. However, its very respectful of you to not spend the night at a guys house, since you are living with your parents. (though i dont think yo... (read in full...)
Was this attempted rape?
Q. My boyfriend knows I want to stay a virgin till im married....but last night we did a lot...and normally we do that dry humping thing..well this time I had no clothes on and he had his boxers on...well I felt his hands down there and I didnt kn...
A. 29 December 2008: No way!!!!! He did not try to rape you! That was mis communication, you should have tld him you didnt want ot have sex, those words exactly, because what you just explained gave very mixed signals. If he was going ot rape you, then he would not have ... (read in full...)
We don't want this kid!
Q. I'm 19, a freshman in college and I'm five weeks pregnant. I know who the father is because he's the only one I've ever had sex with (he's 18 and still in high school), but I honestly don't want this kid and I definitely know he wouldn't, either. He ...
A. 29 December 2008: I understand every person should have a chace to live, but I also believe that the parents should too. Some people, just aren't ready to have a baby. I don't mean keeping it, I mean the actual pregnancy. You're young and have plenty of years to ... (read in full...)
He keeps saying would you do me?!
Q. right.. i have some friends and they have a brother and he keeps flirting with me and when we talk he asks me things like "would you do me?" and i don't know what to do, because i am only 13 and he is 16. he keeps asking me the same question...
A. 29 December 2008: Before you slap him across the face, I would kick him in the balls! Not only is thaT rude and horribly degrading to you, but you are thirteen and and he knows that!!! He has no respect for you despie your age, you should tell him to find a hooker if ... (read in full...)
We don't want this kid!
Q. I'm 19, a freshman in college and I'm five weeks pregnant. I know who the father is because he's the only one I've ever had sex with (he's 18 and still in high school), but I honestly don't want this kid and I definitely know he wouldn't, either. He ...
A. 29 December 2008: Hi honey! I know your most likely freaked out and scared, but calm down and try to think about options. There are basically two options, to have the baby and give it up for adoption, or to have an abortion. While I'm not sure of your beliefs here ... (read in full...)
How do I get over bad trust issues?
Q. Ok. This is a long one. I am a 20 year old girl, in a 2.5 relationship with my boyfriend. We have lived together for 10 months, and it has been going alright. I have severe trust issues, however I am working very hard on them. My boyfriend kissed ...
A. 22 December 2008: Hi there! I know what you are going through, I have trust issues, too. I'm nineteen and my boyfriend and I also rent a house togther. I have been cheated on by past boyfriends countless times, so for awhile I really toughened myself up. I basically ... (read in full...)
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