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writes:I have to make this quick because the girl I'm writing about is coming over in just a few minutes. I've known this absolutely amazing woman since we were just in diapers and I started falling for her in freshman year of high school. We're now both college graduates (although she's continuing to get her Master's in Nursing). Long story short, I want to let her know how I feel about her at midnight tonight. I just don't know how to go about doing that. Should I kiss her? But that might be too forward? Should I just tell her? That might mess up her year before it even starts! Just...what should I do!? Help is greatly appreciated! =] Reply to this Question
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reader, blackroses2989 +, writes (1 January 2009):
 Give her a New Year's kiss. See her reaction, tell her happy new year after you kiss her. Make your judgements by her actions, and make friendly conversation. Then When the moment is right, and you will know when, only then should you tell her how you feel. You hve nothing to lose. If she has been your friend for that long, she will be smart enough to stay friends if your feelings aren't reciprocated, although I'm sure they will be. Who knows maybe she was planning on kissing you at midnight too!!! 3 goodluck honey!!!! ^_~
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (1 January 2009):
 It's the new year. This gives you an excuse to kiss her :) I say go for it. You can judge her reaction from then but it's the perfect time to do it. Watch the ball drop and give her a kiss. She may ask why you did it, she may not. Just communicate with her about it. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2009): Kiss her.. This might be your lucky year..
Good luck
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reader, Flawless29 +, writes (1 January 2009):
I fell in love with my high school sweet heart, which I have known since 1997. Anyway it is very respectful that you are taking your time that is very sweet unlike some men. If you do not let this woman know how you feel you could be missing the best thing that ever could have happened to you. On the other hand if you tell her how you feel you could ruin a perfect friendship that you both have. Life is about taking chances, some could be good and others can be bad. I think you should just take a chance and let her no, because if you don't you would wonder for the rest of your life what could have happened. Step out on faith and let God do the rest. GOOD LUCK! HAAPPY NEW YEAR!
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