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I'm 13, I want this 20-year-old to like me, is this OK??
Q. So im 13 going to be 14 and theres this guy that i like but hes 20 and he always come over or we always text my uncle knows that i like him and he says im not supposed to but i seriously like this dude and we he always listens to my problems and ...
A. 6 August 2009: i know how you feel, im 14 and i really like this 18yo, hes lovely,hot, always looking out for me and just plain amazing lol. let me just say, its normal for you to have feelings for an older guy, we can't help who we like. and yeah flirt if you l... (read in full...)
How can I get my online GF to lose weight?
Q. I'm 13, I have a 12 year old girlfriend. She's wonderful. I love her very very much. The strange thing is she's a bit (not a lot), a bit overweight. I'm not a shallow boy that'll dump her because of this, but is there any way I could get her to lose ...
A. 14 July 2009: why does it bother you that he's a bit overweight. she might not eevn be overweight, her BMI could be average.... (read in full...)
Want to talk to him, but so scared, don't know what to say, please help?
Q. Hi I really really like this guy who is in the year above me at my school I'm in secondary school, but never had a boyfriend so i don't have alot of experience But I haven't talked to this guy for ages (Since October last year) (this is just beca...
A. 3 June 2009: have you got his msn or facebook or anything? if so then just start a convo with him or something, just casual conversation with him. if not then just whenever you see him just say hello and build it up from there. just go for it girl :) x ... (read in full...)
Stuck and don't know what to do now... any advice?
Q. hi, i recently told a guy i fancied him by email then then after a few days we had a convo on msn that went like this: (23:02) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: heya (23:02) -: hi (23:03) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: ta 4 the email (23:04) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: u going 2 the qui...
A. 3 June 2009: well, i dont need to know about sexual poses anymore, i took the photos and sent him them so i need to know how to kiss properly now cos we're gonna kiss on fiday at lunchtime. ... (read in full...)
Stuck and don't know what to do now... any advice?
Q. hi, i recently told a guy i fancied him by email then then after a few days we had a convo on msn that went like this: (23:02) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: heya (23:02) -: hi (23:03) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: ta 4 the email (23:04) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: u going 2 the qui...
A. 3 June 2009: look fair enough if you think that but i really dont agree, he's lovely, he really is. anway i've made a deal with him now, im taking some revealling photos of myself and he's going to kiss me. so i need advice on how to kiss, it will be my first... (read in full...)
Stuck and don't know what to do now... any advice?
Q. hi, i recently told a guy i fancied him by email then then after a few days we had a convo on msn that went like this: (23:02) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: heya (23:02) -: hi (23:03) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: ta 4 the email (23:04) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: u going 2 the qui...
A. 2 June 2009: what so just because i really really really like this one guy, im gonna get a reputation!? ... (read in full...)
Stuck and don't know what to do now... any advice?
Q. hi, i recently told a guy i fancied him by email then then after a few days we had a convo on msn that went like this: (23:02) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: heya (23:02) -: hi (23:03) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: ta 4 the email (23:04) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: u going 2 the qui...
A. 2 June 2009: i dont actually have that much of a reputation acttually pebble.
and q1605, i cant cut the brake lines in her car, im 14, she's 15, we dont drive.
though i would shag him, not sure about pictures tho lol. he's not really the type to cheat tho so i... (read in full...)
Stuck and don't know what to do now... any advice?
Q. hi, i recently told a guy i fancied him by email then then after a few days we had a convo on msn that went like this: (23:02) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: heya (23:02) -: hi (23:03) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: ta 4 the email (23:04) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: u going 2 the qui...
A. 2 June 2009: but i am fair game for anything.
is there not anything i can do to get them to split up quicker or just shag him or anything?... (read in full...)
Stuck and don't know what to do now... any advice?
Q. hi, i recently told a guy i fancied him by email then then after a few days we had a convo on msn that went like this: (23:02) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: heya (23:02) -: hi (23:03) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: ta 4 the email (23:04) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: u going 2 the qui...
A. 30 May 2009: he didnt say he'd let me know when he was single, i told him to let me know when he's next single. ... (read in full...)
Stuck and don't know what to do now... any advice?
Q. hi, i recently told a guy i fancied him by email then then after a few days we had a convo on msn that went like this: (23:02) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: heya (23:02) -: hi (23:03) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: ta 4 the email (23:04) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: u going 2 the qui...
A. 30 May 2009: pebble, no he's not that sort of person. he's just a bit of a flirt. ... (read in full...)
Stuck and don't know what to do now... any advice?
Q. hi, i recently told a guy i fancied him by email then then after a few days we had a convo on msn that went like this: (23:02) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: heya (23:02) -: hi (23:03) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: ta 4 the email (23:04) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: u going 2 the qui...
A. 30 May 2009: right, sorry i didnt think it was confusing. this is the conversation we had after i sent him an email telling him i fancied him. sorry if its hard to understand, i copied and pasted it from my msn chat log.
so he is the one with the girlfriend and ... (read in full...)
Stuck and don't know what to do now... any advice?
Q. hi, i recently told a guy i fancied him by email then then after a few days we had a convo on msn that went like this: (23:02) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: heya (23:02) -: hi (23:03) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: ta 4 the email (23:04) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: u going 2 the qui...
A. 30 May 2009: he doesnt randomly say penis, i dont like that word and it makes me go all giggly and stuff so he always says it to annoy me. its just something we do.
and sorry if it was confusing, i thought it made sense, sorry. right the jist is that he has ... (read in full...)
I was just about to tell him how I felt but he went and got a new girlfriend!
Q. I have a problem. I really like this guy called Will. he is 15 and i am 14. I have liked him for a year-ish and at first he knew because my friends told him but we didnt really talk too much so nothing developed and i think he sort of got creeped o...
A. 29 May 2009: i sent him an email telling him i fancy him and then we were chatting on msn just normally but when we were talking about the email he said stuff like:
'ta 4 the email'
'thats kool though, it takes some balls to tell people these things, so i res... (read in full...)
I was just about to tell him how I felt but he went and got a new girlfriend!
Q. I have a problem. I really like this guy called Will. he is 15 and i am 14. I have liked him for a year-ish and at first he knew because my friends told him but we didnt really talk too much so nothing developed and i think he sort of got creeped o...
A. 27 May 2009: ahh ok thanks, i will :) ... (read in full...)
I was just about to tell him how I felt but he went and got a new girlfriend!
Q. I have a problem. I really like this guy called Will. he is 15 and i am 14. I have liked him for a year-ish and at first he knew because my friends told him but we didnt really talk too much so nothing developed and i think he sort of got creeped o...
A. 27 May 2009: so, tell him now or when he splits up with his gf cos that could be ages :S ... (read in full...)
My "friendly" hot water bottle!!!
Q. Hi, I recently posted a question about wanting to masturbate but not having a sex toy. Well I found a solution in a massaging hot water bottle, I used the massaging part where you put the batteries, it looks and works like a vibrator. Well I used t...
A. 19 April 2009: right so you're suggesting that a 14 year old girl should go find a penis!? and i didn't cut my vaginal wall and how would i push air into my vagina?
thankyou satindesire for decent advice, but is it normal that i didnt feel pain either?... (read in full...)
14 yo girl and no access to sex toys.
Q. hi, my name is B and i'm 14. :) recently i have been very horny and sexual :P i have been playing with myself and fantasizing but it hasn't been getting me off properly :( i was just wondering how i could masturbate and make myself cum? i hav...
A. 17 April 2009: hi guys, i solved the problem. i bought a massaging hot water bottle and the massaging bit that you take out and put the batteries into looks like a vibrator. so i used it. its so easy to use so i used it on my clit, in my hole and in my anus. its a ... (read in full...)
I want to ask him out but afraid he'd say no. What should I do?
Q. Well i think this lad may like me, we have known each other for about 2 years, he was always trying to sit next to me, hes always smirking at me, i get some dirty texts but he says its his mates, we can stay on the phone for 3 hours when i go to bed ...
A. 17 April 2009: ask him how he feels about you and tell him how you feel if you both like eachother then go for it.... (read in full...)
How can I lessen my period pains each month?
Q. Does anyone know a good remedy for period pains as I get it really bad. I'm no good with pills and that's all the doctor precribed but she didn't listen to the fact that I CANNOT swallow pills. It's just I'm on really heavy and for ages as well and...
A. 16 April 2009: i have a history of seizures tho as do some of my family. and many of my family did not respond well to the pill. i need to help with the pain, i don't need birth control, its a mental thing anyway about not being able to swallow pills.... (read in full...)
How can I lessen my period pains each month?
Q. Does anyone know a good remedy for period pains as I get it really bad. I'm no good with pills and that's all the doctor precribed but she didn't listen to the fact that I CANNOT swallow pills. It's just I'm on really heavy and for ages as well and...
A. 15 April 2009: i refuse to go on the pill because of side affects. i'm just no good with tablets, i can't swallow them, its a big problem. ... (read in full...)
Will it work out if he does like me?
Q. Im a 13 year old girl who is unconditionally and irrevocably in love with a teacher (24 yrs.).He is so fine!!!!!!! His blue eyes hypnotize me. He doesn't teach one class. He fills in a class when a teacher is out and when a teacher leaves for a long ...
A. 15 April 2009: no he's a teacher and thats all he is being, a teacher. forget about it.... (read in full...)
You just can't do this when you have children!!!
Q. Okay so my dad is taking my brother on holiday. He said me and my sister wouldn't enjoy it as much as my brother and he wasn't allowed extra people so we couldn't come, but now he's invited my brother's friend and his dad without telling us! I found ...
A. 14 April 2009: why don't you go somewhere with your mum. and maybe talk to your dad about how you feel. but maybe it is something you won't enjoy and a guy trip. guys need guy time and girls need girl time. ... (read in full...)
My bf is 7 yrs older than me and I know it's illegal for us to date. Is he worth it?? Please read xxx
Q. i am currently going out with a 21 year old and im only 13 (he was 20 when we started seeing eachother) the thing is he hasnt pressured me into anything and ive never felt this way before. i know about his past and everything ive spoken 2 his cous...
A. 13 April 2009: please please please listen to this advice. it's good advice and deep down you must know its right. why would you ask for advice if you don't want to know what people think. i'm 14 and i couldn't deal with everything you've been doing. just please ... (read in full...)
Do Virgo men take an awfully long time to open up and trust women?
Q. I have been in love with a man since last summer. I made my feelings towards him fairly clear but at Christmas he said he could only offer me friendship, despite the fact that he was sending messages to indicate he wanted more. I decided I would de...
A. 13 April 2009: oh come on star signs mean nothing! ... (read in full...)
My bf is 7 yrs older than me and I know it's illegal for us to date. Is he worth it?? Please read xxx
Q. i am currently going out with a 21 year old and im only 13 (he was 20 when we started seeing eachother) the thing is he hasnt pressured me into anything and ive never felt this way before. i know about his past and everything ive spoken 2 his cous...
A. 13 April 2009: you probably know that this relationship is wrong. hon ey, you're under-age, it just seems odd that he could be attracted to you when there is this large age gap. and if its not going right then its not meant to be anyway. girl, you should be datin... (read in full...)
Lacking self confidence and belief due to ginger hair
Q. OK, I have just turned 19, I am male, around 6"1 and finishing my first year at uni. Almost every day, since I was about 13, I am self concious about my appearance due to my ginger hair. Usually when I'm with my friends I just forget about it ...
A. 12 April 2009: hey. i know what you mean. i'm also ginger. just take the sly comments as a joke. and you will find someone who loves you as you are. appearance isn't everything. just have confidence. if you like someone, give it a shot. don't dye your hair! us ... (read in full...)
Underage sex with someone who is under aged too and I could be pregnant. Please HELP!!!
Q. My next door neighbor is 14 years old and he and I have been dating for about 6 months. He used to just finger me but, a month ago I lost my virginity to him. We have sex early everyday cos both our parents aren't home when we get home from school, ...
A. 11 April 2009: but you're 16-17 right? aren't you legally allowed to have sex now?... (read in full...)
Signs when someone is gay??
Q. I think my friend could be gay. What are the signs that he is?...
A. 11 April 2009: does it really matter? if he is gay then its up to him when he wants to tell people and you shouldn't be forcing him out! but seriously would you care if he was gay cos if that's affecting you then you really are being a *** friend! if he's gay then ... (read in full...)
Should I write him a note?
Q. Hey there! So there's this boy, he's only a year older than me (or so..) and I met him in my art class at the beginning of the semester. He now sits at my table with my two good friends and we have a lot of fun as a group. I like him, a lot, but...
A. 11 April 2009: i wrote a note to the person that i like. its not childish. its an easy way out if your not good at actually telling someone face to face. hand it to him yourself though. at least everything will be out in the open. include that you like him but ... (read in full...)
Virginity, boys, love, lust and lost!
Q. Well I feel like I can't get someone. People say I'm pretty but I'm not and I know and they know. I don't know what to do because I feel like burying my head. I'm still a virgin at 17 and my ex already lost his. I feel like it's a competition but ...
A. 11 April 2009: your life can't be that bad just cos your a virgin! it should be something to be proud of cos your not a s**** who lost it at 12! what's the rush anyway, what if you lose it and then meet someone and fall in love with him, wouldn't you want your ... (read in full...)
They say horrible things about me making me feel totally unloved and unattractive!
Q. Heyy. i'm probably being stupid but well i just feel really self- concious and unconfident. well i have a bit of a slutty past and i admit that but a few of my friends constantly call me a whore etc and won't let it drop about my past and who've i...
A. 11 April 2009: they are my freinds though, they stuck with me through everything i've gone through. but they're just annoying. like im a christian yeah and ive said i wont have sex till im married but they are all like yeah whatever you'll be first you probably ... (read in full...)
Periods becoming lighter and lighter...could I be pregnant?
Q. I'm 15 nearly 16 and at the end of november my boyfriend entered me. It happend before I knew it he went in for a couple of seconds like twice, he didn't come in me. I knew it was likely i wasn't pregnant i'm normally late anyway. And I was worried ...
A. 8 April 2009: put your mind at rest. get a test. ... (read in full...)
Can all girls get a tampon on?
Q. Hey am 15 and I was wondering if all girls can get a tampon in. I have tried many times and I still cannot fit it in but my bf can fit his finger sort of in. Is this something I should be concerned of. Is this abnormal?...
A. 8 April 2009: you just need to relax when you put it in. and be in the right position. it may be helpful to read the instructions too. as obvious as it sounds.... (read in full...)
Is this good or bad? I'm not quite sure.
Q. Hi a randomly odd question but i just want to know. i was hanging out with my friends and my friends brother just turned to me and said "i can't read you at times" not in a nasty way just stating that i am a difficult person to read. Is t...
A. 7 April 2009: just ask him what he meant. ... (read in full...)
Proper grammar please!!!
Q. this is not to do with relationships or anything like that but i just had to point it out: why doesn't anybody use grammar properly on this website or anywhere else! nobody seems to know the difference between to and too or between there, they're ...
A. 26 March 2009: kellyxxx, well I did not mean for it too sound critisising, and, as I have said i was just making a poinnt, and did not mean to offend anyone. I just wondered what people thought about this. And yes maybe i should have posted it somewhere else. ... (read in full...)
Proper grammar please!!!
Q. this is not to do with relationships or anything like that but i just had to point it out: why doesn't anybody use grammar properly on this website or anywhere else! nobody seems to know the difference between to and too or between there, they're ...
A. 26 March 2009: 1) I understand that, and that is not what I am saying. I understand that there are people incapable of using grammar properly, and not at one point did I say that they should not recieve advice. I was simply stating something that I have noticed.
2... (read in full...)
Proper grammar please!!!
Q. this is not to do with relationships or anything like that but i just had to point it out: why doesn't anybody use grammar properly on this website or anywhere else! nobody seems to know the difference between to and too or between there, they're ...
A. 26 March 2009: i'm not critising the poeple on here. i know they are helping people and that some people dont care about grammar. so dont call me a selfish irritating person. i am certainly not selfish, i spend all my spare time round my mates cos she has cancer, ... (read in full...)
Threesome...the ins and outs!
Q. This is embarrassing. I am an attractive woman and my boyfriend and I have decided on a threesome with another guy. We've got that part settled. My boyfriend says that since this is a first for us all (the 2nd guy too) we should make sure what we ...
A. 26 March 2009: i'm sorry yeah but some of you are not even answering her question. she came onto this site for advice so thats what she should get. dont reply with snide comments like 'if you don't care about your personal relationship with your boyfriend then go ... (read in full...)
Teen mums!
Q. I'd just like to know your opinions on "teen mums". If the legal age to have sex (in the UK) is 16, why do parents age 16-20 get frowned upon? Also what age do you think is appropriate to be a grandparent? ...
A. 25 March 2009: i agree with what others have said but just thouht i'd say that my nan was a nan at 34! and my mum ot prenant a 17 and she doesnt reret it one bit, my sister was the makin of her. so it depends really. its all an opinion thin tbh :)... (read in full...)
Help needed!!! Do I tell him how I feel... or do I just remain friends with him?
Q. I'm 14, I go to church and have met a really nice guy there, he is 16. We have been good friends for a few months and have become really close, it may sound stupid but I think I'm in love with him. We hang around a lot and always just goof around ...
A. 24 March 2009: i asked him how he felt and he said that at the moment he only sees me as a good friend and he really wants to be a close friend without anything getting in the way.
i really like him, it fully sucks, i cant get over him though like i have with... (read in full...)
Help needed!!! Do I tell him how I feel... or do I just remain friends with him?
Q. I'm 14, I go to church and have met a really nice guy there, he is 16. We have been good friends for a few months and have become really close, it may sound stupid but I think I'm in love with him. We hang around a lot and always just goof around ...
A. 19 March 2009: its really not lust though. and all he said was that he didnt want a girlfrend, we've never really discussed how we feel about eachother. ... (read in full...)
Help needed!!! Do I tell him how I feel... or do I just remain friends with him?
Q. I'm 14, I go to church and have met a really nice guy there, he is 16. We have been good friends for a few months and have become really close, it may sound stupid but I think I'm in love with him. We hang around a lot and always just goof around ...
A. 18 March 2009: he knows how i feel, i gave him valentines card and he was cool with the whole thing. i want to know how he feels because he gives me very different impressions and i'm not sure how he really feels. i'm talking to him on sunday about everything and ... (read in full...)
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